In the past, I always wanted to be perfect in the workplace, for fear that someone would not like me. Fear of being left out in the cold, bothering to enter a circle that you don't like, fear of offending people, and seeking compromise.
Think everywhere, be careful everywhere, just to get a little affirmation. At this time, I hung the sense of responsibility on the side, as if it was the only sign of success.
However, as the years passed, I learned something about the workplace. In this world, no matter how good you are, some people are dissatisfied, and no matter how true you are, some people are disgusted. So, I thought about opening it, and I didn't necessarily want to take anyone else.
People who are destined are warm without words;People who have no fate are speechless for each other. If you can't get into your heart, let him go away from your workplace life. For the rest of my life, I would rather be lonely than go against my heart, and I would rather regret than compromise.
Zhuangzi said: "The one who emphasizes is the most noble." "No longer catering to anyone, life is short for decades, there is no need to invite owners into the workplace, and it is far better to focus on real work and face the challenges of the workplace with a more relaxed attitude.
People in the workplace do not necessarily have too much sense of responsibility. Responsibility is good, but excessive responsibility tends to overburden us and become breathless. We are not superhuman, we don't have to take all the responsibilities, we don't have to be anxious about being evaluated by everyone.
To refuse internal friction in the workplace is to be responsible for yourself. Don't get overwhelmed by trivial things, and don't let other people's accusations shake your direction. This life is a marathon, you don't have to be in a short cycle, but you have to pay attention to your rhythm and physical strength.
Now, I live more calmly. No longer worry about the so-called workplace disputes, and no longer care about the eyes of others. Walking is not tired, the feet know;Well lived, the heart knows. The workplace is not good like a battlefield, so I choose to travel lightly, focus on my true self, stay away from the fashion circle consumed in the workplace, and go out to live a more relaxed life.
Life is too short, so why let the workplace be a burden to us?Remember, the more relaxed you are, the better you can be in the workplace and the more you can shine.