Every girl has fantasized about such love.
You and him, you and me, before the moon, sweet words come when you open your mouth, kissing and hugging and lifting high is a daily operation, you are his princess, he is your prince, he will always love you, you will always love him, and then, you hold hands together and walk into the castle of marriage.
The fairy tales of the prince and princess are beautiful, but no one knows what kind of life they live when they enter marriage.
Just like several couples in the recent hit variety show "Love's School Trip", when I first watched it, I also fell in love with Jinsha and her 19-year-old boyfriend, but the more I looked back, I felt a little exaggerated.
Another pair, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun's love is also sweet, but after careful consideration, Xi Mengyao, who has always been praised by netizens for her high emotional intelligence and emotional stability, is somewhat not relaxed enough in this relationship.
And Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei, who have always been not favored by netizens, under the extension of the camera, made netizens sigh and see what love is.
Sanmao once said:
"True love is not nervous, that is, you can burp, fart, pick your ears, and have a runny nose in front of him without any scruples. ”Zhu Dan is undoubtedly relaxed in front of Zhou Yiwei, compared to Xi Mengyao's high EQ, Zhu Dan even seems to have no EQ.
But in fact, Xi Mengyao's high emotional intelligence is not worthy of envy, because in a relationship, only people who need to provide emotional value will show high emotional intelligence.
After all, in this already complicated society, who doesn't want to cry if you don't want to cry, laugh if you want to, and be yourself completely and authentically, but the reality tells you that you can't.
But Zhu Dan is different, he can mercilessly complain about Zhou Yiwei in the camera, even if Zhou Yiwei is scolded a hundred times for hot searches, the couple doesn't care.
Because in her heart, there is always a certainty that she believes that their marriage will not have any problems because of this.
There is no careful flattery, no deliberate performance, and there have been incidents such as "step theory", "boiling wontons", "her performance is not a performance in the real sense in my eyes".She was defined by netizens as "Humble Dan", and in this show, netizens saw her transparency and happiness.
What does good love look like?
Kazuo Inamori said
"It's not about dragging each other down, but about giving each other encouragement in life, comforting each other and encouraging each other when life is tired;When you encounter something, you can have someone to talk to, go home from work, you can have someone to eat with, you have been wronged outside, and you can have a warm hug when you come home. ”
It's not that you get tired of saying "I love you" all day long, but you turn around and leave when you need it most, or it's not that people are playing and spoiling you in front of you, but people always question you.
Roses and candles will bring temporary joy, but can not resist those fragile moments in marriage, words like "I love you", can always bring people a moment of surprise, but with the passage of time, it will always fade, because compared to I believe in you, I want to accompany you, it is still too empty and ethereal.
Just like the love between Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei, people always define their feelings preconceived through a few words obtained on the Internet, one is a high-minded machismo, and the other is a humble love brain to the extreme.
But love has always been like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing, and has never been judged by others.
In the latest show, Zhu Dan talked about their past, she was cheated out of all her assets by her best friend, and in her most difficult time, it was Zhou Yiwei who was always by her side.
When the court announced the verdict, she waited for the result inside, while Zhou Yiwei was outside to collect money, saying: "The two of us work together, and we can always pay back." ”
It was precisely because of this incident that she decided that this person was "okay" on Monday.
True love is never floating lightly in the air, but falling heavily on the trivial matters of dressing, eating, and sleeping.
Slowly, you will understand that making soup is warmer than sweet words, hugging is more realistic than vows, and a sentence of "I am here" is enough to resist all the unbearable in life.
As netizens commented, before, we always thought that Zhou Yiwei didn't love Zhu Dan, but it turned out that Zhou Yiwei's love was only visible to Zhu Dan.
When the sun is shining directly, he will silently use his hands to block the sun for his wife, and when Zhu Dan's shoelaces fall off, he will naturally tie them for her.
When he was assigned the worst house, he cleaned it with his hands and feet, and did not forget to clean up a simple dresser for his wife.
When Zhu Dan asked him to take a picture of her with his mobile phone, he said no, but obediently took his wife's mobile phone.
When Zhu Dan, who is not a good cook, cooks, he is busy with his hands, washing pots for a while, brushing dishes for a while, twisting bottle caps for a while, and praising for a while.
Good love is that the eyes are raining, but the heart is playing an umbrella for the other party, it is often disliked, but still does not give up, it seems to be contradictory on the outside, but it is actually warm and affectionate inside, it seems to be shallow and faint, but in fact it goes deep into the bone marrow.
For the rest of your life, may you live up to what you met, don't talk about your debts, and may you have years to look back on, and share your head with deep affection.