Title She was rejected by her unmarried pregnant mother-in-law, but she had to buy a house at one time with a monthly salary of 3,500
Her mood is always fluctuating, especially when she is harshly treated by her mother-in-law.
Although the house was purchased by them in full, now she does not seem to be the mistress of this home, but just a thorn in the eye of her mother-in-law.
She has always been kind to others and believes that being a human being must be literate.
However, after her mother-in-law came, she realized that this phrase "sincerity for sincerity" does not apply to all families.
Whenever Jiayi recalls the first meeting with her mother-in-law, she regrets her impulsiveness very much.
02.On that day, Jiayi deliberately dressed up.
The mother-in-law and brother-in-law were still living in the town at the time and rented a house.
Since the father-in-law was unfaithful to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law has nowhere to go.
Previously, they had been living in a house in the countryside, but after the divorce, she could no longer stay in her father-in-law's hometown.
As for the mother's family, the mother-in-law's parents have long since died, leaving only an older brother and a younger brother, who have long since had their own houses.
The old house is dilapidated and has not been renovated, and it is even more impossible for a person with children to go back to live.
Therefore, the mother-in-law moved out with her brother-in-law and rented a house.
The house is in town, the rent is 300 dollars per month, there is only one bedroom and a large living room.
The brother-in-law lives in the bedroom, while the mother-in-law is in the living room, separated by a large curtain, as if they were two rooms.
When Jiayi arrived at their house, she asked very politely:"Hello, Auntie.
However, the mother-in-law stared straight at Jiayi and paused for a moment before saying"Have a seat.
The small room looked messy, and on the sofa were some handicrafts, which my mother-in-law made to make ends meet.
According to An Feng, she can earn a few hundred yuan a month, sometimes even one or two thousand, although it is not much, but it is enough for their mother and son to live for their mother and son.
Other times, like buying large items and the tuition fees of the younger brother-in-law, are all taken care of by the husband.
Seeing their family's environment, the kind-hearted Jiayi did not want to flee immediately, but deeply sympathized with her mother-in-law's experience.
It is pitiful for a woman who is in her 50s to be abandoned by her husband and has no place to live and no ability to survive.
Although Jiayi's family is not wealthy, her parents have always told her to study hard, find a good job in the future, and become a financially independent girl.
Whether you are married or not, you should have your own financial means so that you can live a good life.
Jiayi's parents have a clear understanding of the nature of marriage, but unfortunately she didn't see it clearly and didn't understand it very well.
At that time, Jiayi didn't know that if she married An Feng, she would be responsible for buying a house and supporting her brother-in-law's tuition fees in the future.
Auntie, here are some of the things I bought for you.
Jiayi handed the gift she had chosen to her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law did not take it immediately, but slowly took it after a while.
Where is your home?How many people are there in the family?Are there any siblings?"The mother-in-law asked a few questions in a row, which made Jiayi feel a little confused.
At that time, Jiayi felt very uncomfortable in her heart, as if she had been checked for household registration, but she could also understand, after all, who didn't want to know about her future daughter-in-law's family situation.
She answered patiently.
My family is in Huancheng Village, there are 3 sisters, I have an older brother and a younger sister.
Oh, is your brother married?""Married, Auntie, do you want me to help you wash this dish?""Then you can wash it, and by the way, help make a meal.
The dishes are in the kitchen, and the ingredients you bought are also cooked.
Jiayi listened and glanced at An Feng, An Feng nodded:"I'm sorry for you, don't worry, my mother and brother are not picky eaters, you can just cook as you like.
Jiayi thought that her husband would stop her, after all, it was the first time she came to his house.
However, not only did he not object, but he told her to do it.
Jiayi didn't like to cook very much, especially cooking for a few people, and she felt that she was struggling.
Because of the different tastes, I have to cook when I come to their house for the first time, and if I don't do it well, I will expose my cooking skills, which makes Jiayi feel pressured.
But she couldn't show it.
Jiayi is a kind person, she actually feels that there is no problem with being asked to cook, and even worries that she will disappoint her mother-in-law if she does not do well.
Obviously, she has a job and status, and her family conditions are better than her husband's, not to mention that her mother-in-law is still divorced now.
