In China, we often hear parents shouting and even yelling at them for educating their children. Many parents believe that yelling is to help their children better recognize their mistakes and correct their behavior. However, they don't know how serious the consequences of yelling at a child too often can be. According to several studies, children who are yelled at a lot may experience the following 8 personality changes.
1.Short-tempered personality.
Studies have shown that children who are often "yelled" at by their parents also tend to "yell" when dealing with problems. This will cause the child to be unable to think calmly when encountering things, and show the personality trait of impetuousness.
2.Insecurity.
If children are yelled at frequently, they may begin to distance themselves from their parents, leading to parent-child tensions. Such children often have no presence in front of their parents and thus lack a sense of security.
3.Timid, cowardly, and unassertive.
Constantly yelling at your child can cause your child to become timid, cowardly, and afraid to express his thoughts and opinions. Over time, such children will become less confident and more easily oppressed by the outside world.
4.will get stupid :
Psychological research has concluded that children who are often subjected to parental yelling and verbal violence will have their brain structure damaged, and the volume of the hippocampus in the brain will be reduced, which will affect the child's intellectual development.
5.Do things timidly.
Children who are often yelled at will always pay too much attention to their parents' reactions when doing things, rather than thinking about how to do it well. This can lead to children being timid and looking ahead when doing things, and not being able to make the most of their abilities.
6.Inferiority.
Children who have been yelled at for a long time can start to hate themselves, believing that they are not good enough or that they do not live up to their parents' expectations. This self-denial and self-loathing can lead to low self-esteem and may even lead to a people-pleasing personality.
7.Rebel.
Children who have been yelled at for a long time may develop a rebellious mentality, and although they are obedient to their parents on the surface, they are enemies of their parents on the inside, and they are always trying to prove themselves. This inner conflict and struggle can make the child feel distressed and helpless.
8.Indifferent.
Children who are constantly yelled at can become apathetic because they are not recognized and taken seriously by their parents. This indifference is not only manifested in the affection for parents, but can also affect their attitude towards those around them and their love for others. For the sake of the healthy growth of children, parents should avoid frequent yelling and scolding of children. When children make mistakes or misbehave, parents should calmly communicate with their children, understand their thoughts and feelings, and guide them to correctly recognize the problem and find solutions. Only in this way can we truly help children grow into healthy, confident and caring individuals. Don't yell or scream, raise good children