My girlfriend cried and wanted to go with me, but she was disgusted by her mother, so don t bully th

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-28

My girlfriend cried and wanted to go with me, but she was disgusted by her mother, so don't bully the poor boy

At the end of 2007, my girlfriend Yang Ting and I decided to resign from our jobs at Shenzhen Guanlan Chenglin Sanitary Ware Company. We have submitted our resignation and will only need to wait seven days for our resignation to be officially released. Compared to the current requirement of a month's notice, the flexible resignation policy at that time gave us more freedom to choose a few more days off.

I revealed my plans to get engaged to Yang Ting to my grandmother, and she was very happy and said that she would personally meet me at the county bus station and look forward to meeting my future daughter-in-law. Considering my grandmother's physical condition, I decided not to let her go to the station in person, but to wait for my news at home.

After submitting my resignation, I started struggling to buy train tickets. I queued up twice at the ticket office, and each time I got to the window, I was told that it was sold out. In desperation, I had no choice but to buy scalper tickets, which were 50 yuan or 100 yuan more than the original price.

Scalper ticket sales outlets include supermarket counters, photo studios, and even train ticket shops, which require an additional fee to buy tickets. I plan to buy three train tickets, one for me, one for Yang Ting, and one for her sister. Eventually, I chose to buy my tickets at the supermarket counter, paid a deposit for three tickets, and waited for a follow-up notice.

On the second day, I couldn't wait to call the supermarket counter and ask if I had successfully purchased the train ticket, because I wanted to get home early. The counter staff replied that I would be notified as soon as a ticket was available. At noon on the third day, the person at the supermarket counter called** and told me that I already had a ticket. I immediately went to pay the balance and managed to get the tickets for the three of us.

When my resignation expired, I went to Guanlan Bus Station with Yang Ting and her sister, took a bus to Guangzhou Liuhua Bus Station, and then changed to a train to Guangzhou Railway Station. Due to the difficulty of obtaining a train from Shenzhen to Xi'an and the limited frequency of the train, we had to choose to change trains in Guangzhou.

It costs 75 yuan to take a bus from Guanlan Bus Station to Guangzhou, and it usually takes about three hours to get there. Liuhua Bus Station is not far from Guangzhou Station, and vehicles often stop outside the station, and vehicles can only get off after entering the station. When they got off the train, some people approached them, claiming that they could get on the train early by paying 20 yuan, and offered to help carry their luggage to the train station. In view of the fact that we had a lot of luggage, I paid 60 yuan to one of them.

The guy pulled our luggage to the train station, handed us three tickets and said we could go to the queue first and someone would guide us to the train. When we lined up to enter the station, I showed my ticket to the station security guard, but I was told that everyone had to enter the station in unison, and there was no priority.

I realized that I had been deceived, and that I was not the only one who had been deceived. The security guard provided the train station on duty** and advised us to be aware and avoid being deceived again.

The station was filled with people carrying backpacks, bags, and buckets, as well as people carrying children, carrying children, and carrying burdens, and the crowd poured into the station. It wasn't until after two o'clock in the afternoon that we were able to make a pit stop. The carriage was crowded, crowded with people, and the situation was chaotic.

Since the windows of the green train can be opened, many people do not go through the main entrance to get into the car as soon as possible, but directly through the window in order to get into the preemptive position. The people who were outside assisted in stuffing the luggage into the compartment and climbed in themselves.

After getting on the bus, the shelves, under the seats, and in the aisles were piled up with luggage, and the aisles were full of passengers who did not have seat tickets. There were all kinds of smells in the carriage, and I leaned against the window, which I could open. The three of us took the K82 train from Guangzhou to Xi'an.

As the whistle sounded, the train shook slightly, then shook again, and slowly moved forward. Guangzhou is gradually moving away, and the hometown is gradually getting closer.

After the train is running steadily, the conductor patrols the carriage with a horn and reminds passengers who have not purchased tickets to make up their tickets as soon as possible. Soon, seven or eight people got on the bus to make up for the ticket, and it became a mystery to know when and how to get on the bus. Towels, chewing gum, toothbrushes, toys and other souvenirs are sold on the bus, and they don't take long to go.

