My in-laws wanted me to leave, but my son was furious and scolded his in-laws, "It's you who should leave!".”
Xu Wenkun was irritable on the way home. As soon as he stepped into the house, he immediately heard his mother-in-law commenting on this and that, mentioning his mother intentionally or unintentionally, which aroused his anger.
When he came home from work at night, Xu Wenkun inserted the key, and the sound of his mother-in-law talking to his mother came from the room.
The mother-in-law said: "Mother-in-law, Xiao Kai is already in elementary school, and the Xinxin couple will pick them up, have you considered going back?"Give them some space for young people. ”
The mother-in-law's question made Xu's mother a little overwhelmed. She never thought about going back, and it was difficult to answer for a while.
As soon as Xu's mother retired, she moved to her son's house and helped take care of her little grandson wholeheartedly. Especially considering that her daughter-in-law Fu Lingling is a first-time mother and lacks parenting experience, Xu's mother works day and night, and she is afraid that her daughter-in-law will not be able to bear it.
The old man worked hard because of her children, but she was willing to work hard for the sake of her grandson. Fu Lingling is also grateful to her mother-in-law, helping with housework after work and buying gifts for her mother-in-law on holidays.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been harmonious, if it weren't for Fu Lingling's mother to stir up right and wrong, the harmonious atmosphere in her son's family would not have been destroyed.
Because Xu's mother was widowed early, she raised her eldest son Wenkun alone. Wen Kun is sensible, and he doesn't need his mother to worry too much about life, study and work.
Wen Kun got married and had a child, and it happened that Xu's mother was also retired, so he took his mother over to help take care of the children.
At her son's house, Xu's mother is not only responsible for buying groceries, cooking and taking care of her grandson, but also takes out her own pension as living expenses. Fu Lingling persuaded her mother-in-law that she didn't have to come up with her retirement fund, and that they could bear their own expenses.
Xu's mother told her daughter-in-law: "Mom's money will be yours sooner or later, and now you can use it to reduce your burden." I know you are under a lot of pressure, with expenses such as mortgage, Xiao Kai's milk powder, diapers, etc. ”
Lingling sincerely thanked her mother-in-law, and the relationship between the two was like that of mother and daughter.
For Xu Wenkun, seeing his mother and wife get along well is his greatest happiness. Mother and son are filial piety, and the family is warm.
After the leisurely time passed, after her grandson went to elementary school, Xu's mother had some free time. After sending her grandson to school, she would go to the park to dance and take a walk, and her life was comfortable and pleasant.
Suddenly, there was an argument between her mother-in-law and her father-in-law, and she came to her daughter's house angrily and said that she did not want to live with her wife, and she was angry when she saw him.
Lingling saw that her mother was quarreling with her father again, so she had to let her mother live at home for a while. Every time the mother quarrels, she will tell her father in front of her daughter. Lingling has long been Xi that her mother always wants to have the upper hand, but her father is unwilling to admit defeat, and quarrels have become their daily routine.
As expected, Lingling's mother had just come a few days ago and saw that her grandson had gone to school, and Xu's mother danced in the park every day and lived a leisurely life.
The mother said to her daughter, intentionally or unintentionally: "The grandson is in school, and Mother Xu can go home, so that the young people have some space." This was too much to say, and Lingling even felt that her mother had some truth in what she said.
When her mother said this to her mother-in-law with a smile, Lingling did not stop her.
Xu's mother felt uncomfortable when she saw that her daughter-in-law also agreed with her mother-in-law's words. Could it be that she has paid so much for the family, working hard to take care of the family's daily life, shopping, cooking, doing housework, and some simple words make her daughter-in-law negate her efforts.
She couldn't stand it anymore and told her son about going home. Wen Kun disagreed after hearing this, worried that his mother would go back alone. In addition, he feels that his life is very good now, and he has been very happy with his wife Lingling over the years. He asked his mother if it was because of what Lingling said.
Xu's mother didn't want her son to quarrel with Lingling because of herself, so she said no, but she felt that she had been away from home for a long time and wanted to go back to see it.
Wen Kun said: "Mom, this is your home. ”
The mother was relieved to see her son so filial and felt that all her efforts were worth it. She promised to stay and not go back.
Again, the mother-in-law mentioned that it is not appropriate for the elderly to live with the young. The living Xi of the two generations are different, the elderly like light, while the young people like heavy tastes. My mother-in-law thought it would be better to live separately.
When Wen Kun heard this, he finally understood the reason why his mother suddenly proposed to go home. He walked in, and asked his mother-in-law with a gloomy face whether it was her own will or his wife's. The mother-in-law replied that it was her own will.
At this time, Lingling happened to come home from work, noticed that the atmosphere at home was not right, and hurriedly asked what happened.
Wen Kun turned to her and asked, "Do you want your mother to go back?"”
Lingling then understood the reason why her husband was angry, and she hurriedly denied it: "No." ”
Wen Kun said: "Just now I heard my mother-in-law say that I want to go back, let me tell you, whether you have this idea or not, your mother will not leave, and if you want to go, your mother-in-law will go." My mother has worked hard in the past few years, contributing money and efforts to help us, and now that the child is older, she wants to drive her away, but there is no way. ”
He bluntly told his mother-in-law: "Before you came, our family was doing well. As soon as you come, you point fingers and say this and that. You'd better go back!”
In the future, if you come to see my wife and grandson, I welcome it, but if you bully my mother again, don't come and go. ”
The mother-in-law didn't expect her son-in-law to be so resolute, she grunted back to the room to pack her luggage and asked her daughter Lingling to send her back.