After six years of love, only because Sanjin chose 100 grams, the conversation collapsed, and the woman cried that he didn't understand me
In many places, it is a popular custom that when getting married, the man should give the woman the "three golds" as a dowry. This is not only used for the decoration of the wedding, but also as a basis for the future life of the couple.
However, there is also a certain amount of attention to the choice of three golds. Some girls consider the financial pressure of their boyfriends, so they will try to choose a simpler or small amount of three golds to reduce the burden on their boyfriends. However, there are also some girls who are indifferent to this and only pursue their favorite styles, without regard for their boyfriend's financial means.
Let's take the experience of a woman who has been in love with her boyfriend for six years, and finally came to the stage of talking about marriage. According to local Xi, marriage requires the purchase of three gold, so the boyfriend took his girlfriend to the gold store to buy **. However, his girlfriend took a fancy to a set of ** jewelry weighing 100 grams.
The set includes a bracelet, a necklace, a pair of earrings, and two rings, all beautifully styled and well-matched. However, when the gold price was about to break through the 600 yuan per gram mark, the 100-gram ** jewelry made the boyfriend feel quite embarrassed.
If you don't buy it, your girlfriend has a soft spot for this set of jewelry. And if you buy it, 60,000 yuan is indeed not a small amount for ordinary families. My girlfriend began to sigh: Is it because I'm too greedy?Isn't six years of affection worthless?
The above story is an excerpt from a woman's life. The story reflects the delicate balance between finance and affection when it comes to choosing a wedding trio.
So, her boyfriend suggested that she choose another set of jewelry to avoid buying too heavy **, after all, the current gold price is still high.
The woman was dissatisfied, she thought that the purchase of ** jewelry should be determined according to the girl's preferences, and she disliked that this set was too expensive, so how much was it cost-effective?
Is it enough to choose a new set of more expensive ones?She struggled with the set of jewelry she wanted, but her boyfriend insisted that she choose again.
In the end, the two failed to reach an agreement, ** jewelry became a topic that ended without a problem, and the relationship also broke down in the dispute and ended in displeasure.
The woman complained aggrievedly: "This 100 grams of ** is also a part of the family, and I didn't eat and drink, why can't he understand?"She wondered if she was too greedy, or if the six-year relationship was worthless.
Netizens commented one after another, and some believed: "If the two have the financial strength, it doesn't hurt to buy 100 grams of ** jewelry, after all, it is a once-in-a-lifetime happy event that is worth some investment." But if financial constraints make it too much to insist on buying?”
Some netizens also reminded: "The value of feelings is not only whether the boyfriend is willing to help buy jewelry, it is mutual." Is a six-year relationship valuable to you, and why put pressure on your boyfriend at this time?Moderation is a good principle, don't overdo it. ”
Most of the comments emphasize that 100 grams** is not a small amount and is a huge expense for many families. Marriage is not only about buying a set of jewelry, but also about weddings, houses, bride price, banquets and other expenses, which is indeed a big burden for the average family.
The author also feels that at the current gold price, buying a hundred grams of ** does seem a bit excessive.
Think about how many other things you can buy with $60,000Jewelry is beautiful, but it can't be eaten as food or drink, and it can be sold at a loss. It is not very cost-effective to spend 60,000 yuan to buy a set of jewelry.
As one netizen said, feelings are mutual and cannot be measured simply by money. Only on the basis of mutual understanding can life go smoothly. Buying a set of jewelry does not guarantee that everything will go as planned, mutual understanding is the most important thing.