The list of 12 breaks made me quietly stronger

Hello everyone, I amao tsundere star, click above".Blue font"Attention, the experience you want may be here.

Since ** wrote thisTwo yearsI like my life and myself more and more. Although I am not particularly good and live the way I dreamed, I can clearly feel much better now than I used to be. At least,Out of what it once wasHumblewithDowncast

Mine12 Breakaway Lists, let me quietly become stronger, and gradually get closer and closer to the life I want. RecommendationsCollectionArise, and all the bad things in lifeBreak away

In this issue, we will outline the contents:and some material disconnection.

and bad emotions to break away.

and some rotten people.

and bad Xi habits.

Maybe that's not possible for people who always have new clothes to wearExperienceTarget.

This society is very realistic, it is no longer what was said in the primary school textbooks, as long as it is clean and tidy, it is also decent to wear clothes with patches, and accept the same as those who wear famous brandsVision

When I threw away those old clothes and shoes, and through the subway and the reflective glass curtain wall, I was surprised to find that the reflective self had quietly integrated into the world.

02 Throw away old furniture and appliances at homeIn a ten-year-old house, there must be a lot of traces eroded by the years, making peopleXiIt's the same, and I want to get out of such an environment.

The table that had shaken, the dusty fan, the crunching chairs, the old sofa that had collapsed, the old wardrobe ......

Those old furniture and appliances don't seem to be particularly conspicuous in Xi's life. But the old life is enough to make a person lose their love and passion for life.

I tried to throw away the shabby bedside table, the dusty old fan, and the chair that made people worry about it collapsing.

The moment you put on a new one, you feel that life is full of life and full of sunshine.

03 Clean up the data from a long time ago on your phone

and bad emotions to break away.

01 Break off with inferiority

Don't always think that you are the most inconspicuous, the worst and the most bizarre person, low self-esteem will only make you lose a lotSparklingopportunities.

Break away from low self-esteem, recognize that you are no worse than others, and strive to become a person with your head held high, and life will treat you gently.

02 Break away from anxiety

Looking at yesterday's *** data, it's still terrible. But now I'm noAnxietyFinish.

Even if I am anxious, it doesn't get better, and even the more anxious I get, the more I can't write, and then life gets worse and worse.

Anxiety never brings it to itselfSurprise

Try to break away from anxiety, keep writing when the data doesn't work, and read more when you don't know what to write, so as to create inspiration and environment for yourself.

You just have to work hard to improve yourself, and time will prove the rest.

03 and impatienceWhen I was in collegeI didn't feel the pressure of life, so I spent three years in a mess.

Became after graduationMigrant workersFor two or three years, I didn't think about the pressure of buying a house and a car, and I never thought about what it was like to be old and young, so there was not much left in the salary for those two or three years.

When I walked through the age when I should struggle and take root the most, I stood in the face of thirty, faced with a mortgage and car loan, and faced with my aging parents, I was anxious to have no money and no ability now.

Don't be idle when you're fine, and wait until all the difficulties come to you, only to be at a loss in your impatience and make the situation worse and worse.

In life, always have to beBe aware in advance, let make money in advance, let good Xi habits advance, and make life better ...... in advance

You'll find that keep goingin a virtuous circleI will never be impatient because of a bad situation.

From now on, break away from impatience, change little by little, maintain some awareness of advance, and clear all the things in your life that are about to become stumbling blocks, so that you can relax.

and some rotten people.

01 Stay away from useless socializing

InEat, drink and be merryIt's hard to be a person who is Xi to being alone and reading quietly;In the circle of realizing your life dreams, you can continue to work hard for your life goals.

A person's circle will determine what kind of person he will become.

It's hard to meet like-minded people in the adult world, but we should be sober that not all friends are worth making friends, and not all of them are worth wasting our time.

Only by staying away from useless socializing and purifying your circle can you truly change your life.

02 Stay away from people who like to complain03 Stay away from people who like to procrastinate and have no hope for life

One likes to procrastinate and will look for all sortsRationalewithExcusesPeople who procrastinate will have no hope for their own idle life.

Perhaps such a person has reached a certain age and has not achieved anything and begins to degenerate himself, or perhaps he has become Xi to procrastination and indifference that never stops.

And procrastination is easily contagious.

And Xi people who are used to procrastination break away and don't become oneThere is no hope for lifeSurrender to lifeAdmit that you can only live so humbleNo change is possibleof people.

and bad Xi habits.

01 No longer obsessed with your phone

I started quittingMobile phone addictionand write "on a sticky note."Don't look at your phoneA few large letters, pasted on the computer monitor, where you can see it both up and down.

I startPractice Xi deliberatelyAs long as you pick up your phone, you must put it down within three minutes, except for work-related content.

Gradually, I developed a kind of ".Mobile phones are toxicEven if you want to see it, your subconscious will reject it.

02 Don't go to bed late and wake up late

I startGo to bed earlyNo matter how many unfulfilled wishes and reluctances there are on this day, I will turn off the lights and mobile phones, and try to fall asleep with the most stable heart.

I started to wake up early, even around 4 a.m., and worked hard to get my manuscript in this quiet moment when no one was disturbing and I was full of inspiration.

Breaking up from going to bed late and waking up late, my life gradually changed, I slept enough, and my creation became less painful.

03 No more excuses for not having time to read

Read a bookwithDon't read booksThe difference can be verified by time.

In those days when I didn't read, I often unconsciously fell into loss, confusion and wanted to give up.

Making excuses for not reading made me doubt myself once again, and I was at a loss when it came to persevering, hesitant when faced with a choice, and at a loss for what to do in the difficult process of parenting.

When I realized this, I started reading a lot of books and taking advantage of themAll the trivial timeRead a book

Look at the philosophy of life, look at the inspiration of success, look at the economy and finance, look at psychology, look at the encyclopedia of parenting ......

My mind was gradually opened to understand how to choose, how to face difficulties, how to face a naughty child, how to come out of adversity.

Reading books makes me look at life with a different perspective and become calm and sober.

The above is my list of renunciations that I have gradually changed in my life, and it has made me gradually change from what I hate to what I accept by myself. May all people be able to rise from adversityCome outLive as you like!ClickGreatLet's cheer for the ideal life!

end—Author: ao Tsundere Star, a codeword man who has experienced wind and rain and keeps getting up. Because of the detours, I hope that the people around me are lucky and determined to achieve freedom in life through writing and become what I like.

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