Topic: Friendship or Grades?How to balance?Among students, there are many people who are faced with a dilemma: should they keep their friendships or pursue good grades?Linlin is one of them. In order not to lose her friends, she did not dare to get too good results in the exams, which eventually led to a serious decline in her grades. Such problems are common in school, so how should we balance camaraderie and academics?First of all, camaraderie and grades are important, but one should not be sacrificed to cater to the other. If a person does not dare to achieve good results in order to keep the friendship, he will only end up losing both parties. Therefore, we need to learn to balance these two factors, both to have good interpersonal relationships and to have excellent academic performance. Second, learn to stand up for your positions and beliefs.
No matter what aspect we are, we must have our own pursuits and goals, and do not give up our beliefs because of the eyes of others. If a person thinks that his studies are more important than friendship, then he should work hard for it and not give up his pursuit because of his friend's opinion. Finally, schools and parents also need to play an educational role. Schools can develop students' interpersonal skills and self-confidence through curriculum and club activities, and should also educate students to have a good Xi attitude and Xi habits. Parents should also pay attention to their children's academics and interpersonal relationships, and give appropriate help and guidance. In short, friendship and academics are important, but not at the expense of one or the other. We need to learn to balance these two factors and always stick to what we believe in and what we seek. Parents and schools also need to play an educational role in helping students grow healthily.
So how do you think you balance friendship and academics?Welcome to leave a message to share. School bullying, do you know about it?In my country, 80% of patients with depression are caused by school bullying, and the "bullying" is even more difficult to ignore. These "bullying" are being staged in schools, bringing great psychological damage to teenagers. For example, verbal and relationship bullying is too much for many children to bear. The data shows that more than 83Forty-five percent of minors said they had been verbally harmed, and the incidence of relationship bullying was not negligible. These problems have affected children's physical and mental health, and also made parents and teachers feel helpless. So, how to solve these bullying problems?Let's work together and find out. First, we need to understand the nature of bullying.
Bullying is a type of bullying that is an act in which the strong bully the weak, and the bully often uses the oppression of others to satisfy his own needs. And "bullying" is even more unpreventable, it exists in the form of mental violence, making the victim even more helpless. For example, verbal bullying and relationship bullying are two typical types of "** bullying". So, how to deal with these "** bullying"?Second, we need to build a "joint line of defense" between schools and families. Schools and families should work together to focus on children's physical and mental well-being, and to detect and deal with bullying incidents in a timely manner. Schools should also strengthen mental health education, so that children can learn how to face and deal with "bullying", so as to better protect children's physical and mental health. Finally, we need to focus on and support victims.
For children who are being bullied, we need to provide timely psychological support and help to let them know that they are not alone, and let them see hope and a future. At the same time, it is also necessary to educate children on how to help the victims around them, so that more children can feel love and warmth. In conclusion, school bullying is a serious social problem, and we need to work together to build a "joint line of defense" between schools and families, strengthen mental health education, and pay attention to and support victims, so that we can better prevent and deal with school bullying. Let's take action to protect children's physical and mental health. What do you think we need to do more about the precautions?Feel free to leave a comment to share your thoughts. How can I protect my child from bullying?From inadvertent ostracism to vandalism, these actions can be just as damaging to a child's psyche.
Studies have shown that psychological trauma is similar to the nervous area of physical pain, so parents need to pay close attention to possible "bullying" and learn to deal with and comfort effectively to ensure the healthy growth of their children. First, keep in touch with your child and encourage them to open up so that they can spot signs of abnormalities in time. School bullying is a troubling issue, and every parent wants their child not to be a victim. However, how can you educate your child to avoid and respond to bullying at school?First of all, as parents, we need to give our children enough respect and trust, because only then will they be willing to share with us the problems they have encountered in school. We need to listen to them, give them support and understanding, and make them feel safe and cared for. Second, we can teach our children how to deal with bullying so that they are no longer too timid to speak up.