However, in the face of her mother-in-law, Jiayi did not have a trace of confidence.
To put it bluntly, she loves An Feng so much that she can't extricate herself.
04.When Jiayi entered the kitchen, she saw half a chicken, a handful of choy sum, a handful of beans, and some bean sprouts.
She searched on her phone for how to cook chicken and found a tutorial on stir-fried spicy chicken.
She quickly washed and cut the chicken, then processed the choy sum and beans, and meticulously cleaned the bean sprouts.
After all this, she forgot to cook the rice, and she was a little in a hurry.
Jiayi shouted: "An Feng, I forgot to cook, can you do me a favor?"When the mother-in-law heard this, she immediately said: "The rice is inside, An Feng, help me fix the faucet, it's a little leaky." ”
Since her husband was busy, Jiayi washed the rice herself to cook.
In fact, An Feng understood that his mother didn't really need him to help fix the faucet, and was just looking for an excuse to prevent him from helping Jiayi.
He knew that his mother was not easy to get along with, so he kept silent, followed his mother directly to see the faucet, and twisted it twice at will.
Soon, the little brother-in-law returned.
The mother-in-law asked, "Anyang, are you hungry?"Wait a minute, today your brother came back with his girlfriend and she was cooking in the kitchen. ”
The brother-in-law said, "Mom, my brother's girlfriend is here for the first time, do you want her to cook?"Can she fry the vegetables?An Feng said to him: "Don't talk nonsense, she can definitely do it, she is a good cook." ”
The uncle then said, "Really?".Brother, I found that many girls can't cook now, but my sister-in-law can cook. ”
An Feng replied: "How do you know so much, but their classmates are still young and can't cook." ”
Jiayi listened to the three of them chatting outside in the kitchen, talking and laughing happily, and no one came in to help, she felt a little aggrieved.
The kitchen was small, dirty and messy, and it really couldn't fit two people.
After being busy for a while, Jiayi finally got it done.
She shouted, "An Feng, come in and help serve the food, I'm done." ”
Okay, I got it. ”
He looked at the dish and frowned.
Jiayi saw it and asked, "What's wrong?"Isn't it pretty?"Well, it's a little unsightly, but it should taste good. ”
Jiayi also walked out of the kitchen.
When everyone sat down, the mother-in-law's face showed a clear look of displeasure.
05.Jiayi made a total of four dishes, stir-fried chicken, bean sprouts, green vegetables and beans.
She herself felt that her mother-in-law did not treat her well, because under normal circumstances, when her son brought his girlfriend home, the family would cook a hearty meal.
But not only do they not do it, they have to do it themselves.
In addition, she saw that the whole house was in a mess, with all kinds of clothes, shoes, and miscellaneous items littered on the sofa and stools, which made her feel very embarrassed.
She is a person who loves cleanliness, and when she saw this environment, she wanted to help tidy it up.
However, those clothes don't seem to be clean enough, and she won't be here for long, and if she does, she might be criticized for just pretending to be diligent.
She felt that such a person, even if she helped to tidy it up, would soon become disorganized.
So, she decided not to do it.
Jiayi had just eaten a mouthful of rice, and her mother-in-law said, "This chicken, why don't you put chili peppers, it's not delicious at all when fried like this." ”
Hearing her mother-in-law say this, Jiayi felt uncomfortable.
She was already a little dissatisfied with the meals she had worked so hard to make, and now she was blamed.
However, she still said kindly: "That's the case, Auntie, I didn't know that you like to eat chili peppers, I heard An Feng say that your family doesn't eat chili peppers."
Sorry, I'll pay attention next time. ”
Jiayi, I heard An Feng say that you are pregnant, how long have you been pregnant?Is it An Feng's child?The mother-in-law asked another sensitive question.
Jiayi felt that this kind of question was a bit insulting, and she said a little unhappily: "Auntie, if it's not An Feng's child, then who else can it be?"Auntie, I came this time sincerely, please respect me. ”
An Feng tugged at her clothes and motioned for her to stop talking.
Jiayi stopped.
The mother-in-law glanced at her again: "That's the case, you also know our situation, since you already have two children, the marriage is basically confirmed."
