Dr. Liumei came home to visit, but because he couldn't buy a house for his brother, his father took an axe.
A female doctoral student returning from the United States has caused a series of family tragedies because she refuses to buy a house for her brother and her father's opposition from the countryside. As the 2021 national exam approaches, many rural students are studying hard, and in order to be able to do so in the coming year, they have paid more than ten years of hard work to meet the upcoming exam. For them, this is a time to get out of the countryside, to transform their lives, to change their social status.
However, there are also some parents who see their children's academic Xi as an opportunity to "return", and demand more and more from their children. If they are rejected, parents will not only scold their children for "unfilial piety", but also do some excesses. There is such a tragedy in Shandong, a country girl, through her own diligence, was admitted to the United States as a doctoral student. But because he was unwilling to buy a house for his brother, his father actually chopped to death the children who returned to his hometown and province.
This poor girl's name is Zhao Qingxiang, the child of a poor family in Yantai, Shandong Province, whose family has only a small piece of barren land, and her life is very difficult. Zhao Qingxiang, who grew up in a poor family, was not satisfied with his ordinary life. In school, she heard the phrase "reading can change life and get rid of poverty", and she made up her mind to use diligence to change her life. Although her mother had an older brother in a difficult environment, she continued to study Xi and was the first in all the tests. She didn't let her parents drop out of school and go to work like the other girls in the village.
Perseverance in her work finally gave her a taste of the joy of victory. Zhao Qingxiang passed an exam, and she was the only girl in the village to be admitted for more than a decade. Although her parents said that the family was too poor to afford her college and that her brother was also studying, Zhao Qingxiang was not discouraged by this. She received financial aid from the college, and in her sophomore year of college, she worked part-time to earn money during the summer. She is a hard-working student and has won several scholarships from the school. With her perseverance and perseverance, she overcame difficulties again and again and finally successfully completed her university.
In the four years of college life, she was not only diligent and hardworking, but also found her true love, and also met her husband Wei Bin. The two of them have a deep love and support each other, not only did they both get a master's degree from the same university, but they were also an enviable "** couple". When Wei Bin's family was preparing for this marriage, they knew that Zhao Qingxiang's family was not good, but they still paid all the expenses without hesitation, and they didn't ask the other party for a child.
This happy love took Zhao Qingxiang's Xi further, and she also got a master's degree from an American university. However, her father Zhao Yuling objected, thinking that it would be better for her to go out early to work to earn money. And her mother-in-law was also very tolerant of her dream of going abroad, and donated 20,000 yuan to her and her wife to study in the United States.
Zhao Qingxiang and her husband are both a big challenge in studying Xi and life in the United States. They had to live in the U.S., had to study Xi during the day, work at night, and sometimes drive more than four hours to get a job. Although life was very hard, Zhao Qingxiang would still send some money to his father in the countryside on time, which allowed his father to build a big house in the village. Still, the good news sparked enthusiastic contact from some relatives and friends, who all asked her for money.
About six months later, Zhao Qingxiang suddenly became pregnant, and she faced the dilemma of school, life, and her parents, relatives and friends in her hometown with joy and worry. Although the days were very hard, they survived until the full moon of the child. However, because they could not raise their children in the United States, they had to send their children home. Zhao Qingxiang made up her mind that when she had a job and a work visa, she would bring her son back. Three years later, she successfully obtained a U.S. passport and happily returned to Taiwan with her husband, intending to bring the baby back. However, no one thought that this time homecoming would be an eternal farewell.
Zhao Qingxiang and her husband returned to their parents' home, stayed for only four days, and then boarded the train back to Shandong with her children. However, when he was about to get on the car, he revealed that he was unwilling to be separated from his grandparents, and with the permission of the two old people, the child continued to live in his grandmother's house, and only Zhao Qingxiang and her husband Wei Bin took the train to Shandong.
After Zhao Qingxiang went home, not long after she sat down, her father asked for another sum of silver. Zhao Qingxiang's brother, who is almost 28 years old and suffers from epilepsy, cannot find a daughter-in-law, and he asks her to fund the purchase of a small bungalow in the county as a way to meet the requirements for marriage.
Zhao Qingxiang is very entangled, although she has worked hard in the United States for so many years, her life is still very tight, a day's income, a day's income, minute by minute to send home, sometimes she has to borrow some money from relatives and friends. At this time, she no longer has any savings, and she has to send her children to the United States to go to kindergarten, which is not a small amount. Their family originally lived in a big mansion, and it would be too wasteful to buy a small bungalow in the town. So, she discussed it with her father and decided to postpone buying a small house in the town for the time being, and when she had enough funds, she would remit the money back and buy it when the time came.
In fact, Zhao Qingxiang sent $1,600 to her home when she returned, which is equivalent to about 10,000 yuan. However, these funds were clearly not enough to satisfy his father. During the period when she returned to China for a short time, her father Zhao Yuling mentioned buying a house several times and asked her mother to persuade her. But Zhao Qingxiang really couldn't come up with the money, so he had to apologize repeatedly.
However, Zhao Yuling's own son hated his daughter, especially his son-in-law Wei Bin, he felt that after his daughter married Wei Bin, he dared not listen to his own words. Zhao Yuling knew that his son-in-law had already bought a return ticket, so he decided to take a desperate gamble and persuade his wife to let her help his son buy a house. Zhao Qingxiang is really penniless, the only thing she can do is to beg her not to force her anymore, after all, she has a hard time in the United States.
However, her father Zhao Yuling didn't care about her situation, and saw that she still refused to pay. Without money, he can't afford to buy a house, can't afford a house, can't marry a wife, so what's the point of being a father himself?Enraged, he rushed to his husband's house with an axe and beat him severely. Some people feel that Zhao Yuling's "ruthlessness" was completely impulsive, but after arriving at the court, he even insisted that he had no remorse.
Zhao Qingxiang's father, Zhao Yuling, is a typical "I gave birth to you, you have to pay me back" parents. Zhao Qingxiang improved her life through Xi, which was both her luck and her tragedy. Although her father did not pay much attention to her education, her achievements made him insatiable. When he couldn't get what he wanted, he became extremely angry, which led to the tragedy that followed.
Every parent should treat their relationship with their children correctly, which is not only a relationship between leaders and employees, but also a companion in their growth. In particular, it may be that we spend more time with our children.
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