Courtney Daniella, an English girl, has become addictedAddicted to
That's right, Courtney has been watching for adults since she was 10 years old, and she has gradually developed into an addiction to watching movies, which has also made her spend a decade of nightmares in her life.
Courtney started out of curiosity, but after watching it once, the picture never disappeared from her mind, and then she became more and more desperate for pornography, and she was already in a mood depression if she didn't watch it for a day or two.
By the time I got to middle school,She even needs to spend 2-3 hours a day watching pornography, otherwise there is no strength to do anything. But every day, the stimulation of pornography to Courtney is getting lower and lower, and she has anxiety, but the more anxious she is, the higher the addiction to pornography, and the more anxious she becomes after the pleasure disappears, and so on.
Courtney's life was so affected that she even tried to commit suicide with sleeping pills, but fortunately, her family found out in time and saved her life.
1. Why do people become addicted to "little yellow films"?
I believe that many "old drivers" know that ***hub, the world's largest** user volume and visits continue to grow every year, according to the 2019 annual data, in 2019, the number of visits to station P exceeded 42 billion, which means that there are an average of 11.5 billion visits.
A 2021 study published in Psychology of Addictive Behavior found that only 594% of consumers watch because of a lack of sexual satisfaction. Researchers found that more people were using pornography was:Out of sexual pleasure, sexual curiosity, and sexual fantasies, and some people areTo de-stress, distract and self-explore
So why are you addicted to small yellow films?
Addiction is a manifestation of physical dependence or excessive psychological dependence, after a small yellow film, people will feel pleasure and joy, and this pleasant thing will be like drug addiction,As a result, dopamine rewards are constantly released from the central system, motivating the ** person to repeat this behavior to meet their own needs
As the brain becomes less sensitive to this stimulus, the volume of the area of reward and motivation weakens, causing them to develop sexual burnout, a decrease in response to pornography, a general decline in libido, and eventually an inability to get an erection.
In addition to the possible impact on physical health, long-term addiction to small yellow films may also bring the following consequences——
1. Misleading behavior: As a kind of art, small yellow films are bound to be different from reality for the senses, and the durability of small yellow films for more than 1 hour, or the size and climax time have been artistically processed. WhileThe reality is that most people only have about 3-10 minutes
2. Affect relationship satisfaction: A 2018 survey involving 6,626 heterosexual couples found that people with low acceptance of pornography were less satisfied with their relationship the more they watched the filmFor those with high acceptance of small yellow films, the more times they watch the films, the higher the relationship satisfaction.
3. Possible breakup and divorce: The more often you watch small yellow films, the more likely you are to be dissatisfied with your sexual desire and the greater your dissatisfaction with your marriage, which makes it easier to cheat and affect the relationship between husband and wife.
2. Watching small yellow films, what is the difference between a man and a girlfriend?
Research confirms that 95% of men have watched, while 55% of women watch once a month and 96% of women watch it with their partners. What is the difference between men and women watching?
1. Men
Researchers in Belgium, Denmark and the United Kingdom launched an online questionnaire to investigate men's sexual activity and pornography relationships, and found that:Men spend an average of 70 minutes per week on pornography, but about 23% of people have erectile dysfunction during sexual activity**.
2. Women
According to the annual data of the ***hub, there are 2 characteristics of women's focus on pornography:
In the type of topicAccording to ***hub's annual data analysis, in the six years from 2014 to 2019, women's favorite was allLesbian。For this behavior, sexuality ** Dr. Megan Fleming is a safe way for women to learn about sexual arousal. Lesbian allows for imitation and understanding the sensitive points of a woman's body.
In the role of attention, women will also pay more attention to the ** of women in the film, and the reason why women have feelings about theseOne is due to the mechanism of sexual arousal, which is irritating to such a picture;The second is sexual fantasy preference, females are more likely to have same-sex arousal than males;The third is self-mapping, that is, through observation and imitation, to know how to please yourself.
3. Is it considered cheating for a partner to secretly watch a little pornography?
Xiao Jiu once received a private message, saying that she found that her boyfriend was secretly watching behind her back, and she felt betrayed, thinking that her boyfriend was mentally cheating, was it because her body was unattractive, so she would go to see others?
A survey of 20,000 married people in the United States showedMore than 30% of women regard their male partner's sneaking in pornography as a form of dissatisfaction with themselves and consider it an act of mental infidelity
Is that a man mentally cheating when he watches a little yellow film?It's actually very complicated about thisIt has to do with the experience between the partners, the mentality, the personality, and various factors of the relationshipThere is no standard answer.
When you find that your partner is watching a little, what should you do about it?
Xiao Jiu believes that no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, there are always times when you want to purely appreciate the body or "Xi". If you happen to catch a bag to your partner watching a movie, or if you are caught by your partner, cold treatment is not conducive to the relationship between the two parties. At this time, Xiao Jiu suggested that everyone watch it together.
Some studies have found that compared to a peek at a person,Watching the film together can improve the satisfaction of both parties and better communicate with each other, stronger commitment to a relationship.
Regarding watching small yellow films, as long as it is moderate, it will not have much impact on the body. The reward mechanism of the central system is not only a small yellow film can be stimulated, rather than relying on the **, it is better to establish more new interests, cultivate their own hobbies of life, and harvest more happiness.
References: 1] "What are the consequences of watching too many small yellow films?".That's a terrible statistic, isn't it?》.Clinic 11. 2021-05-17
2] "10-year-old British girl is addicted to and wants to die in agony!She cried: It's harder than drug rehabilitation".British newspaper sister. 2020-09-27
3] "Attention to watching "** action movies"!".The study found that the amount of films watched was highly correlated with erectile dysfunctionInternational Science2020-07-27
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