I have one more request, though.
You see that Anyang is still young, and I am not young anymore, if I can't afford to provide him with schooling, I hope Anfeng can provide some money for him to study.
In addition, since you are pregnant with our child, let's buy the house first, so that the family can live in it.
At the same time, Anyang can also go to school in the city, which is more convenient.
When the time comes, you will have a house to live in, and you will no longer need to rent a house. ”
Jiayi began to feel that it was a little too much.
How can there be any reason for her family to pay for a house.
Moreover, she doesn't have that much money now, and she thinks it is reasonable for both parties to pay for the house together.
Therefore, Jiayi said with some objections: "Auntie, I think it is better for our two families to pay for the purchase of the house, so that we don't have to rent a house anymore."
Of course, I agree that you and Anyang will live in together, and we will both pay for it. ”
Jiayi thinks that she has made the biggest concession and moved her mother-in-law and brother-in-law into the marriage room together.
However, her mother-in-law disagreed, she said: "Jiayi, if you say this, does it mean that our family will have to pay the same amount of money?"I'll tell you frankly, we don't have that much money, we can't even afford the bride price and down payment, do you think you still want to get married?If you are afraid of living a hard life, or if you pursue vanity, then we will not stop you, and the child will not want it in the future.
Think about it yourself. ”
Jiayi listened to her mother-in-law's words and was completely angry.
Meeting to discuss marriage, this is simply bullying.
Jiayi was so angry that she put down her chopsticks and said angrily: "Auntie, it's a bit too much for you to say that, although I'm pregnant, I'm still an independent person."
You shouldn't think that because you're pregnant, you shouldn't ask for a bride price and a house.
I don't love vanity, I find your situation pitiful, and I sympathize with your status as a single mother.
I was going to help you out, but I'm disappointed that you're saying that now.
If I were really a woman who loves vanity, I knew from the beginning that An Feng's family conditions were not good, and I wouldn't fall in love with him at all.
You can't slander me like that.
Also, I don't think you have enough respect for me.
If you really agree to our marriage, you should actively pool money to help us with the wedding, instead of putting on this attitude of loving or not marrying. "Jiayi wanted to continue, but An Feng interrupted her: "Jiayi, that's enough, don't say it."
You know mom can cry, it's not easy for her to be alone.
That's really the case in our family, I hope you can think about it.
She really doesn't have any money, and no matter how hard you push her, she can't come up with it. ”
Jiayi looked at An Feng and asked rhetorically, "Then do you think I'm not worthy of the bride price?"Also, you see that your mother is having such a hard time now, on the one hand, because you have not bought a house and have been living in the countryside.
Once divorced, the woman doesn't even have a place to live, and she has to take care of the children.
On the other hand, your mom is indeed a bit lazy.
Obviously, there is no need for Anyang to pick up and drop off every day, she still has to pick up.
If you don't pick it up, your mother will go out to work by herself, and at least she can earn a few hundred yuan a month.
She did this because she wanted to rely on you.
I don't think there's anything wrong with my pregnancy now, and if there is, it's the two of us who should share it, because you're the father of the child.
It's not that I shouldn't ask for a bride price and a house because I'm pregnant, because to ask for a house is to love vanity.
If your mom had a house earlier, she would have been able to get a portion of the compensation.
So it's her own confusion, she's unlucky, and she can't put all the blame on me.
I just want to fight for what I deserve. ”
After listening to Jiayi's words, the mother-in-law began to cry, at first it was a small sob, and then it turned into a big cry: "Jiayi, don't say it, okay?"My mom is already bitter enough, you don't hurt her like this anymore and blame her.
Jiayi, I always thought you were a kind girl, but I didn't expect that one day you would also talk to me about the house.
Let's put our business down for now. ”
The brother-in-law also said: "Sister-in-law, I know that my mother does not have your education and ability, but she is really working hard to live.
I hope you respect her and don't hurt her.
Everyone has their own choice about what they do.
It's like you're a teacher, but you can't look down on my mom either. ”
Jiayi was confused.
She just felt that she was wronged, so she was honest with her mother-in-law.
