In our country, there are many folk sayings and exquisiteness, which are some folk rules that we ordinary people trust and implement.
At present, some colloquialisms that are widely circulated in urban and rural areas use expressions that are relatively easy to understand.
Most of these popular sayings are based on the daily life experience of ordinary people, and after refining and refining, they form a series of phrases and are widely disseminated among the people.
There is such a popular saying, and not many people know about it nowadays, that is, "if you don't do it after dark, there will be no disaster at home".
There are many folk sayings about these 4 things that cannot be done, and there are also various explanations, so let's talk about them today. 
Don't leak money at night.
The first thing to talk about is not to show off your wealth at night.
At present, many people are Xi to enjoy supper, night markets and drinking alcohol at night.
It is not uncommon to see several close friends gathered in one place, sharing topics they care about, enjoying good food, drinking wine, and living comfortably.
However, after drinking alcohol, it is difficult for people to stay awake and may engage in some unbelievable behaviors.
There have been people who had conflicts with others after drinking, and then they said that they were very rich and could clean up the other party at any time.
Even in order to prove the truth of his words, he showed his balance to the other party.
But in fact, this kind of leakage of money is very irrational.
In the four famous novels "Journey to the West", there is such a scene related to Lu Cai.
The plot takes place in the 16th chapter of the article.
After Tang Seng subdued Sun Wukong, he also subdued the little white dragon and let him continue to drive as a mount.
On that day, the master and apprentice walked to a temple to stay overnight.
After knocking on the door and communicating with the monks who watched the door, they were assigned to the monastery to rest and chose to live in the rooms of the monastery.
Originally, I thought it was just an ordinary way to stay, but when the abbot of the temple learned that it was a high-ranking monk from the Tang Dynasty who was visiting, he took the initiative to come over to greet him.
He also invited the master and apprentice to his meditation room for a cup of tea.
Tang Seng was also very happy to see that the other party was so kind, and started a conversation with the abbot, asking about the abbot's age and the specific time of becoming a monk.
The abbot introduced his age to be more than 200 years old, and said that he should be regarded as a virtuous monk, and he especially likes to participate in Zen and said.
Goku originally intended to reveal the true face of the abbot, but when he saw the master stop him with his gaze, he chose to remain silent.
The more the abbot talked, the happier he became, not only showing off his precious tea set, but also confiding that he was a collector of robes.
There are a lot of priceless robes to make his collection.
This angered Goku, because they had the precious robe given by the Bodhisattva in their hands, and the other robes were overshadowed in front of it.
He began to show off to the abbot and show it to the other party.
This sentence can cause trouble, and it responds to the saying that "you don't show your wealth at night", which makes others with evil intentions think crookedly.
After Wukong and Tang Seng returned to the room, they wanted to take their beloved robe as their own abbot, so they ordered their men to set fire to the pair of masters and apprentices.
Although after that, Goku managed to get the robe back.
But if he didn't have mana, he would have been buried in the fire with **, and he would have been robbed and killed by others.
Therefore, after dark and when you go to places that you are not familiar with, you should not easily reveal your wealth, so as not to invite trouble.
Don't do bad things.
It is often said, "Don't do anything bad and don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on your door." This proverb is not unfounded.
It is rumored that he was first described as a classic that originated in ancient times and has been handed down to the present day, called "The Words of the Awakening World".
This is also one of the words in "Three Words and Two Beats".
The background of this story is set in the Southern Song Dynasty in China, and the protagonist of the story is a businessman surnamed Liu.
This man was originally a lover of reading, and his family also had some traditional family business.
Just because he was not good at Xi, he later decided to give up his studies and devote himself to business.
Who would have thought that he was neither good at business nor knew how to run a business, and as a result, instead of making money, he invested a lot of money, which led to a difficult life.
There is a main room in the family, and she is the daughter of a rich man in the city.
Since she had no children after many years of marriage, she married a concubine and planned to continue the family bloodline.
After going through a difficult situation, he sold his property and moved into a modest thatched house with his wife and concubine.
One day, he was invited by his father-in-law to celebrate his father-in-law's birthday.
He and his wife went to his father-in-law's residence to celebrate, and assigned his concubine to guard the thatched house.
At the birthday party, the father-in-law sees his daughter's miserable life and decides to help his daughter and son-in-law through the difficult time.
In the name of investment, he gave his son-in-law fifteen copper coins, so that he had the opportunity to make a comeback and started some small-scale business.
The son-in-law was overjoyed to receive the money and decided to let his wife recuperate at his father-in-law's house, while he returned to the thatched hut that night to visit his concubine.
After getting the money, he was very happy and wanted to soothe his emotions by teasing the concubine, so he made up some lies.
He claimed to have reached an agreement with others, obtained fifteen copper coins through his concubine, and had brought the money home.
When the concubine learned the truth, she felt very sad and saw her husband sleeping, and she decided to leave him.
He left his belongings with her husband, then closed the door and went to a neighbor's house for a while, returning to her parents' house the next day.
Unexpectedly, a robber came in the middle of the night and not only robbed the money, but also beat the man to death.
After seeing the scene, the neighbor reported it to the government.
After that, the government notified the family to arrest the suspect, and mistakenly arrested the concubine and a passer-by as bandits.
Because the passer-by carried fifteen copper coins, the official lord thought that the two had conspired to harm her husband, so he sentenced him to death and killed the good man by mistake.
And his wife, surnamed Liu, was also kidnapped by robbers on the way home to be the wife of the village.
After getting acquainted with it, the robber said that he had done something wrong.
