Husband and wife belong to the same "same genus", okay?Is there some truth in the experience of the ancestors?
Humans have evolved over millions of years to thrive in the union of male and female. Since the creation of cultures, social systems, and nations, union between men and women has ceased to be an anomaly, and our earliest ancestors established the rules of marriage for men and women in emotional relationships.
In order to make the marriage more standardized, the Duke of Zhou was already satisfied in the Western Zhou Dynasty"Six Rites"requirements. Therefore, human marriage has existed since the Zhou Dynasty. However, with"Six Rites"The same, there is another item called"Najib", that is, both men and women must seek the eight zodiac signs related to sexuality, etc., because the eight zodiac signs are the standard for measuring the interests of marriage. In this case, the zodiac signs of the husband and wife are different years. So, what about the marriage aura of couples with the same zodiac combination?
In today's social environment, it's very unusual to ask directly about your age, so people will ask how old you are, then ask you what your gender is, and immediately make assumptions about your age. This way of narrowing down the age range layer by layer is mainly based on the zodiac signs.
The zodiac signs represent the twelve phases of the human body. Based on the aspect of the human body and the month of the year of birth, some people can deduce the good luck and character of a person's life. This zodiac inference culture is unique to China. Although there are so-called tarot cards and horoscopes in the West, at most only a person's personality can be inferred, although the specific age is not necessarily known.
Of course, the horoscopes of the West, or what we call temperament, are all about what is called combination and matching, after all, in terms of combination, the greatest relationship in the world is marriage between a man and a woman. Thus, the combination refers to whether the combination of the man and the woman is beneficial for the future marriage. Whether the combination of the zodiac signs is beneficial or not is a matter of gender pairing.
This kind of performance is closely related to asking for a date of birth and has been present in cultures for thousands of years. Therefore, in ancient times, many parents would calculate the number of marriages before getting married in order to make their children happy and worry-free for life. There is a certain method of this **, and there are also some proverbs circulating, such as"Good day, my horse is not good"。
So, why is the aspect of the zodiac sign to the zodiac even related to the marital aura?To discuss this topic, we need to first talk about the history of the creation of the zodiac signs. In ancient times, people did not fully understand many things in nature, but that doesn't mean they didn't have culture and beliefs.
The beliefs of people in ancient times consisted of many cultures and the worship of ghosts and gods. At that time, people worshipped several totems, and many animals became objects of their worship. For example, the animals they depend on for survival are depicted as exaggerated totems, such as chickens, dogs, and cows. These animals were domesticated with their development and labor, and were the material basis for their survival and development.
In addition to dependent animals, fear-inducing animals such as snakes, tigers, and imaginary dragons also became objects of worship because they could not be explained. These animals correspond to the twelve hours of the day, celestial bodies, and earthly branches, hence the phasing culture. Each animal has its own characteristics, which gives rise to the idea that animal phases reinforce each other. The most obvious manifestation is the happiness of marriage between men and women.
Some of these marriages need to be calculated by fortune tellers, and some are based on the characteristics of zodiac animals, so a series of sayings have gradually been handed down. For example:"Men are afraid of chickens"、"Women are afraid of sheep"。The meaning is very simple, that is, women should not marry men who belong to the rooster, and men should not marry women who belong to the sheep.
Since the chicken is a working animal in our lives, it must cluck at dawn, which means that it belongs to the labor life. If a woman marries a Rooster man, it will be difficult for her to escape for the rest of her life. In the same way, if the sheep seems docile, in fact it also has horns, if the horns are taken away, the dead net may be broken by the fish, if the man marries a woman who belongs to the sheep, if it is not good, the fish will be troubled by the dead net, and the family is doomed to break.
It is necessary to pay attention to the varieties at different stages, and also have the characteristics of running-in varieties, and then put the male and female of the same breed with the same characteristics together, and oppose each other against each otherSome people may think that in the difficult years of life, if two men of the same sex and two women of the same sex come together, then one is in the passing years, these are the difficult years of life, and there is no happiness of the leader, so people of the same sex should not be grouped together.
In fact, this combination also depends on the gender. Same-sex combinations aren't necessarily good, and they're not necessarily bad. You know, there are no two identical leaves in this world, and no two people are the same, so everyone is different and has their own personality, and the so-called gender identity is really just a universal trait.
20% of a person's personality and morphology are related to the genes of their parents, and 80% are related to the environment. Therefore, if a person is genetically a tiger, then he may be violent and savage, but if a person's parents are kind and gentle, then the child's character will also be inherited from the parents as gentle.
Above all, the formation of a person's character is essentially the result of the environment in which he finds himself. If a person grows up in an environment with a gentle personality, then under the influence of this environment, he is likely to become a person with a gentle personality. Therefore, another person of the same blood as oneself may have no relationship with the Tiger person at all because of different living circumstances, timidity and cowardice of personality, etc., so the same marriage combination has no reference value.
The days are spent in prayer to God and Buddha, not in countdown. Similarly, the same is true for marriage, if we blindly pursue the so-called eight-character combination, we are not sure that the couple's future love life will be smooth sailing, after all, two strangers are interdependent, and people also have their own personalities to run in. In addition, couples who come from two families or have blood relations such as parents can also have conflicts after being together for a long time.
If you want to maintain a good combination between husband and wife, the characteristics of the eight characters can certainly measure qi, but this qi is still in the hands of personal management. If the two sides do not have a good management and integration, even if the combination of the eight characters is good and the aura is suitable, the days will not be lively, and they will be operated by both men and women, and even the eight characters are not compatible, and it may also cause a prosperous day. Therefore, although marriage is predestined, it still depends on the individual.