Due to too much luggage, perhaps due to exhaustion, I fell asleep in my seat shortly after. After being woken up, it was the ticket inspector who came to check the ticket.

After the check, I couldn't sleep again for a while, so I decided to go to the bathroom. The aisles were crowded with people, and it was difficult to walk. As soon as I stood up, a companion, tired from standing, quickly sat down in the seat I had just vacated, claiming that I would give you a seat when I came. The other ticket passengers hurriedly moved their bodies, so that the vacated seats quickly found a new owner.

To use the toilet on the train, you have to wait in line for up to an hour. Some people were so unbearable that several men got together, formed a shielding wall, unbuttoned their pants to urinate in a bottle, then closed the lid and threw it in the trash.

After returning to my seat, I told Yang Ting and her sister to try to get to the toilet as quickly as possible, as it would take an hour to queue. As soon as the two of them went, the two people who were standing on the ticket immediately sat down, and the person who had occupied my seat before saw me coming back and immediately gave up his seat.

Around ten o'clock in the evening, we could only eat instant noodles. It wasn't until noon the next day that I had the opportunity to eat a full meal. Normally, people who push carts to sell food on the train can move freely, but this is not the case, because the carts can't get in at all, and it is difficult to push.

This meal at noon was the three buckets of instant noodles I bought when I got off the train and went to the platform when the train stopped. The instant noodles were sold by an aunt in her fifties, and her car was full of all kinds of food and a large pot of boiling water. Buy a bucket of instant noodles and she will brew a bucket for you, ** for 5 yuan.

Due to the limited time the train stops, the conductor kept urging the passengers to return to the carriage. One of the young people bought a bucket of instant noodles and wanted another egg. After the aunt handed him the eggs, he didn't have time to pay when the train door slammed shut. The aunt waved desperately through the window, but the train had already started.

This sister-in-law was originally doing business in Mianxian County, Hanzhong, but because of the recession in business, she has been back for more than a year.

When approaching the Xi'an Railway Station, my sister-in-law called me ** and asked how long it would take to get to the station. She and her second uncle were already waiting at the station, and the second uncle was working at the construction site in Xi'an. Maybe my grandmother was happy and wanted to see her granddaughter-in-law, so she told my sister-in-law and second uncle that I was going to go back with my girlfriend.

Yang Ting, a native of Zhouzhi County, Shaanxi Province, was advised by her sister to go back to their home first to meet her parents. My sister-in-law and second uncle thought that this suggestion made sense, so they agreed that I should go first, and they went back on their own.

From Xi'an Railway Station to Zhouzhi County, you need to take a bus and then transfer to a taxi. When I got home, I found that I had brought Yang Ting's lockbox missing. It was nine o'clock in the evening.

Yang Ting's family is building a house and temporarily living in the old house. Her mother cooked some food and entertained us. At night, Yang Ting slept with her mother, and I spent the night with her father. Her mother asked me about my family, and I answered truthfully. She was quite satisfied with me, but she was worried that my family had no parents, and the house was adobe, and she was afraid that her daughter would suffer with me. She expressed her gratitude, saying that it would be good to treat her daughter as if she were her own sister.

I understood that my aunt might have some concerns because my family's financial situation was not rich, and politely rejected my wish to be with Yang Ting.

Later, Yang Ting's sister explained to me her mother's intentions.

The next morning, I was ready to pack up and leave. My aunt and uncle stopped me and said I'd leave after eating.

I forced a smile and reluctantly finished my meal at her house.

The aunt called Yang Ting aside and talked a lot. Yang Ting couldn't help but start rubbing her eyes. I turned my head, not wanting to cry myself because I saw her cry.

After breakfast, I told my aunt that I planned to go back early and go to the bus station to find Yang Ting's lockbox. I carried my luggage, and my aunt took me to the side of the road at the entrance of the village, where I took a ride to the county seat of Zhouzhi.

