Husband: My parents bought the house with all the money, why don't they let them live in it?Wife Not suitable
After graduating from university, Wang Kai stepped into a listed company. He and his girlfriend Lihong met through a mutual colleague's introduction.
Wang Kai is slender and straight, with a handsome face that is both handsome and soft, and his whole body exudes a calm atmosphere. He has thick eyebrows, deep eyes, and a tall nose bridge, making him a handsome guy that people like when they see him.
Lihong soon became inseparable from Wang Kai, and the relationship between the two was like glue. She was attracted by Wang Kai's excellent background, graduated from a prestigious school, had a good job, and had an extraordinary appearance and temperament, which was the ideal other half in the hearts of girls. The only thing that made her feel dissatisfied was that Wang Kai's family background belonged to a small county town, her parents were vegetable sellers, and her profession didn't seem to be tall enough, which made her look down on her.
Despite this, Lihong was reluctant to part with Wang Kai. Such an excellent man should not be missed, and it may be difficult to meet again in the future. Lihong's parents work in the provincial capital and regard her as the pearl of their palms, and they have been pampered as a rich girl since she was a child.
When talking about marriage, Lihong asked Wang Kai's parents to buy a house in full. However, Wang Kai did not agree, because it would cost millions to buy a house in a big city, and his parents simply could not afford it.
One day, Wang Kai chatted with his mother in ** and mentioned the troubles of marriage. Wang Kai said with a sad face: "Maybe it's going to be in the soup, and the woman asked to buy a house." I didn't agree, our family doesn't have that much money at all!I think it's better to forget it, let's look for it slowly!”
Unexpectedly, the mother replied in **: "Son, buy it if you want to!."Your dad and I have already discussed it. After that, you will live in the provincial capital, and the house will have to be bought sooner or later. We've also saved some money over the years to buy a house for you to get married. It's not easy for you to live in a big city, and if you want to make a down payment and have to repay the loan, it's better to pay it off in one lump sum, and you won't have to worry about it in the future. ”
Hearing his mother's words, Wang Kai's heart swelled with a strong sense of gratitude. From childhood to junior high school, he stayed by his parents' side. How well he understands the hard work of his parents, getting up at four o'clock every morning, boiling some porridge, buying a few steamed buns, and a plate of pickles, barely solving the breakfast. At noon, my mother came home and gave it to my father to eat. At night, my parents come home late, and no matter how tired they are, they have to go home to cook, save money, and save every penny.
Now, knowing that he wants to buy a house, his parents do not hesitate to hand over the money they have worked on for so many years. This made his heart feel a tingling in his heart, and the feeling of distress welled up in his heart. There are really parents in the world, they have given everything for their son, without the slightest selfishness, and have dedicated all their love to him without reservation. His eyes moistened, and his heart was filled with gratitude to his parents.
In order to buy real estate for his son, Wang Kai's father made a special trip to the provincial capital. He bought a house in his son's name and registered his son's name on the title deed.
When the renovation of the house was completed, Lihong rejoiced. She happily arranges the use of each room: "The master bedroom belongs to us, and the second bedroom is reserved for my parents." One of the two small rooms is used as a children's room and the other as a study. ”
Wang Kai was suspicious after hearing this, and quickly interrupted her: "After getting married, do you plan to let your parents live with us?"”
Yes, my parents only have me, an only daughter. Of course, they want to live with us, and I plan to let them sell their family house and come and live with us in retirement. Lihong said firmly.
Wang Kai was anxious: "You let your parents sell the house, and they all live with us, so my parents live in **, what should they do?"”
Your parents can stay in their hometown, don't you have a house in your hometown? Lihong replied nonchalantly.
Wang Kai persuaded: "Don't let your parents come to live." Their home was close to us and we were able to take care of it. My parents are too far away from the provincial capital, what if something I don't have around for anything?”
Your parents are still quite young and can take care of themselves. When they are really old, you can give them some money to provide for their old age, can't you?Why do you have to move here? Lihong said with some displeasure.
So how can it be the same?The original intention of parents raising children is to share the joy of family with their children when they are old. Only in this way will the old age be happy and happy. I can't leave them alone, the provincial capital is too far away from my hometown, and it's too inconvenient to take care of them. Wang Kai patiently explained.
