Since its launch, "I Want to Miss You Very Much" has been called "a cup of hot milk tea in winter" by netizens, which makes people warm, comfortable, and sweethearted after watching it. Mo Qingcheng is regarded as a "dream lover" by many female audiences for his gentleness and thoughtfulness.
But such a warm and gentle teacher Mo, when watching the sunrise on the Li River, Gu Sheng said: "Sometimes, you are particularly aggressive. ”
The word "aggressive" is generally used to describe a person's words and attitudes that are aggressive, stressful, and embarrassing.
"Aggressive" is used here to describe Mo Qingcheng, and I think there are three meanings.
On the first layer, Mo Qingcheng's meticulous attention to Gu Sheng put a lot of pressure on Gu Sheng.
Speaking of Mo Qingcheng's kindness to Gu Sheng, he really couldn't praise it for three days and three nights.
In the Internet, he not only clearly showed his preference for slow voice, but also took the initiative to send texts, so that the whole network knew that he was pursuing slow voice.
He took the initiative to drop his vest, let Gu Sheng into his real life, meet his friends, and also took the initiative to report his work, home address, family members, personal growth, etc. to Gu Sheng.
He observes and understands Gu Sheng very carefully, respects her thoughts, communicates with Gu Sheng about anything, and patiently guides her to express her true feelings.
Mo Qingcheng is a pair of Gu Sheng, which can be described as considerate and extremely caring, and the gentle, delicate, considerate and tolerant characteristics of her boyfriend in the year are vividly displayed.
However, he didn't expect that he would do everything himself like this, and wanted to make everything perfect for Gu Sheng, but it invisibly put a lot of pressure on Gu Sheng's high-quality author list
For a long time, Gu Sheng regarded Mo Qingcheng as an idol, and suddenly one day, this figure from the top of the clouds descended to the mortal world and told ordinary you, "I like you very much, be my girlfriend", I think anyone will feel that they are dreaming.
Moreover, this idol not only becomes your boyfriend, but also spoils you, thinks about you in everything, puts you first in everything, and is gentle and considerate to you, do you feel more unreal and insecure?Isn't there still a lot of bad thoughts:
Is there a mistake with my idol?Is he looking for something different?When he is sober, or he doesn't want to play, will he leave me?
It can be said that the more thoughtful Mo Qingcheng takes care of Gu Sheng and the more perfect he does, the more Gu Sheng worries, and the more likely he is to suffer from gains and losses.
Therefore, when facing Mo Qingcheng, Gu Sheng did not have the relaxed, natural, and willful nature of his girlfriend to his boyfriend, but he was always cautious and restrained, and at the same time with some sobriety, trying to restrain his heart and make himself more calm and calm.
On the second layer, Gu Sheng's feelings for Mo Qingcheng have made a leap.
After Gu Sheng shouted the full name of "Mo Qingcheng" for the first time, she had a sense of belonging to Mo Qingcheng.
Before this, Gu Sheng treated him more as an idol celadon. She is the girlfriend of the great god Celadon Celadon , so she will consider that their relationship will make Celadon lose powder and will make Celadon suffer bad cyber attacks.
She didn't dare to bring him into her real life, and she didn't dare to introduce him to her parents, brothers, and friends in her music club, also because she hadn't made it clear whether she loved Mo Qingcheng or Mo Qingcheng.
After all, they met after the New Year, confessed after Valentine's Day, and went out for team building on May Day. The two have been officially dating for more than two months. Coupled with Mo Qingcheng's busy work, they usually have fewer opportunities to meet than ordinary young couples.
Therefore, Gu Sheng couldn't tell whether he was an idol or a lover for Mo Qingcheng, and it was normal for him to often make bad plans.
But Gu Sheng loves Mo Qingcheng. You see, Mo Qingcheng was sick, and she went over to take care of him as soon as possible;Knowing that her family didn't need her to go back early, she turned around and went to find Mo Qingcheng;and overcome all difficulties and firmly travel with Mo Qingcheng.
Gu Sheng is actually a girl with a simple mind and a sense of proportion, she only needs to transform the "idol" she looks up into a "lover" who looks up, and she will naturally return to her original appearance.
When Mo Qingcheng took her on a night tour of the Li River, she said again, "In case, it's not good again", Mo Qingcheng asked puzzledly: "Am I not doing it well?".”
The next day he watched the sunrise and said, he continued to ask:
"Do you think we're the right fit now?”In the face of Teacher Mo's pressing step by step, Gu Sheng was finally able to reply, which does not mean that the psychological distance between her and Mo Qingcheng has narrowed, and her sense of closeness to Mo Qingcheng is getting stronger and stronger.So far, almost. ”
Almost?How much is the difference?”
It's just, it's good. ”
Isn't it the best?”
Sometimes, you are particularly aggressive. Like now. ”
Third, this "aggressiveness" also reflects Mo Qingcheng's psychological state: loneliness + insecurity.
Many times, when we look at Mo Qingcheng from the perspective of the heroine, we will feel that he is strong inside, emotionally stable, and flawless. But we forget that he grew up alone.
He doesn't like to talk, and he rarely expresses himself when he gets along with friends, and his passive personality should be closely related to his upbringing.
Because of his work, his parents left him alone at home all year round. He can only find solace in the food and in the dubbing.
Mo Qingcheng's growth was lonely and insecure.
So, when he gets a girlfriend, he tries not to make her feel lonely and insecure.
That's why he is so demanding of himself, once Gu Sheng shows that he is not confident in him, he will feel that he is not good enough.
Two-way running, although sometimes not in a time period, but the staggered pay, but more heart-wrenching and throbbing.
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