After getting off the bus, I rushed to the bus station to find the staff, told them what happened to the lost luggage, and provided the license plate number. Although the car was found, the lost luggage was never recovered. I left my phone number and was ready to leave. At this time, Yang Ting called me ** and asked me if I was **.

After seeing her, I was frustrated to tell her that the luggage was not found.

When I was about to go home, Yang Ting asked me, "Don't you want your bag?""That's when I realized that there was still a backpack in her house. Actually, she could have brought her backpack to the station, but she didn't, perhaps wanting me to go back to her house. So, I went back to her house.

Her family was building a house, and I helped for a while, but my aunt wouldn't let me interfere.

I barely stayed at her house for another night, and early the next morning, I sneaked away with my suitcase. After walking a short distance, someone called me, and when I looked back, it was Yang Ting who rubbed her eyes and chased after me. She ran over and hugged me and said, "What are you doing here, my mother doesn't want us to be together, so I'll just do it." "I couldn't hold back my tears anymore.

I told Yang Ting that the situation in my family is indeed like this, and I can't blame my aunt. If there is a chance, let's continue the frontier. The aunt caught up from behind and dragged Yang Ting to her home.

Unexpectedly, Yang Ting finally caught up. The aunt was not at ease and asked Yang Ting's 13-year-old brother to follow. So, I took Yang Ting and her younger brother back to our hometown in Wugong County.

When my grandmother saw me carrying Yang Ting home, she stepped forward and held her hand, and asked curiously. My house is made up of three adobe houses, and the gate is so dilapidated that I have to use two bundles of corn stalks against the door. As soon as Yang Ting's younger brother entered the house, he looked around with great interest. After lunch, her brother was ready to go home. At the time of parting, the grandmother generously gave Yang Ting and her younger brother a red envelope of 100 yuan each. Yang Ting resolutely refused to accept it, and forced the red envelope back into her grandmother's hand, while her younger brother accepted it.

When I took her and my brother to the bus station, I didn't start pacing home until they got on the bus back to Zhouzhi County.

When Yang Ting's younger brother returned, he immediately told his mother what he had seen. He told his mother that my sister's boyfriend's family lived in an adobe house, and there was no gate, middle gate, or second gate, but two bundles of corn stalks on top of the door. When his mother heard about this, she firmly opposed Yang Ting's relationship with me.

Because Yang Ting's mother was busy with affairs, she was worried that she would not be able to see Yang Ting sometimes, so she went to Wugong County to look for me in person. She sent Yang Ting to my sister-in-law's house, hoping that my sister-in-law would take care of her. Yang Ting told my sister-in-law about our experience in detail, and begged her to support her to find me. The sister-in-law was deeply moved and said, "A lover is easy to ask for priceless treasures, you better go to him, don't tell your mother." ”

Just as I was chopping wood in the yard, I suddenly heard someone shouting my name. Looking back, it turned out to be Yang Ting, which made me extremely excited and very surprised. Grandma hurriedly invited her to the house, and the neighbors also walked in, talking one after another: "Zhang Zhanjiang, you are really blessed, such a beautiful girl is willing to be with you, you have to treat others well in the future." ”

Yang Ting played at my house for a few days, and I persuaded her to go back so that her mother was not worried. I told her that this kind of thing can be done slowly, and if there is fate, we will be together sooner or later. Under my persuasion, Yang Ting finally returned home.

After seeing Yang Ting away, I stopped by the supermarket where my sister-in-law was. My sister-in-law has been working in this supermarket for more than a year, after all, the business at home in Mian County, Hanzhong is not very good.

What a coincidence, even I couldn't believe it. It turned out that when she learned that Yang Ting had gone to Wugong County to look for me, her mother personally brought her eldest sister and younger brother to come together, intending to take her daughter back. However, because Yang Ting's younger brother, that is, my brother-in-law, did not know the way very clearly, he asked questions along the way.