He once killed a man surnamed Liu, robbed him of his money, and killed his concubine and a passer-by, so that they could take the blame for themselves.
After that, the robber was restless every day, and his heart was tormented, and such things made him feel very sorry.
When his wife learned the truth of the matter, she did not hesitate to go to the county office to report to **.
Uncover the truth, clear the grievances of concubines and passers-by, and bring the robbers to justice.
From this story, we can understand that sooner or later those who do wrong will be punished as they deserve.
Make decisions on impulse.
Another thing not to do at night is to make decisions on impulse.
Judging by the name alone, it's not quite clear what it means.
In fact, even decisions made at night, especially the decisive ones, are often wrong.
General work and Xi, the daytime experience is very strong, and the brain is also very clear.
It is also more thoughtful to think about things, and it will be safer to make decisions.
After a tiring day, the brain is not very clear, and if there is an emergency, there is a high probability that it is not well considered.
In our ancient tales, there are also such episodes, which are intended to provoke food for thought and remind people to avoid making such mistakes.
In the fourth chapter of "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", there is such a paragraph, which tells the story of Cao Cao's assassination of Dong Zhuo.
At that time, Dong Zhuo hijacked the emperor to order the princes and became the real ruler.
As Cao Cao, who restored the Han dynasty, wanted to do something for the emperor.
happened to have the same idea as Situ Wang Yun, so he joined their action group and discussed the removal of Dong Zhuo together.
During the meeting, everyone came up with ideas for each other, and it was very anxious that there was no suitable plan.
Cao Cao took the initiative to ask Ying to say that there was an opportunity to contact Dong Zhuo, but there was no way to bring ** in.
So Situ told him that he had an ancestral treasure knife, which was Dong Zhuo's favorite item very much, and he had always refused to hand it over.
If you can take advantage of the opportunity to sacrifice the knife, you can use it to kill him.
So Cao Cao returned to the camp with the treasure and looked for an opportunity to attack.
happened to hear that Dong Zhuo was the only one resting in the big tent, so he took a knife and entered the big tent to prepare to assassinate.
Unexpectedly, he was discovered by Dong Zhuo, Cao Cao escaped from the big tent after skillfully resolving it, and left the scene on horseback.
After Dong Zhuo, who was asleep, reacted, he ordered Cao Cao to be arrested and brought to justice.
When Cao Cao was fleeing for his life, he was captured by the Zhongmu County Order.
thought that he would die, but who knew that the other party was also a righteous person, not only released him, but also left with him.
Although he had a helper, the danger was still around, and Cao Cao's heart was worried.
After escaping for three days, he arrived in a village, where a squire was an old friend of Cao Cao's father.
This person's surname is Lu, and he is very prestigious in the local area, and he is going to ask Uncle Lu for help first, and temporarily hide in his house for a few days.
After seeing Uncle Lu, the other party was very enthusiastic and told him that his home was very safe and that he could rest assured that he could take refuge.
When the limelight passes, he can naturally leave.
On the surface, Cao Cao was very happy, found a guest room, and began to rest.
But he was still very nervous in his heart, for fear that something would happen and he would lose his life.
At this moment, he noticed a servant sharpening his knife in the courtyard, and the sound was piercing, which made him tremble.
He plucked up the courage to ask the servant about the situation, and the servant replied that it was the master who had told him to do so, and that he himself did not know what it was for.
And the owner has now left the manor, and no one else knows where he went.
Hearing this, Cao Cao thought in his heart that Uncle Lu might have gone to tell the whistle and said those words in order to let his guard down.
At this time, he made an impulsive decision, which was to kill everyone in Uncle Lu's family and cut off the possibility of his own killing.
After doing this, he left the manor with the county magistrate to avoid being arrested by the government.
Who knew that on the way, I happened to meet Uncle Lu who was returning.
It turned out that he didn't go to tell the truth, but to drink Cao Cao and buy some hospitality supplies.
The servant's sharpening knife was also used to kill chickens and sheep, and Cao Cao was too careful.
However, when Cao Cao learned the truth of the matter, he did not show any remorse, but killed Uncle Lu together to prevent future troubles.
Since then, he has also fallen into the name of a traitor.
Such a thing, although the character of the character is reflected in **.
But such an impulsive decision did not get a good result, and it harmed the life of the family.
Don't call your children late at night.
The last thing you can do is not to give your children a ** in the middle of the night.
The root cause of this happening is that it can worry your children, causing them to be emotionally stressed and misunderstood.
In the current social environment, most of the elderly in the family choose to live alone, and even if they are cared for, they often feel relatively lonely.
As we age and the gradual decline of our body functions, various diseases may develop around the elderly.
When the elderly at home call me at night, the first reaction may be that his life is in danger.
Then there are other accidents, such as lost, injured, critical illness, and so on.
Such things can make children extremely nervous and even frightened.
But some old people don't know the meaning, or have ignored such matters, so they will call their children in the middle of the night.
As everyone knows, this is something that should not be done.
Because no matter what the reason, it will make your children worry excessively, so as a parent, you must pay attention.
Unless there is a very urgent situation, it is not advisable to call your child late at night**.
In order to avoid the child being unnecessarily frightened, which can lead to unnecessary accidents.
Epilogue. Much of what this proverb describes is actually a folk tale that teaches people to pursue good and avoid doing bad.
Regardless of these things, whether or not they have the effect of avoiding disasters.
But in order to avoid our disasters and make life and work go smoothly, it is still very necessary to pay attention to some folk customs.