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The child is always slow and leisurely, procrastinating in doing things, and is not active in doing anything.
When such a situation occurs in children, many parents will subconsciously use stick education, hoping that their children can take the initiative to do things under the painful lesson.
However, although this kind of stick education can make children take the initiative to do things in a short time, in the long run, this method will only make children more and more rebellious, more and more resistant, and hate the parent's discipline style.
So, how to educate children who are lazy and procrastinating and do not seek progress?
First of all, it is necessary to understand the reasons why children are lazy and procrastinating.
One is that children lack a sense of time. Due to their lack of life experience, they don't know what half an hour or an hour means, and it is a string of cold numbers for them.
Coupled with the constant urging of adults, children are even more lazy.
Children are not as self-disciplined as adults, if when doing one thing, parents keep urging them to hurry up and do the next thing.
In this way, the child will become less and less focused, and he will be in a hurry and not talking, and there will be no routines, which will distract the child. And psychologically speaking, the more you push your child, the more he will oppose you.
In addition, the reluctance to let the child accept the consequences of procrastination is also one of the reasons for the child's laziness and procrastination.
When parents are faced with the established fact that "children are very abrasive", it is natural to make the choice of "urging children" and "doing things for children".
As a result, the child never directly learned the lesson of being late, and he never felt the consequences of procrastination.
First, help your child identify appropriate goals.
Parents work with their children to create a schedule and let them follow the plan exactly.
If the child does not do it, parents should not force the child, and if the child cannot complete it by himself, parents should not be in a hurry, and should assist the child to complete it together.
If your child wants to give up halfway, parents must let their children know the importance of keeping their promises.
You can also give your child some rewards as they complete some plans.
It should be noted here that when parents and children make plans, they should also design according to their children's abilities, and do not aim too high and the children will not be able to achieve them.
Secondly, it is also very important to choose the right study method.
Children are not self-motivated, it is not that they have been unmotivated all their lives, and they may encounter difficulties in the learning process or use inappropriate methods, and their grades have not improved, resulting in children not having the confidence to study well.
At this time, parents need to help their children find a way to learn, a good learning method can not only make children fall in love with learning, but more importantly, let children experience the joy of learning.
Parents should create a good learning environment for their children.
Finally, it is also very important to correct your child's lazy behavior in a timely manner.
When a child is lazy, parents should not indulge the child, and do not simply accuse the child and ignore the child. Be sure to help your child get rid of the bad habit of laziness.
Parents want their children to realize their mistakes and tell them that laziness is not good.
Lazy people are not welcomed and respected by others. Encourage your child to be a hard-working, self-motivated person.
In conclusion, we need to understand that children are not born with laziness and lack of motivation.
Parents must have the confidence to guide and educate their children. When a child develops a sense of responsibility and correct values, he or she will understand what he is supposed to do and will be self-motivated.