I didn't expect the two brothers to reproach her like this.
Speak as if you're a complete bad person.
Obviously, she is also the one who has been wronged.
An Feng, what do you mean?Do you mean, the two of us don't want to get married, and you're not responsible for the children?"Jiayi really can't believe it, obviously she came to meet today to discuss marriage.
As a result, the marriage has not been discussed now, and the family said that she loves vanity, especially her mother-in-law, as if she owes her a lot of money.
In fact, she really sympathized with her at first.
But now, she felt that there must be something hateful about the poor man.
Just because she's pregnant, doesn't she deserve to be treated fairly?"Jiayi, I didn't say that, you said it.
I'm just saying let's calm down.
Otherwise, it is not a way to continue arguing like this. ”
For the first time, Jiayi felt that An Feng was very unreliable, and she was pregnant, could she still wait?She asked him again: "Yes, you mean calm down, but have you ever thought that I have a child in my belly now, I can wait, but the child can't wait."
As time passes, the child will get bigger and bigger.
When the time comes, what should I do?I want you to give me an explanation.
If I can make it, if I can't, I'll plan as soon as possible. ”
Jiayi really let go this time, no matter what, she still likes An Feng, and she also hopes to marry him.
But seeing his hesitant attitude, she actually wanted to back down a little.
As for her mother-in-law and brother-in-law, she doesn't care too much.
Because she feels that she is with her husband, not with her mother-in-law and brother-in-law.
Not very affecting anything.
An Feng wanted to speak and stopped, and her mother-in-law stopped crying.
The mother-in-law said again: "An Feng, you make your own decision, but my mother is not very satisfied today."
Jiayi, the first time you came to my house, you called me like this, slandered me, at least, I don't think I'm the kind of person you say I am.
I just think that An Feng should find someone with better conditions, and finally has a house in the city, so that our family can live a better life.
If you think I'm picky, then I don't have anything to say.
As for whether you want to marry or not, you also have the right to choose for yourself. ”
Jiayi listened, her mother-in-law made a lot of sense, but she really felt that she was being looked down upon.
Later, her mother-in-law did not keep her, she finished eating, washed the dishes by the way, and left by herself.
06.After Jiayi left An Feng's house, An Feng naturally didn't chase him out.
However, once a woman falls in love with a man, how can it be so easy to be willing to break up?What's more, she has a child in her belly.
However, Jiayi met her mother-in-law for the first time this time, and she completely saw how powerful her mother-in-law was.
Although she is a rural woman and a single parent, it can be seen that she has a strong personality, and she should be like this for her children and her partner.
She looks down on Jiayi, and she hopes that her son can marry a rich woman and lead their whole family to live a happy life.
However, girls from rich families, who can look up to An Feng like this.
In the system, the salary is 4,000, and he has to support his younger brother and mother.
Hearing such conditions, it is estimated that even the courage is scared away, let alone tempted.
Only Jiayi, an innocent girl, fell in love with An Feng and threw herself into it desperately.
After returning home, Jiayi felt very sad, and An Feng didn't send her a message.
It was Saturday and she decided to go back to her parents' house.
When her mother saw her in a trance, she asked, "Jiayi, why have you been so preoccupied today, who bullied you?"If so, be sure to tell your mother and don't hide your grievances in your heart. ”
Hearing this, Jiayi felt that her mother still cared about her.
She couldn't contain her emotions and began to cry.
After crying, her mother learned that she was emotionally hurt, and when she heard the basic situation of An Feng's family, she said sternly: "Jiayi, don't marry him."
Children can not be temporary, the first time they meet you like this, can you expect them to be good to you in the future?Even if you get married, you will be wronged.
Jiayi cried and shook her head, she also wanted to separate, but there was no news of An Feng for so long, she felt very painful in her heart, she loved An Feng deeply.
The thought of not being able to be with him in the future makes it impossible to breathe the pain in my heart.
She cried and said: "Mom, I can't do it, I think he also likes me, as long as he is good to me, even if his family is not good, I am willing to face difficulties with him."
I don't want to be separated. ”
What mother in the world doesn't love her children?Seeing her daughter so sad, my mother was also very distressed.
