The love story and female characters in the recent hit variety show "Love's School Trip" have sparked a lot of attention and discussion, and Wu Qianyu shows her authentic and sincere side in this show, and also successfully shakes off the previous perception of her cheesy label. At the same time, she recently posted the good news of getting married** and announcing her marriage on social **, which once again attracted everyone's attention and discussion.
She was not only loved, but also respected and cared for. From her, we can see the demeanor of a high-energy woman. In film and television dramas and real life, there is no shortage of such an image of a high-energy woman. They pursue sincere feelings while showing a unique view of themselves and the world. This uniqueness may lead to reflection on the multidimensional role of contemporary women.
Is it difficult to achieve your true self?
Why do I always feel like I'm not good enough, and what exactly is considered "appropriate"?
How can you strike a balance between love, career, and personal development to create an enviable trajectory in life?
Nowadays, there is still some prejudice against women's views on love and money, albeit to a lesser extent. For example, in the traditional view, people have a certain prejudice against the concept of marriage, that is, they pay too much attention to factors such as women's social background, wealth status, and family background. As a result, some women not only need to deal with emotional fluctuations when they are in a relationship, but also have to face excessive speculation and prejudice about their backgrounds from the outside world.
For a long time, Wu Qianyu has also suffered some unavoidable negative evaluations, but she does not shy away from the voices of the outside world and insists on showing her truest self. Whether it is the outside world discussion or the confession in "Love's School Trip", she bravely explains her personal attitude towards love and money. This candor is a manifestation of her aggressive pursuit of her true self. Her approach seems to remind us that for the best in this world, the first thing that should please you is yourself.
Beauty doesn't just give her some natural advantages, her attraction is not limited to this, her stable and fulfilling spiritual core is more important. She is very stable in both life and career. She has not only achieved success in her career, but also from her personal social platforms, it can be seen that she has a colorful personal life. This love of life and in-depth exploration of her own spiritual world has injected more possibilities into her life and enabled her to have a more solid foothold in her relationship.
It is very important to be good at taking into account the emotions of others in communication. In the show, Wu Qianyu showed a very high emotional intelligence, and she was good at taking care of her emotions when communicating with her lover Shi Boxiong and other guests. For example, when Shi Boxiong mentioned that Zhu Dan was similar to his mother, Wu Qianyu defused the possible awkward situation by cleverly saying "it looks very blessed when you laugh." She is good at listening and understanding others, and knows how to care and take care of their emotional needs. This ability to be empathetic often earns the respect and affection of others and is one of the necessary conditions to be a good partner.
In love, be confident, not succumb to other people's expectations, and don't deliberately cater to them. Wu Qianyu has always maintained an independent and confident attitude in her relationship, she is neither humble nor arrogant, has a clear understanding of herself, and does not deliberately meet the traditional expectations of society for women. Her frankness and firmness exude a unique charm that makes her comfortable in love, not only earning respect but also becoming a model for an independent woman.
In "Love's Study Trip", Xi Mengyao showed her unique feminine charm. However, an over-reading of the rival relationship between her and another woman is often seen online. But in reality, the relationship between them is not competitive, but more like the self-attention derived from two different personalities. They also have a unique charm of both internal and external cultivation.
How to please yourself and become your true self?They provided great answers. From them, we may find a weapon to deconstruct old prejudices. The pursuit of truth to please oneself is the most powerful response to the world. Looking at their positive attitudes and clear stance towards life and love, we see more confidence in their own deserving love.
Many times, we are accustomed to hiding our inner insecurities by escaping, constantly wandering in our comfort zone, reinforcing the belief that "I am not worthy" again and again, and making the self that could have become better farther and farther away from us. Why do you always feel like you're not worth it?So what kind of standard should be met to be considered "matching"?
