Well, in fact, it's a bit against your will to say this, because only very confident people will say that many things are not as difficult as you think, in fact, it is not self-confidence, but blind arrogance that does not understand the truth of things, when you really do something, you will find that it is actually very difficult.
For example, many months ago, in the first month of 2023, I made a flag that I must write at least one million words this year, but now, I look back at the words I left this year, and there are only a handful.
I began to reflect that all my time was spent on **
At the beginning of the year, I thought that writing something every day was as easy as keeping a diary when I was a student, and I had a lot of writing experience, so I thought that this flag should be easy to implement.
But when I actually did it, I found it quite difficult!
First of all, my life is very boring every day, except for going to work is getting off work, two points and one line, so I don't seem to have a lot of new things to record in my life.
I was happy during this period, but I was also tormented by anxiety.
I was anxious about my lack of time appreciation, but I was also immersed in the joy of enjoying the unknown every day, and my attention was unconsciously consumed, so that when I wanted to meditate and do something, I found that many things became difficult.
But think about it in 16 years, there was no pressure to write more than 8,000 words a day, and it only took two or three hours, and it was very stressful every day at that time, but I never had to worry about not being able to write it every day, because the pressure of updating was on my head, and if I couldn't write it, I had to ask for leave, and it cost points to ask for leave, and points were money, and it was difficult to earn.
Later, the book was finished, and I was slacking off for a long time, and when I picked it up again, I found that the status of 8,000 words a day was gone, and I couldn't help but think of Haruki Murakami's words, he said that he didn't save the manuscript, and he had to write a little bit every day, mainly to maintain a feeling.
I used to chat with the gods, and they also said that they rarely save manuscripts, at most, they received a notice to pk, save some in advance to prepare pk, usually use and write, and even stay up until the last update time every day to write, pressure generates motivation, and write every day, and every day the thinking is active.
See, what you need to do a lot of things is never to fly to the starting point when you set off, but to take the first step from the origin and ...... the second stepAlthough you walk very slowly every day, you never stop, be a second hand, and with the passage of time, we will unconsciously complete the primitive accumulation and become stronger.
This is the same as when we eat to gain weight, you eat a lot a day is not fat, fat people eat a lot every day, learning is the same thing, a day want to learn a lot, this is called temporary cramming, the content you receive will quickly leave you after the exam, only your usual accumulation, the knowledge you have mastered is your own.
Therefore, very powerful people will say that many things are not as difficult as you think, the key is to take the first step, but ah, what they say is really incomplete, after taking the first step, you must maintain and improve every day, they don't tell us, we have to rely on ourselves to explore.
But it is also understandable that the master leads the door and cultivates in the individual, in fact, what the strong man said is right, taking the first step, he who can persevere, will naturally become a strong man, and will naturally understand the power of perseverance, and the person who dies in the middle of the way, his willpower is limited, what is the use of you telling him more.
Last year, we had to take the exam, at the very beginning, everyone's brain was at a loss, because there was too much content, but fortunately, we were left with a lot of review time, we ate the book, and finally when the exam was taken, many people were qualified, at that moment, many people were emotional, it was really a hundred times to read the book and see its meaning, the brain remembered, the pen was like a god, the answer jumped on the paper, and then think about everyone's anxiety when signing up, and instantly sighed, life is the need to insist on learning.
Don't think that you are over 30, over 40, and when you reach 50, you don't have to study when you retire, times are changing, we don't say we become trendsetters, at least we don't want to be photographed dead on the beach.
Keeping up with the times will not only make our own lives easier, but also reduce the burden on our children.
Although learning is really a painful thing, especially when you are older, your brain responds slowly, you can't concentrate, and all kinds of problems are coming, but, think about grinding the iron pestle into a needle, encourage yourself more, remember it repeatedly if you can't remember, learn it a few more times if you can't learn it, diligence can make up for clumsiness, stupid birds fly first, as long as you don't admit that you are a stupid person, and take out the determination to work hard when you were young, as long as the heart is not old, our people will not be old.
Finally, make a summary, many things are not as difficult as you think, but they are definitely not as simple as you think, but things are man-made, how do you know if you will succeed if you don't do it, if you don't want your life to be wasted and at a loss, then come on.
Accumulate a little every day, make a little progress every day, although we go slowly, but we don't stop.