My best friend Millet is a year older than me and is still single.
My kids are all in kindergarten.
Chatting with her yesterday, she said that she was very eager to have a home as soon as possible, and she was going crazy after being forced on a blind date by her parents all these years.
is obviously very good, but how did she become an older leftover girl?The most important thing is that she is in her thirties and has never been in love.
Xiaomi has been working in a bank since graduating from university, and due to its outstanding performance, it has been transferred to a full-fledged establishment after two years of work. The job is stable, the welfare is good, the only daughter in the family, and she looks okay, but she is tall and looks a little strong. This condition should be okay, I have been on a blind date so many times, but I have never met a more suitable one.
Xiaomi is now numb to blind dates, she is most afraid that every time she goes home, her mother is so anxious, every time she goes home, she will say: "Take advantage of your youth, don't be so high-minded, hurry up and find a marriage." The older you get, the less people want you. His mom has been nagging since she graduated from college.
She said: "It's not that she is demanding, I go on a blind date every time I dress up carefully, looking forward to seeing someone who is about the same and getting married." As a result, I will encounter all kinds of strange things every time. Occasionally, I met one or two pleasing ones who wanted to continue to develop, but after the blind date, the other party never contacted me again, and I was embarrassed to take the initiative to contact him."
Xiaomi bought a small apartment for itself this year, saying that it is ready to be single for the rest of its life. It's good to be alone, without the constraints of family, and I will travel whenever I have time. Just watching the people around me get married and have children, I feel very lonely, I am very eager for marriage, and I am forced to become an older leftover girl.
When he was in college, a boy confessed that the boy was very good to him, but Xiaomi refused. Now I regret thinking about it, if I had given him a chance, I wouldn't have reached this age, and I haven't been in love yet.
I said that when I get married, I will regret it, and if I don't have the freedom of a person, I will take my family into account in everything. Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife, and children. Many trivial things in life will make us unhappy, but we have to take responsibility. Gradually, I found that I had changed a lot, I was no longer me, and I had a new title: mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, wife, and many people didn't know my real name.
After marriage, when you quarrel with your husband and have a red face and a thick neck, when you have a conflict with your in-laws, and when you have no replacement for the hard work of raising children, you will regret getting married.
Just like Qian Zhongshu said in "The Siege of the City": Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to enter, and people in the city want to come out.
In fact, if you don't get married, you will regret itNo matter how you choose, there will be regrets. Don't forget, keep your original intention, leave more love, and give it to yourself.
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