Goose feathers of snow fell in the sky, and soft snowflakes gently fell on the hairy snow. Mao Xuewang looked out the window, and her eyes revealed her love for snowflakes. The snowflakes seem to stick to the body of the fluffy body, making it look even more cute. Mao Xuewang couldn't wait to jump out of bed and run against the heavy snow. It bites the snowflakes with its mouth, licks the white snowflakes it falls, and enjoys the cold touch. The snowflakes are melted by its warm heat and turn into water droplets. Mao Xuewang felt that the water droplets were also his friends, and continued to lick them.
In the TV series "All the Way to the Sun", Li Mujia showed a very strong sense of self-affirmation and a natural attitude. She is independent and self-reliant, with a firm heart, actively striving and constantly breaking through, and standing out in her field. She is brave enough to love and not completely dependent on men. Even when she gets love, she still strives to improve, constantly trying infinite possibilities instead of stagnating. Love is not exactly the salvation of her life and life path, and it is also the best way to keep love fresh by progressing and growing together.
Yi Nengjing also has her own in-depth insights into the "sense of worthiness". "Never think of yourself as ordinary, never feel like you're limited," she said. She also emphasized: "You are the most precious, the most precious, the most expensive existence in the world, and everything else is just for you." She also said: "We don't live to please others, our value is not to marry a man, our value is to explore who we are through our whole life." She told us, "Never feel unworthy, you're good, so you deserve all the good things." ”
In this fast-paced and outwardly prosperous society, really"A sense of worthiness"It's not material, it's the deep abundance of the heart. It is a kind of recognition of the intrinsic value of the self, a kind of independent thinking about life. It is only on the basis of inner fullness that one can truly experience it"A sense of worthiness"The highest level. Get rid of"Unworthy"or"Low sense of allocation"The bondage of possession"A sense of worthiness"to become the master of emotions and life, creating a unique and deep life.
In the observation of modern society, women are often described as delicate flowers that need to be cared for and cared for. However, there is a group of women who have lofty ideals and pursue not only to be loved like flowers, but to become tall and upright towering trees, standing on the land of life. This quest is not to deny the beauty of flowers, but to be rooted in the deep soil in all aspects of life, like towering trees, standing tall in the wind and radiating light, proving that women can also be energetic in all fields.
Just like the energetic female characters in the TV series, they are more than just images of the characters, but also a symbol of inner strength that brings out the unique underlying spiritual core of every real-life woman.
In the drama "Yi Nian Guan Mountain", Liu Shishi's character Ren Ruyi shows the image of the triple independence of force value, thought and strength, and fully interprets a real heroine. She believes that women do not have to get married, but can choose to live independently and not depend on others. She got rid of the traditional concept that men are strong and women are weak, and firmly believed that as long as she was strong enough, she could overcome all difficulties, and women were not inferior to men. Liu Shishi's own understanding of this character is that Ren Ruyi is like a sword, a lone wolf, cold on the outside and enthusiastic on the inside. She also mentioned in the interview that this drama is a legendary costume group drama, not an ancient doll drama, and each character has its own unique spiritual core.
In the drama "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Zhao Liying played the role of Minglan who has experienced the process of growing from a predicament in childhood to growing into a smart, wise, brave and strategic lady, her growth story not only shows the status and situation of ancient women, but also perfectly interprets the tenacity and wisdom of women.
Today's audience has a high degree of affection for male characters in most film and television dramas, but we can't ignore the unique strengths of female characters, and we should explore their strength and charm.
In the French animated film "Looking for Them", travel through time and reveal female characters who have been forgotten by history, such as Cristina de Pisan, creator of the game Monopoly, Viking female warrior and Europe's first female writer to write for a living. Women should not be confined to a specific image, they don't need to be just husbands and children, they can not do housework, they can pursue whatever they want.
In the exploration of women, we find that the beauty of life is not only reflected in the beauty of flowers on the outside, but also in the ability to live beautifully. Only internal and external cultivation is where a true high-energy woman lies. However, we don't need to be overly anxious and in a hurry, because a stable spiritual core is not obtained overnight, but gradually polished in the process of facing challenges, learning to be tolerant, and understanding life. It's like a long practice that takes time and patience, in which we become more resilient and have a deeper understanding of what a truly high-energy woman is.