After comforting, Jiayi's mood gradually improved.
07.However, in the next few days, An Feng did not send a message to Jiayi.
Jiayi's heart is really very sad.
She angrily decided that if An Feng didn't contact her after a week, she planned to give up the child and end up with An Feng completely.
However, on the fifth day of separation, An Feng contacted her.
Jiayi, I miss you so much, I can't lose you, I still love you.
If you don't dislike me for having nothing, then let's get married. ”
Jiayi replied without hesitation: "I miss you too, I am willing to marry you, I think you want to go crazy." ”
Half an hour later, An Feng came to Jiayi's house.
The two lovers, who have been separated for a few days, can't wait to hug each other when they meet.
Jiayi hugged An Feng tightly, this feeling of being lost and regained was really good, she thought in her heart, this time she would never be separated again.
Subsequently, the parents of both sides met.
The atmosphere of this meeting was actually very unpleasant.
But Jiayi insisted on getting married.
Mother said: "Girl, you have to understand that once you get married, you may be wronged in the future, you have to think about it carefully."
After marriage, the cost of separation is greater.
As your parents, we all want you to be happy.
However, if you insist on marrying him now, we will also fully support you.
If you buy a house, we'll help you. ”
Jiayi cried and nodded.
How can anyone in the world not love their children?Even if I didn't agree very much, I couldn't bear to make my daughter too sad, so I reluctantly agreed.
Mom only hopes that An Feng can be kind to her daughter.
In this way, Jiayi's parents directly gave 400,000.
Jiayi looked at a house, which is the current house.
Originally, Jiayi wanted to buy it after getting married.
But Jiayi's parents kept a hand, since they were all bought with all the money from their own family.
Then buy a house before you get the license.
In fact, at first, An Feng and they disagreed.
But Jiayi's dad said;"An Feng, I agreed to marry Jiayi to you, because I think your character is acceptable.
If you even have to calculate this house, then I don't think there is any need for you to get married.
Since our family bought it in full, then, buy the house before getting the license.
Otherwise, you will break up.
My daughter has something that people want, and there is nothing that no one wants. ”
An Feng could only nod in agreement.
08.Then, An Feng concealed her mother-in-law, because she wanted the names of two people to be written in the marriage room.
But An Feng didn't dare to be happy with her, for fear that she would not agree to get married.
can only hide it from her, saying that the marriage room is the name of the husband and wife.
The mother-in-law smiled and agreed.
The marriage was confirmed, and the house was bought.
Jiayi was very happy.
I'm waiting to be a beautiful bride.
However, just when the two were about to take wedding photos.
The mother-in-law came to pour cold water again: "What kind of wedding photos to take, it's a waste of money, just take a few photos with your mobile phone, it's your hypocrisy." ”
Jiayi feels that since she is getting married, she can indeed skip taking wedding photos, and she will spend a lot of time together in the future, and she can also take more photos on her mobile phone.
Thinking that buying a house had emptied her savings and made her parents give her so much money, she thought it would be good to save some money, so she didn't shoot.
Later, it was her parents who disagreed, so they strongly asked An Feng to buy her three golds.
In this way, Jiayi and her husband got married.
There is no such thing as a lavish wedding, just a simple ceremony.
I had a casual meal at a restaurant.
Their wedding is over.
Jiayi has always liked the kind of wedding in the TV series that has a wedding ceremony.
But there is no way, there is no money, so I can only do it casually.
As long as you're married.
Jiayi thought too simply.
She thought that marriage was just a union between two people, and that it would be like in a fairy tale, and the prince and princess would live happily ever after.
But life is not a fairy tale.
When a woman gets married, it is the beginning of life's test for her.
Jiayi didn't expect that after getting married, there would be so many things like chickens and dogs.
Especially after agreeing to the mother-in-law and brother-in-law to move in, there is no happiness in her life.
And her relationship with An Feng has also been hit again and again.
She also saw a very selfish side of men.
So, what happened after marriage disappointed Jiayi again and again.
Especially after giving birth to a child and confinement, why is she so desperate to separate?Later, what did her mother-in-law do to her that would make her so disgusted?(To be continued).