I was also very surprised to see my aunt. I first introduced my sister-in-law to my aunt and then to them. When asked why her aunt was here, Yang Ting's mother said angrily: "I want to ask you, is my Yang Ting still at your house?"I replied, "Yang Ting went back a few days ago." ”

My aunt obviously didn't believe my answer, she insisted that she hadn't seen Yang Ting, and asked me to go back to her house and look for it together to confirm the situation. Later, I learned that Yang Ting's younger brother took his mother and eldest sister and relied on his memories to try to find my house, but after searching for a whole day without results, he finally happened to meet me at night.

When I got home, Yang Ting's mother stopped her solemnly, and before I could figure out the situation, I heard two loud slaps. Yang Ting left two palm prints on her face, but she didn't speak. I pushed her aside, stood in front of her and said, "Auntie, it's me who is wrong, don't be angry, it's all me who caused trouble, I'll leave now." ”

I glanced at Yang Ting, and had no choice but to turn around and walk out.

As soon as I walked to her door, her father stopped me, saying that it was too late, there was no car, and that he suggested leaving tomorrow. I said it didn't matter, you could take a taxi. My uncle forcibly stopped me, and Yang Ting also cried and said, "Don't go back, let's leave tomorrow." "That night, I spent another night with my uncle.

The next morning, I decided to leave without eating, because I really didn't want to face my uncle and aunt anymore, considering that my family was really not wealthy, and I also had to think about Yang Ting's parents.

Coincidentally, Yang Ting's little uncle also came and scolded me for beating Yang Ting for something, saying that it is normal for men and women to fall in love, and at the same time expressed many words of understanding. It was probably Yang Ting's sister-in-law who asked him to come and persuade her aunt.

When I was about to leave, my aunt stopped me and said that there was something to talk to me about.

My aunt pulled me aside and said, "Son, what are you doing?"Running around, this is a big deal, you have to at least let your family discuss it, you can't have such an attitude. ”

I realized that there seemed to be hope for my marriage to Yang Ting.

I immediately called my aunt ** and explained the situation in detail. The aunt was very happy when she heard this, and asked the eldest uncle and the third master to hurry over. After waiting for about two hours, my eldest uncle and third master finally came here. After discussion between the two parties, the bride price and other aspects were negotiated. My marriage with Yang Ting seems to have been decided.

The aunt said: "There is indeed a problem with your house, it is best to build the house before getting married, and the two children can go out to work first, and then talk about it when the situation is stable." ”

I was relieved by all of this.

After the Chinese New Year, I took the initiative to contact Li Yuanpeng, a fellow villager who had worked together at the Chenglin factory, and he was also preparing to go to Shenzhen to work. I told him that my village was near the county seat and that I was going to go to the county seat to book a train ticket. So, I helped Li Yuanpeng order three train tickets together, which were my own, Yang Ting's, and Li Yuanpeng's.

Our train ticket was to arrive in Guangzhou, and then we came to Longhua together and started looking for work.

In Longhua, there are Sanhe Referral Office and Longguan Referral Office. Due to the large number of people looking for jobs during the Chinese New Year, some good large factories also have relatively high requirements for workers.

After learning about the situation at Longguan Introduction, we found that many factories stipulate that two girls can bring a boy into the factory, or hire one girl and one boy. Unable to find the right opportunity, we turned to Sanwa Agency, but the results were equally disappointing.

Suddenly, I remembered my former colleague Wang Shun, who was from Henan and worked at Foxconn. I got in touch with him.

Wang Shun told me that there is a small agency near the south gate of Foxconn, although it is not quite like a traditional agency, and there is not even an office, but it only costs 300 yuan to help you enter Foxconn to work. After listening, we paid the money, and the agent arranged a place to stay for us and said that he would take us to the interview in a few days. The accommodation fee is 20 yuan per day, which needs to be paid once a day.

However, after three days, there was still no sign that we had been scheduled for an interview. My fellow countryman Li Yuanpeng went to question and asked when he could enter the factory. The agent promised to wait another day, but it turned out to be another day after day, until three full days later, the agent took us to Foxconn's recruitment office.

