"Eat a trench to grow a wisdom" is a well-known, fossil-level famous saying, coupled with "draw inferences from one example", presumably a person's wisdom and mental strength will be greatly enhanced. At a cocktail party, Lao D, a former human resources president of Alibaba, shared several small encounters he encountered in his professional journey. In several internal work meetings after he was promoted to director, a department manager who had been in contact with him before ridiculed him intentionally or unintentionally, although it did not affect his work, but it still had a certain negative impact on his prestige, and he was definitely unhappy. After that, as long as Lao D saw the manager, he changed his easy-going attitude before the promotion, just nodded symbolically, and only talked about work in the work exchange, polite but not polite. Lao D said that he was worried that everyone would say that he had become arrogant after his promotion, and he was a little apprehensive in his heart, but later the facts told him that he thought too much, and everyone did not stop working because of his change in style.
Through this change, he drew inferences from one another, reviewed and analyzed his previous words and deeds, and corrected them until he became the president of human resources. It doesn't matter what you encounter, what matters is how you deal with people and things that cause inconvenience, if you just condemn those people and things, don't extract wisdom and mental strength from them, and correct your own words and deeds, the same small encounter will not be eradicated.