Lin Jingen, a familiar name, is now appearing on the street with an embarrassing identity. What was once a giant baby is now a street man, her expression haggard and her face pale and weak. Standing on the streets in the cold of January, she wore only a thin jacket, without the protection of cotton clothes and warm clothing. Holding her body tightly with her arms, she seemed to be looking for a glimmer of warmth that had been lost for so long. Her current predicament can be felt from her state and speech, she said that she has no money, presumably because she has no money and has been kicked out of the hotel. Lin Jingen's mood has also become unstable recently, she smashed things like crazy in the hotel, and was finally blacklisted by the hotel. She now has nowhere to go and is homeless on the streets.
17 years old is the age when a young girl is chasing her dreams. However, Lin Jingen made an incomprehensible decision at this age - to marry Li Kuncheng, who is 40 years older than him. This decision caused a huge controversy and sensation, and even caused a storm in the city. Lin Jingen gave up the opportunity to go to school, broke with his parents, and chose the path of marriage. However, this choice came at a huge cost to her. She is dependent on her husband for support and has no ability to survive on her own, nor does she have the ability to think and solve problems independently. When her husband died, she didn't know how to face life and didn't know how to start with **. She sold her mansion, but instead of planning for her future, she lived a life on the streets.
In her married life, Lin Jingen was very pampered by her husband. Her husband treats her very well, she doesn't need to do almost anything, and she doesn't have to worry about it when she is sick. They had a small wedding at the hospital and looked very happy. However, her husband soon died, and Lin Jingen fell into a deep predicament. For more than a decade, she has lived a life of sheer dependence on others for support, not learning to be self-reliant and take care of herself. She doesn't have her own career, she doesn't have a financial **, she can only spend money and vent her emotions. She also has a bad relationship with her husband's son, and is often complained about by him. This kind of life makes people wonder whether her choice is a blessing or a curse
Regarding Lin Jingen's situation, netizens expressed their opinions. Some people think that this is Li Kuncheng's harm, and some people think that this is her own choice, and she should be responsible for her actions. Either way, she is now an adult and should learn to be self-reliant and take responsibility for her own life. She needs to re-examine her choices and plan for her future. After all, everyone in life will face dilemmas and challenges, and the key is how to cope with and solve them.
For the majority of young people, we can get some inspiration from Lin Jingen's experience. First of all, marriage is a major decision in life and needs to be carefully considered. It is necessary to take into account not only the personal qualities and character of the other party, but also the economic situation and future development of both parties. Secondly, learn to be self-reliant and think independently, and not to be completely dependent on others for support. Both men and women should have their own careers and finances, which can not only ensure their own lives, but also improve their social status and self-confidence.
For society, it is more necessary to pay attention to those who are in trouble. Homeless and homeless people are vulnerable groups in society who need more care and help. ** and social organizations can increase assistance to these vulnerable groups and provide more opportunities for relief and reconstruction. At the same time, it is also necessary to strengthen the education and guidance of young people to help them choose a lifestyle and future planning that suits them. Only in this way can more people avoid falling into a predicament like Lin Jingen and realize their life value and happiness.