But I don't want to live with your family, our living Xi are different, and there are differences in the three views. Your parents are vegetable ** and are exposed to some hard work every day. First of all, I wasn't very comfortable with the meals they cooked, and I was worried about taking care of them if I had children in the future. Their level of education is relatively low, so it can be said that they are more rustic. I don't think I'll feel at ease if I leave my child with them. "Lihong expressed her thoughts frankly.
I was raised by my own parents and eventually completed my studies at a prestigious school, and my temperament and talent are no less than anyone else's. People born in rural areas are not necessarily unable to take good care of their children. What you say comes across as a bit vexatious and too intense. "Wang Kaisheng responded angrily.
What are the advantages of your parents compared to my parents?My parents were elegant and cultured people. Your parents are just engaged in vegetables** and always have some vegetable smell on them. I was a little unaccustomed to them, and I didn't want to live with them, and I preferred to let my parents come and live with us. "Lihong insisted.
What about the elegance of your parents?Every day, I have to eat several meals of big fish and meat, thousands of clothes, and I have to have brand-name bags. Apart from your two-bedroom home, do they have any family property left for you?They don't seem to have much foresight. What do they deserve my respect?You now dislike their low-grade professions and feel that they are not worthy of your noble status. Tomorrow I dislike them for being from the countryside and feel that they are not worthy of respect. ”
What's wrong with selling vegetables!Careers should not be distinguished from high and low, the key lies in hard work and personal ability. Although they may not be willing to enjoy a luxurious life and may dress modestly, it is all about creating a better future for the family. The four-bedroom and two-living room house you live in now is also the result of my parents' life's hard work. Did your parents ever give you a penny?Why do you enjoy their riches without a shred of gratitude? In my heart, my parents are the most respectable people. They have worked hard for me and have given me everything I deserve for my happiness. I can't be ungrateful, and I can't ignore their presence. Let me leave my parents in my hometown, I can't do it!"
The cost of the engagement and the decoration of the wedding room were all paid by my parents. You take my parents' money and live in the house that my parents bought, how can you forget that they are vegetable sellers?You should feel blessed and have a grateful heart. In my opinion, parents are the greatest beings. They gave everything for me, and I can't forget it, and I can't ignore them. Let me let my parents stay in my hometown, I can't do it!”
Wang Kai finally broke out, he felt that this woman was too scheming. As soon as the marriage began, she picked and chose her in-laws, how will she live in the future?If so, is there any need for this marriage to continue?When he graduated from college, he was determined not to fail his parents. The hard work of his parents, leaving early and returning late, has always been for him, he can't be sorry for his parents, and he can't be a person who doesn't know how to be grateful.
According to what you say, let my parents come over to support the elderly, what will my parents do, don't you care?They only have one daughter, and I can't ignore it!"Lihong cried.
I don't object to you raising your parents, they live in the provincial capital. We weren't far away and it was convenient to take care of each other. Does it make sense why they had to live with us and get rid of my parents?"
Then let's get a divorce, I just want to find a husband who is responsible for my family!"Lihong threatened.
Good!Then get divorced!I just want to take care of my parents in their old age and do my filial piety. "
For this marriage, Wang Kai really doesn't want to stick to it anymore. After buying the house, his mother-in-law wanted to keep him as a son-in-law, urging him and Lihong to get a marriage certificate as soon as possible, saying that they would wait for Wang Kai's parents to be financially prosperous before getting married. At the beginning of living together, they encountered such a big contradiction. In any case, he could not remain indifferent to his parents.
Faced with Wang Kai's unwillingness to compromise, Lihong called a car and moved all her things. She thinks that such a man is disobedient and must be warned, otherwise it will be difficult to control in the future and her life will be very difficult.
Three days later, Wang Kai gave her a **. She thought he had bowed his head and was going to coax her. However, after receiving the **, Wang Kai said:"I'll see you at the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow morning, and we'll go through the divorce procedures!"
She was so angry that her face turned green, but she thought that although Wang Kai's parents had an average career, they could make money. The full purchase of the house, the renovation costs, the wedding everything is out of theirs. In the end, she regretted losing Wang Kai, and her parents reminded her many times that Wang Kai had a future and would be happy with him. She just wanted to scare Wang Kai, but now it seems that Wang Kai is really a man with filial piety. She wanted to ask for forgiveness, but after sending a message, Wang Kai replied:"It's impossible, let's get a divorce, let's get together and disperse, I wish you happiness!"