Reading relevant books is a great way for children to get help and inspiration from them. For example, you can recommend books such as "Say No to Bullying in Primary School" and "This Is Not a True Friend" to your child so that they can learn to distinguish between real and fake friends, no longer be wronged, and know how to protect themselves. The books also provide ways to address bullying so that children can take ownership and face bullying head-on. Let's take Linlin as an example, she is a child who has been subjected to "**bullying", and she doesn't know how to deal with it, and she doesn't know how to deal with it, so she makes herself very passive. However, as long as she communicates with her parents and learns how Xi deal with the situation, she will be able to find a solution. Parents can introduce their children to relevant books, such as "This Is Not a Real Friend", which can help children distinguish between real and fake friends, no longer feel wronged, and know how to protect themselves.
In this way, children can learn to take the initiative, face bullying head-on, and no longer be timid and afraid to speak up. Overall, we as parents need to give our children enough respect and trust to teach them how to deal with bullying. Reading relevant books is also a great way for children to get help and inspiration from them. As long as we work together, we believe that we can keep our children away from the threat of bullying in schools. What do you think we can do to prevent bullying in schools?How can I keep my child free of bullying in school?This is a question that every parent needs to think about. As children move into school life, they may face a variety of problems, especially bullying at school. Many parents may feel that their children are too young to pay attention to this issue, and even they themselves do not know how to deal with it.
But in reality, it is very necessary to educate children on how to fight bullying, and the earlier you start, the better it will help you develop the right values and self-protection skills. For elementary school students and their parents, a series of books written by anti-bullying experts in the United States are very useful reference materials. Psychologists agree that these books not only help children learn to deal with bullying, but also provide parents with a basis for communicating and answering their children's questions. For kindergarten children, there are also corresponding versions of books, such as the "Learn to Say "No" out loud" series, to help children gradually establish anti-bullying awareness and learn to protect themselves. After entering a group life, children may face various psychological problems, such as withdrawing and not being able to express themselves. Some children may bully others at school because they are arrogant at home, which is known as school bullying.
Parents should actively guide their children so that they can understand bullying and learn how to deal with it. At the same time, parents should also listen to their children, pay attention to their emotional changes, and identify problems in time. These anti-bullying books are very useful tools to help children understand how to deal with bullying and increase their awareness of self-protection. As one author put it, her child had been bullied at school, but by reading the books together, the child learned to say "no" and successfully solved the problem. This kind of effective anti-bullying education not only helps children, but also gives parents more confidence to face the problems their children may encounter. In conclusion, anti-bullying education is not only a compulsory course for children, but also for parents. Parents should choose age-appropriate anti-bullying books to educate them on how to deal with bullying and protect themselves.
At the same time, parents should always pay attention to their children's emotional changes, find problems in time, and solve them together with their children. Finally, let's think about how to keep more children away from school bullyingCan this set of picture books really help children improve their emotional intelligence?Let's take a look at the experience of a kindergarten teacher. She found that one of the children in her class had high emotional intelligence and was often able to help her classmates resolve conflicts. It turned out that this child learned these abilities through this set of picture books. The role of picture books is really not to be underestimated, it can help children improve their communication skills, self-protection skills, etc., especially in today's school bullying in an endless stream, we should pay more attention to children's emotional education. So, how exactly does this set of picture books help children improve their emotional intelligence?The role of this set of picture books is not only to let children learn how to solve problems, but more importantly, to help children establish a correct outlook on life and values.
The protagonist of this set of picture books is a little monkey who encounters various problems in his life, and through thinking and hard work, he finally solves them. These stories make children understand that there will be difficulties and setbacks in life, but as long as you think hard and work hard, you will definitely be able to overcome them. Such an outlook on life and values can help children develop the right mindset and enhance their self-confidence in the process of growing up, so as to better face various challenges. Another function of this set of picture books is to help children learn how to get along with others. The little monkey in the picture book not only has to solve his own problems, but also helps other animals solve them, which makes the children learn how to get along with people in the process of reading. Children learn how to deal with conflict properly, how to respect others, how to listen to others, and so on.
These skills are important in a child's development, not only to help them get along better with their peers, but also to build a strong foundation for their future interpersonal interactions. Of course, the role of this set of picture books is not only these, it can also help children improve their reading ability, imagination, etc., it can be said to be a very good comprehensive picture book. In today's school violence and bullying problems, we should pay more attention to children's emotional education. It is more important than anything else for children to learn the correct outlook on life and values and how to get along with others from an early age. Finally, I would like to ask a question: what do you think parents should do to help their children improve their emotional intelligence?