In the fast-paced modern society, many children show impetuous and uncontrollable personality traits. Parents often feel anxious and helpless in the face of such children. So what should I do if my child is impetuous and can't hold his breath, and how can I make them calm and calm in the face of difficulties and challenges?
Children with an impetuous personality often show a lack of patience and impatience. This leads to a tense relationship between many parents and their children, and in the long run, it is very unfavorable to the child's character development and long-term development
Purely by yelling at children or strictly disciplining them, it is basically futile, and the children are even more disgusted, this is how I came over, until a few months ago, I studied in Gaotu Meimei family for a period of time, and learned too much with Teacher Song LiAt first, we learned from Mr. Song Li's adolescent class, at first because after the junior high school, the child's grades were originally in the middle, but after junior high school, new courses such as geography and biology were added, the child was very hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very backward, and even he was rotten and did not study!
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Asking for help from the teacher, the teacher let the science guide, recommended Mr. Song Li's class, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, the child also realized the value of learning, caught up, and the atmosphere at home was good, so it is worth learning.
When facing such children, parents should first realize that the formation of children's character is closely related to the growth environment. Therefore, parents need to examine their own parenting style, whether they are too doting or strict, and whether they fail to give enough support and guidance to their children when they encounter difficulties.
Cultivating patience in children is the key to changing the impetuous personality。Parents can use some daily activities, such as planting flowers and plants, learning calligraphy, etc., to let children understand that the development of things takes time and effort. At the same time, parents should also learn to delay gratification appropriately, and do not want to meet their children's needs as soon as they need them, which will make them lose patience.
Encourage your child to participate in activities that require long hours of effort and waiting, such as long-distance running, board games, etc. These activities can build children's willpower and patience, and make them understand that many of life's achievements can be achieved after a long period of hard work and waiting.
Parents should establish a good communication mechanism with their children. When children encounter setbacks or difficulties, parents should listen to their voices and give positive feedback and suggestions. This can enhance children's self-confidence and improve their psychological quality in the face of difficulties.
In addition to communication, parents can also let their children experience group life and learn to cooperate and get along with others by participating in some team activities or outdoor adventures with their children. Through these activities, children will gradually understand the importance of unity, collaboration and patience, which will lead to a more stable character.
What should I do if my child is impetuous and can't hold his breath?Changing a child's personality is not something that happens overnight. Parents should have enough patience and confidence to guide and help their children continuously. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to their words and deeds to set a good example for their children. Only in this way can the child gradually overcome his impetuous personality and become a calm, calm and responsible person.