When people have a new item, they are constantly configuring it to match it. For example, if someone gives a fish tank, they want to buy a few goldfish;I got a birdcage and wanted to buy a bird;In psychology, this is called the "matching effect". Sometimes, the later items are more expensive than the original ones. In this way, many people unconsciously spend a lot of their time and energy on those dispensable things.
Some people see that others are doing a certain kind of business and invest, but they don't think about whether they are suitable for doing this kind of thing, and after investing a lot of money in it, they find that things are not as simple as they first seem. It can be seen that it is impossible for a person to achieve success if he does not understand his own strengths and weaknesses, does not know his own strengths, and blindly follows others. The situation is similar not only in the business world, but also in other areas.
From a psychological point of view, people are most likely to lose themselves in group consciousness, for example, in some occasions, as long as someone takes the lead in applauding, everyone will follow, and many people do not know why they are applauding. It can be seen that most of people's mistakes are caused by blindly following others. In recent years, there have been cases where some people know that certain actions are wrong, but they find that others are doing them, and they follow suit, and as a result, they have violated the principles of faith in a vague way and become obscure.
No matter when and where you are, you have to remember who you are, and there are some things that we can't do, even if people all over the world are doing, because we are people of faith. We have reverence in our hearts, we are taught not to go with the flow, and we know that we will see the results of our actions. The Merciful Lord said, "After knowledge comes to you, if you follow their lusts, you will belong to the wrongdoers." ”（2:145）
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