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Shen Fu wrote in "Six Tales of Floating Life":
"Don't meet it first, don't worry about it, don't keep it, let it come naturally, let it go. ”
A person's real strength lies in his inner strength, and his inner strength lies in the fact that when things come, he can bear them, and after the incident, he can also turn the page generously and go with the flow.
In this way, take a leisurely stroll, sit and watch the wind and clouds, calm as water, and smile and watch the flowers bloom and fall.
Writer Wang Xiaobo said: Life is a slow process of being hammered.
Therefore, if you can bear it, you can afford to put it down, so that you can refine it into steel, move forward freely, and truly become a powerful person.
Things to bear
Only by practicing in things can people practice real kung fu and build real skills.
is the only way to withstand even if you encounter a big thing in the future.
Everyone has their own weaknesses, everyone is a novice at the beginning, they have no experience in what to do, their minds are not mature, and their ability to resist pressure is not good.
However, everyone can adapt step by step through long-term persistence, forbearance, polishing, and then let themselves adapt step by step, even if they encounter great difficulties and big troubles, as long as they face it bravely and deal with it positively, they can grow.
Then, as you become more experienced, you will become more confident, more calm when you encounter problems, and you will know how to deal with troubles.
However, in the process of growth, people are always difficult and tormented, and they can only let themselves continue to grow and persevere.
In this way, you can control your own destiny, or truly rely on your own ability, wisdom, and strength to transform your own destiny.
Zhou Guoping wrote in "Life is Not Competitive":
"Man cannot control his own fate, but he can control his attitude towards fate and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on his head. ”
The best way to deal with problems is not to think cranky, act immediately, find the cause while acting, and act immediately when you find the cause.
Then, avoid letting yourself fall into anxiety, and don't let yourself get stuck in a rut, but face the challenges of problems and pressure, and you can bear it.
If you can bear it, you will be able to become more and more powerful, you will be able to withstand pressure more and more, and finally let yourself have a better and more correct insight and cultivation in dealing with problems.
If you continue in this way, you will understand that a person's attitude towards things will determine the height of life that he can reach.
There is such a passage in the Island Bookstore:
"In everyone's life, there are the most painful years that make life beautiful and vast. ”
To be a man and do things, to put down your body, to stabilize your mentality, and to keep your beliefs, you can carry it and get through it.
No matter how painful, tormented, and desperate you are, you can make the dark years become a stepping stone for yourself to be reborn through your persistence and hard work for several years, making the scenery of life more beautiful and vast.
Turn the page after the fact
Human nature is complex and contradictory, just like some people don't want to lose once they get it.
As the saying goes, it is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult for a person to truly achieve a balance in his heart, whether it is about success or failure, or about others.
The more important the matter, the more precious it is, or the more difficult it is for you to make a choice, the more difficult it is to let go, and the more difficult it is to balance your heart.
If people want to turn the page after the fact, what they need is wisdom, what they need is concentration, and what they need is courage.
But no matter what, only by learning to be able to afford to put it down and turn the page generously can you really let yourself go further and further.
As Balzac once said
"Life cannot go on without forgetting much. ”
Life is always easy to disturb those who are constantly accumulating negative energy and constantly complaining about reality.
Because these people will always carry all the distress, stress, anxiety, and problems on their bodies, and never try to unload the burden from their bodies.
In this way, unwilling, reluctant, unwilling, all kinds of entanglements, all kinds of entanglements, let themselves continue to suffer internal friction, and eventually become more and more tired, and it is difficult to return.
I like this sentence very much: Life is not staring at sad things, but walking step by step towards the morning sun with your head held high.
In this life, only by allowing yourself to bear things, withstand pressure, and turn the page afterwards, can you meet a better future with a calm attitude and a relaxed state.
Really awesome people, allowing everything to happen
Really powerful people will never deliberately pester others, let alone take the initiative to make things difficult for themselves.
The reality is difficult, life is very hard, there is no need to always put pressure on yourself for no reason, and there is no need to have too strong desire for control and possessiveness.
Because, after all, man's destiny is to go to extinction, and since in the face of this inevitability, all idealism has become false.
However, we can only be a little more open-minded, a little more ambitious, a little broader-minded, and allow everything to happen.
Then, if you can really afford to let go, you can soothe your soul, settle your soul, allow everything to happen, and accept everything.
In this way, you can bear it, you can endure it, you can endure it, you can forget it, you can let it go, your heart is quiet, peaceful, calm, and you can live calmly and calmly for a lifetime.