I am Manman, welcome to the planet of women's growth, follow Manman, make money with one hand, and make love with the other. Welcome everyone to like and follow!It's not that a man is reluctant to spend money on you, but when he is chasing you, you are the most valuable, and when he chases you, your value will be low, and you need to rely on your emotional intelligence to make up for this value. Many sisters will ask me why men spend so much money when they chase me, but when they get it, they are very stingy, and sometimes they may ask him for it, but he will not give it. 
This is because when a man is chasing you, he is doing his best, this is like running, when he runs to the end, do you think he will run so hard?No, so we want a man to pay for us, and we have to get him back to the feeling of chasing you all the time. How do you find this feeling?I would like to share two dry goods with you. First, if you leaveThat is, we must maintain a sense of mystery, when we are with him, we must not let him feel as if we are a transparent, our daily routine, why let him know, we must properly create a sense of mystery for him, let him feel as if I can get you, but I can't get you, when you want to spy on you, you run away, he will always keep the feeling of chasing. 
Second, emotional mobilizationIt's when we're keeping our distance, and if you notice that he's a little cold to you, what about you?Immediately you lick it back again. You have to learn to take the initiative to get him back. I found that many sisters just don't dare to take the initiative, they are always waiting for a man to come to her. There was a sister she told me before, she said that the man hadn't contacted me for a week, she said he would come to me, but he didn't come to me, she asked me what to do, I said then are you looking for him?She said no, I said if you like him, you can go to him, this kind of thing is not ashamed. We generously put forward our needs, and if he refuses, OK, then I will find another one, or I will cold him for a while. Many girls think that if I go to find a man, will the man think that I am very cheap, in fact, it really won't, because the man likes this feeling of being mobilized by you very much. For this pleasure, they can take out all their advantages, including his wallet, including his energy, including his time, but when he gets it, there is no such pleasure, and how we can catch him again depends on you to mobilize his emotions. 
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