In today's society, we often pay too much attention to the differences between children, especially the difference between top students and scumbags. However, have we really thought deeply about the root causes behind this disparity?In fact, the gap between children is largely shaped by family education.
First of all, let's dive into the problem of children's motivation to learn Xi. In many families, parents expect their children to live a stable life and become an ordinary office worker. However, this kind of thinking often weakens the child's motivation to strive for excellence, like a loose gear, as long as the parent's mentality is slightly relaxed, the child's motivation will be greatly reduced. Therefore, we should set clear and reasonable goals for our children, give them continuous motivation, and give them the determination to pursue progress.
Secondly, the edification effect of family atmosphere on children plays a role in the growth of children. Family atmosphere is an important environment for children's growth, and a good family atmosphere can stimulate children's enthusiasm and creativity, and help them better adapt to social life. On the contrary, a poor family atmosphere may cause children to have negative emotions such as anxiety and depression, which will affect their physical and mental health and future development.
Again, the speed at which families receive and transmit information is also a significant factor in the disparities between children. In this age of information, some people have quick access to critical information, while others may not know anything. For example, some important opportunities such as guaranteed students, strong foundation programs, and extra points in physical education exams, etc., if parents do not pay attention to these information, children may miss these opportunities. Not only will this affect the child's future development, but it may also cause the overall information level of parents to fall behind the times.
In addition, how invested parents are in their child's development determines the direction of their child's development. In today's society, to a large extent, children are in the era of "fighting for father" and "fighting for mother", and the difference in parents' investment in children's material and intellectual aspects has led to different children's development effects. Therefore, parents should focus on investing in their children, including time, energy, and money, to help them grow and develop better.
Finally, parental behavior is also a key factor in the gap between children. Some parents only pay lip service to accomplish something, but are slow to act on it. This behavior can have a negative impact on the child, causing them to become procrastinating and inactive. Therefore, parents should set a good example for their children by showing a positive attitude, no delay, and walking the talk.
To sum up, home education plays a vital role in the growth of children. Parents should give their children the right guidance and support in three aspects: motivation, confidence and action, and help them become people with pursuit, action and confidence. Only in this way can we truly close the gap between children and make them more confident and courageous in their future lives.