In this digital age, video games are a double-edged sword, both entertaining and relaxing, but also addictive to children. When games become the "protagonists" of children's lives, how to solve children's addiction to games?How should parents cope?
1. The "addiction" of games: the challenge of the times
We live in a world surrounded by screens. Mobile phones, tablets, TVs, ......These electronic devices are like the other hand of modern people, inseparable from us.
For children, video games are even more irresistible**. Gorgeous graphics, exciting challenges, and virtual honors can make them obsessed with the beauty of the real world.
And the child is addicted to the game world, which will lead to a bad relationship between our parents and children, the child is tired of school or rebellious and disobedient, in fact, there are adolescent psychological factors, as a person who has come over in order not to delay the child, consult many professionals,I have been studying in Gaotu Meimei family for a while, and the method given by Mr. Song Li is really effective!
Teacher Song Li's adolescent class inspired me very much in educating children in four points. The most important thing is to love and understand, and to have a good attitude when facing problems, and at the same time to have rules to follow.
For example, there are steps for children to be disobedient, giving children enough right to speak, and in wrong family education, children often have no right to speak and parents have the final sayTherefore, it is very important to give children the opportunity to express themselves, fully respect their choices, make them feel recognized, and then be direct and not necessarily effective, appropriate, and correct guidance can give children the greatest inspiration effect, more inspiration;
Talk more, don't force him to do this and that, it's easy for him to lose interest in exploring, you can read and work with him;Finally, don't put too much pressure on him, rebellion is caused by pressure. With these four steps, it is easy for the child to become friends with you, and it is easy to get through the rebellious period if you are disobedient.
The second reason why I think Mr. Song Li's class is worth learning is that I recognize Mr. Song Li's ability, she has been focusing on psychology research for 12 years, and she is also a national second-level psychological counselor, and her resume is very good.
In general, it's pretty good, at least for me, whether it's a parent-child family, or a good way to socialize with people in the workplace, it's really beneficial, it's worth the money, and it can be given to the family repeatedly**, of course, it's basically ineffective just to watch and not practice.
2. The "pain" of addiction: the child's struggle
When children are addicted to games, their world seems to be reduced to a tiny screen. Academic, health, social, ......These important areas of life have been squeezed into the corners. Parents see it in their eyes and feel pain in their hearts. But perhaps what hurts even more is the loss of children in the virtual world. They may know the dangers of the game, but they can't help themselves, and their hearts are full of struggle and helplessness.
3. The "strategy" to break the "addiction": the wisdom of parents
How to solve children's addiction to games, parents need more wisdom and patience. First and foremost, understanding is key. We need to understand why children love games and what they are looking for in games.
Second, communication is the bridge. Communicate openly with your child, share our concerns and expectations, and guide them to realise the impact of play on their lives. Again, guidance is the method. We can try to guide children to participate in other activities that are beneficial to their body and mind, such as sports, reading, socializing, etc., to help them discover the diversity and beauty of the real world.
Fourth, the "road" of the "war": the power of the family
Solving the problem of children's game addiction requires the joint efforts of the whole family. Parents can set reasonable playtime and set family rules so that children can learn self-discipline and self-management.
At the same time, we should also set a good example for our children by reducing their screen time in front of them. In addition, it is equally important to pay attention to your child's mental health and emotional needs. We need to give enough love and support to our children, so that they can feel a sense of belonging and accomplishment in real life.
Fifth, the "way" back to "return": the growth of children
When we guide children with love and understanding, they will eventually get out of the fog of play and return to the real world. The process may be long and difficult, but every step is full of the power to grow.
We will see children rediscover their passion for learning and embrace the diversity of life again. Their eyes will once again twinkle with longing and anticipation for the future, which is the truest voice in the depths of their hearts.
How to solve children's addiction to games, I think to guide children to grow up healthily with wisdom and love. When we work together, our children's tomorrow will be brighter.