The school days are a wonderful time that everyone will never forget, full of carefree, cherished friendships, and innocent memories. However, class reunions, as an important way to relive this time, have some "strange phenomena". Four groups of students voluntarily attended the meeting, while three refused to come. Behind this situation is the reflection that the real face of class reunions has undergone many changes, and it has become a place for trusting relationships and asking for help and loans. However, for us, what matters is not the form of the party, but how to keep the original intention and do our best.
1. Students who are demanding
This type of student wants to be helped by his old classmates when they encounter difficulties. Whether invited or not, they attend class reunions, hoping to take advantage of the opportunity to ask for help from their old classmates. This is the act of using class reunions as a platform for social resources.
Expansion: Faced with a difficult situation, it is normal to ask friends for help. However, we should insist on developing healthy relationships and the ability to be independent before difficulties. In this way, we are able to solve problems on our own, even without the help of our classmates.
2. Students who are experiencing financial difficulties
The hardships of life make such students financially strained, so they automatically attend class reunions for their own self-interest in order to borrow money or eat from their old classmates. In this case, the party became a channel for them to subsidize their lives.
Expansion: In the face of economic difficulties, we should be proactive in finding solutions instead of relying on others to solve our problems. Only by improving one's ability and quality through one's own efforts can one truly change one's living situation.
3. Students who like to show off
Such students live in relatively good conditions, they have money and time, and they like to show off their superiority. Class reunions are a great opportunity to show themselves, so they are always happy to go and show off their identity and status by showing off their life experiences.
Expansion: Showing off doesn't give us a real sense of accomplishment and joy. Instead, we should focus on our own growth and development, and devote our time and energy to improving our abilities and qualities.
4. Students who have relatively free time
This type of student has a lot of idle time at home, and they will not miss the opportunity to enjoy free food such as class reunions. Since there are no other arrangements, why not go and enjoy it?They don't have too many inhibitions or concerns about the meeting.
Expansion: Make full use of your time, find your own development direction, actively participate in various learning and practical activities, and improve your ability and value. Only in this way can our time be more meaningful and rewarding.
1. Rich and busy students
This type of student is financially well-off and has a busy job at the same time. Rather than attending class reunions, they are more willing to devote their time and energy to work and career development, and are not interested in reunions.
Expansion: Everyone has their own choices and pursuits, and there is no rule that you must attend a class reunion. It is important that we are able to keep our lifestyle and goals clear and not be distracted by others.
2. Students with high self-esteem
During their school days, such students may have had glorious moments. However, they didn't achieve much after graduation, and they feared that their classmates at the party would see them where they are now, shattering the image they had built up as students.
Expansion: We can't be defined by our own past accomplishments and place too much value on the eyes of others. Self-confidence and achievement do not depend on the approval of others, but on one's own values and efforts.
3. Students with a low sense of presence
This type of student is introverted and not good at words during the school years, and has a low sense of presence. They are rarely invited to class reunions, and even if they are invited, they rarely come. They prefer to be alone and are reluctant to communicate with others at parties.
Expansion: Everyone has their own personality and characteristics, and different people have different ways of choosing. Whether they choose to attend the meeting or not, we should understand and respect their personal choice.
The change in the class reunion is not a problem with the reunion itself, but a change in the students themselves. Over time, people's relationships and interests are also changing. At class reunions, we should not only be limited to comparison and exchange of interests, but should maintain our original intention and do our best. Everyone should strive to improve their abilities and qualities, develop the ability to solve problems independently, and pursue their own values and achievements in work and life. Only in this way can we truly improve our self-worth and create a better future.
As an important way to socialize, class reunions are not only a way to relive the good times of your student days, but also a bond to maintain friendship and mutual assistance. However, in reality, class reunions often disappoint people because of some undesirable phenomena. For this phenomenon, I believe that we should pay more attention to the cultivation of our own qualities and values. We should treat our classmates with kindness and friendship, not with a utilitarian attitude. No matter what situation we encounter at the party, we must keep our original intention and be ourselves. Only in this way can we truly realize the original intention of the class reunion and let the good memories continue.