In 2000, on a variety show, the host said to Fei Xiang: "Your ex-girlfriend Ye Qianwen has 10 relationships, but she only admits 3, one of which is you." I heard that it's only been a little over a month, right?”
Fei Xiang choked up after listening to the host's words.
Packing up his mood, he continued: "Actually, it should be less than a year. What struck me even more was that how could there be 10 paragraphs?It turned out that I was just one of them. The words are full of regret and sadness.
In 1981, Fei Xiang, who returned to Taiwan to visit his mother after graduating from university, was discovered by Zhang Aijia and participated in the Taiwanese unit drama "11 Women", making his official debut.
It was also in this year that he met the woman he would never forget, Ye Qianwen.
When I first met, Fei Xiang was deeply attracted by the beautiful, generous, lively and agile Ye Qianwen.
Fei Xiang, who is tall and handsome, gentleman and gentle, also left a deep impression on Ye Qianwen.
In the process of future interactions, the two who gradually became familiar with each other found that they had a lot of points in common with each other.
Fei Xiang was born in Taiwan, because his father was an American, and he went to a school founded by Americans since he was a child. At the age of 18, he was admitted to Stanford University with excellent grades.
Ye Qianwen settled in Canada with her relatives at the age of 4, and when she returned to her hometown to visit relatives, she was discovered by talent scouts because of her tall stature and excellent appearance.
The similar growth experience brought the two hearts closer and closer.
But at that time, Fei Xiang had already won the Golden Record Award for the song "Lingering" and became the dream lover of thousands of girls.
At that time, Ye Qianwen was just an 18-tier actress, and her records and film works were tepid.
She doesn't deserve him", one after the other, almost drowning out their love.
In that era when idols couldn't fall in love, they were frantically boycotted by fans.
But Fei Xiang still publicly confessed on TV, saying that Ye Qianwen was his and would love Ye Qianwen forever.
Even if going public with his relationship would make his acting career difficult, he didn't hesitate.
Ye Qianwen was also moved by his firm persistence, and boldly responded to his feelings regardless of the weight of **.
Day after day, their relationship became stronger and stronger, and he even wanted to enter the palace of marriage with her.
At the age of 22, he happily took her home to meet her mother. Unexpectedly, his mother was very unhappy when she saw Ye Qianwen.
Fei Xiang's mother, Bi Lina, is well-educated and has a high vision. She didn't look down on this girl who had just debuted at all.
In her eyes, her son is not only handsome, but also won the Golden Disc Award at a young age. Only a great beauty like Lin Qingxia is worthy.
And how can this mediocre-looking and good-for-nothing newcomer be worthy of her excellent son.
Therefore, she resolutely objected to her son being with Ye Qianwen.
Every time Fei Xiang and Ye Qianwen go out together, Fei's mother is very dissatisfied and unhappy.
Knowing that Fei's mother didn't like her, Ye Qianwen was very sad, and the two had to date secretly.
At that time, Fei Xiang would get together with his girlfriend whenever he was free.
Once, they went to Hong Kong to perform, and after dinner, Fei Xiang said that there was a surprise for Ye Qianwen, so he took her to Victoria Harbour.
It turned out that Fei Xiang had chartered a yacht.
Victoria Harbour at night, the lights on both sides of the river shine on the water, gorgeous and colorful, very romantic.
Fei Xiang asked the captain to surround the harbor for three or four hours, and the two lovers snuggled up to the bow of the ship and complained to each other. And this has become the most romantic and unforgettable moment in Fei Xiang's life.
However, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and this underground relationship is still known to Fei's mother.
They want to be together openly and honestly, and they are eager for his mother to approve of their relationship, but once again they meet Fei's mother's strong opposition.
Because of this, she was overshadowed in her heart, and she was very sad not to be liked by Fei Xiang's mother. Afraid that Fei Xiang would be in a dilemma, she proposed to break up.
Fei Xiang did everything possible to keep him, and Ye Qianwen was moved by his sincerity and got back together.
This time, in order to get Fei's mother's consent. She changed her dressing style, learned to restrain her free and flamboyant personality, and tried to become the gentle appearance that his mother liked.
Obviously, she has a wealthy family, and she has been held in the palm of her parents since she was a child, but she is willing to compromise for him. But this time, Fei Xiang's mother didn't even let him enter the house.
Hit hard, she decided to cut through the mess quickly this time. With a free and easy personality, she thought: It's okay, don't like it if you don't like it, love is not the most important thing.
So, she decided to stay away from the sad place and go to Hong Kong to develop her acting career.
Even though Fei Xiang did not hesitate to kneel down and plead, he still could not change his mother's decision.
Fei Xiang, who had deeply hurt his mother once because of his sister, couldn't bear to make his mother sad anymore, and finally chose to compromise.
Filial piety since childhood, he obeyed his mother's wishes and was admitted to Stanford University in the United States to study Xi medicine. Because his sister Anya, who is seven years apart from him, was diagnosed with cancer when he was in high school, he strengthened his determination to study medicine.
But before he returned from school, cancer took his sister's life, and his sister's greatest wish before her death was to stand in front of the screen.
In order to fulfill his sister's dream, Fei Xiang, who had a very good relationship with his sister since he was a child, put away his grief and transferred to the drama department of Stanford University without telling his mother to fulfill his sister's last wish. That was the only time he disobeyed his mother.
Therefore, in the face of emotional problems, he still can't hurt his mother.
Soon after his parents divorced, his father had a new family, while his mother was unmarried and raised him alone.
The heartache and helplessness of Fei Xiang had no choice but to say goodbye to love and fly to Southeast Asia alone to heal his emotional wounds.
Time flies, but the pain of losing the love in his heart is difficult to eliminate. But he also knows that feelings that are not recognized by his mother are destined to wear out love.
From then on, he didn't talk about Ye Qianwen anymore, he was just an obedient and good son, and hid his love in his heart, but silently paid attention to all her news.
40 years have passed in a flash, and now he has passed the age of ear shun, and he returned to the screen because he played the merchant king Yin Shou in the first part of "Fengshen". Personable, but still single.
And she married Lin Zixiang, who loved her to the bone, with white hair, no longer young, and never pregnant in her life.
It turns out that some people, once they miss it, are really not there;For some people, missing out is a lifetime.
Their love has become a thing of the past, and the love at first sight when they were young has finally become a regret and concern that they can't let go of for a lifetime.
How much love is like this, at the beginning he gave her happiness, but in the end he wished her happiness.