We waited at the entrance of the recruitment office all morning, and the talent of the agency slowly came out and said that the girl went to the interview first, and the boy continued to wait. My girlfriend then went to the factory.

After a while, the intermediary reappeared, saying that Foxconn would not recruit male workers for the time being, but Foxconn had a miscellaneous board factory that could go to work first and have the opportunity to transfer to Foxconn in the future. If you don't want to, you can choose to leave. After discussing with Li Yuanpeng, I decided to give it a try.

After entering this so-called Foxconn-owned factory, I found that this is a factory specializing in making bottom plates, and its main job is to disassemble the nails on it, which has nothing to do with Foxconn. After thinking about it, Li Yuanpeng and I decided to continue working first, after all, it is not easy to find a job, maybe we can enter Foxconn in a few days. We were assigned to the night shift, and each was given a crowbar to hammer the nails on it.

The next day, I called Yang Ting and asked if her condition was stable. She told me that the dormitory and workshop had been divided and that she had already started to work.

We have been waiting for a reply from the intermediary. The agent repeatedly postponed, saying that he would wait a few more days, and said that he could also get paid to work there, and it was not for nothing. Li Yuanpeng and I were dissatisfied with this and decided to find a boss to resign. The boss told us that we would have to wait for a full month before we could pay our salaries, and we had an argument with Li Yuanpeng, and finally we had no choice but to give up and leave with our luggage.

We approached the agent again, but the agent said that he could not arrange for us to enter Foxconn for the time being, and refused to return our money. Later, a man claiming to be a big intermediary appeared and announced that dozens of people would enter Foxconn tomorrow. So, the agent added the two of us to the list.

To enter Foxconn, you need to take an exam, and Li Yuanpeng successfully passed. However, during the ID card check, because my ID card** did not match my current appearance, I was turned away and could not enter Foxconn with Yang Ting and Li Yuanpeng to work.

I went to the agent, but I was still reluctant to return the money. In the case of my constant pestering, the agent finally only refunded me 200 yuan. Feeling a little hopeless, the next day I went to Sanhe Agency to look for a job. The people around me privately talked about the high salary of the Jianda Tire Factory, so I paid the 200 yuan I returned last time as the registration fee, and I was ready to try to enter.

At noon, a van came by, usually with a maximum seat of seven or eight people, but this time it was packed with fifteen or sixteen people. Each person is required to pay 30 yuan for the fare, which will not be refunded if the interview is not passed, but the intermediary fee of 200 yuan can be refunded.

However, due to the fact that the photo on my ID card did not match my current appearance, I was brushed down again and was not able to enter this tire factory. With little money on me, I could barely eat two meals. The next morning, I arrived at the information center early. In the interview with Longgang Sakata KTC Computer, I was rejected again because of the ID card problem.

At that time, most people still had first-generation ID cards. I had to turn to my sister-in-law and ask her to help me with my ID card urgently.

At that time, I was financially constrained, and sometimes I could only choose a bed for 10 yuan, and sometimes I could only spend the night in an Internet café. But I know that I have to get a job first.

As I was passing by a shopping mall, I noticed an advertisement for temporary workers. The boss said that he needed someone to work for a week, and the loading and unloading salary of 100 yuan per day would be settled on the same day, and no room and board would be provided.

After I simply filled out the registration form, my boss told me to come to work before 8 o'clock the next day. So, I worked hard there for 8 days, not only to solve some expenses, but also to earn more than 600 yuan.

Three days later, my ID finally arrived. Due to the introduction of Yang Ting's colleagues, I found an intermediary who specializes in recruiting people for Foxconn, with an introduction fee of 200 yuan, and at the same time helped me get a certificate of education.

As a student, I successfully entered Foxconn and was assigned to the WLBG business group and the laser carving workshop. This workshop is mainly responsible for the production of Motorola and Nokia mobile phone buttons, that is, laser engraved mobile phone buttons.

After three days of training, the factory issued me a badge, work clothes and a clean suit. Because it is a dust-free workshop, it can only be entered by removing dust through the air shower door.

In this way, I found a stable job at Foxconn.

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