We used to talk to each other with a lot of laughter and gentleness. But now, has our relationship as husband and wife broken down?How to tell if the relationship between husband and wife has reached the point of no return?When your heart begins to drift apart, when your conversation with him begins to become mechanical and rigid, when your mutual understanding gradually decreases, when the flower of love in your heart no longer blooms, it means that your feelings can no longer be integrated.
You say, "We're still living together, and he's still good to me." "But are we overlooking an important detail?Do we have the passion, warmth and tacit understanding that we once had?When you no longer cherish each other, but just treat each other as habitual companionship, the flame of love has long been extinguished by the tempering of the years.
When you walk in the desert of feelings every day, looking for that warm shore, maybe you have woken up and the love between you and him has come to an end. The heart changed from the initial expectation to the indifference of reality, and slowly came to a point of no return.
When your quarrels are becoming more and more frequent, the content of the quarrel has nothing to do with the relationship between husband and wife, and you can't even recall the cause of the initial quarrel, have you ever thought that the quarrel has replaced the original love, and the relationship between you has become weak?
Every night, you are always alone in bed, and he ignores the warmth and companionship you need. You had hoped that he could share his day with you, pour out the tiredness in his heart, and make you his spiritual sustenance. He chose to be indifferent and silent, and you have since become a passerby in his life.
You have tried to change in the hope of getting more attention and love from him. You begin to cater to his interests, lifestyles, and values, only to find that such a change has not brought harmony between you. Your efforts turned into a dream, and he remained in his real world.
Are you losing yourself at this time?Are you starting to doubt your charm and worth?The problem is not with you, but with the shortcomings between you. No one is worthy of you to change yourself to cater to him, and the root of love lies in the equality and mutual respect of two people.
Perhaps, it only takes a tiny fuse for your final separation, and even an unintentional joke can trigger a long-lasting quarrel between you. At that time, you want to explain, you want to change his understanding, but you find that even what you thought was difficult spread like smoke in front of him.
At this time, do you start to look for answers deep within yourself?Have you started to think about what reason you have to be nostalgic for someone who no longer understands you and no longer cares about you?
In the dead of night, you always silently reminisce about the past. Perhaps, the end of love is often like this, there is no grand war, no tragic goodbye, only simple silence and sadness.
For every broken couple's relationship, there is a glimmer of hope, and the moment you really let go, the two hearts can regain the warmth and tranquility they once had. Love is not a lingering romance, but a true mutual understanding and respect between two people.
Perhaps, we need to wade through that wanton storm alone in the ocean of affection, until we see the island waiting for us to embrace each other. Although the road ahead of us is full of thorns, only by persevering can we find the happiness that we truly belong to.
When we experience too much laughter and tears, that true happiness will return as the most beautiful gift in our lives.
The moment you really let go, you can see that happiness is not far away, but we need to face and let go of the pain we have been bravely in order to start again. At that moment, you will wake up from a dream, find your true self in a new beginning, and find your own happiness.