InLoveof the world, people tend to pay more attentionLovequantity, not quality. Some people pursueLoveThe number of times I hope to be able toIn loveshows his ability to read countless people. However,LoveIt's not about quantity, it's about quality. If you want a period of stability, longevityIn loveRelationships should be taken seriouslyLovequality. This includes two key points: one is to manage oneself well and build oneself well;The second is to choose someone who truly loves you to spend your life with. These principles may seem simple, but some people are unable to apply them in practice. They're always thereIn loveI made mistakes again and again, and I was dumped and worried, but I refused to change myselfIn loveconcept, continue to move down the wrong path.
LoveIt's like a painting, it shouldn't be a piece of clothing that has been tried and tried, but no one has paid for it. If you're like a sample, you allow anyone to try it on at will, and when someone else tries it on and then leaves, or even tries it on several times and then returns it, you'll end up messy. Why do you keep asking me to pay for it as a "new clothes"?Am I only worthy to be the wronged leader?This reader's story exposes a big problem – his ex-girlfriend didn't get itLovequality, unable to complyLoveThe principle of always treatsIn loveFollow one's heart.
This reader was deeply disappointed and saddened by his ex-girlfriend's actions. They wereIn love, he was really kind to her, but she chose someone else who was hypocritical to her and left his arms. However, after being dumped by this scumbag, she turned back to him and asked if she was still willing to marry her. This leaves this reader in a paradox. While the answer "yes" was simple for him, he really didn't want to get hurt again. He doesn't want to be a tool for his ex-girlfriend to play with his feelings anymore. Before they met, the ex-girlfriend had something similarIn loveMistakes, always accepting the pursuit of any man. Despite repeated failures, she still hasn't learned her lessons. In this case, the reader was very hesitant and confused about his ex-girlfriend's marriage proposal.
The questions embodied in this story are food for thought. Sometimes, we take chances with people who don't fit us, don't love us, and have hurt us, hoping that after they're gone, they'll come back. However, this is often not the case. The other person may have devalued your heart and is no longer willing to wait for your repentance. Therefore, we should be a person who keeps increasing in value, not in depreciating. Whether it is our own standards or the standards of others, we should strive to improve ourselves and pursue high qualityLove
In the eyes of men, there are two reasons why a woman really can't be forgotten. The first is to make him fall in love with you deeply, unable to extricate himself, always attracted to you, and inseparable from you. In this way, even if you are separated, the man will not forget you, keep you in his heart, and always feel that you are the best. The second way is to make him hate you so much that he can't let go of it. In this way, men will not be able to forget you either. However, it is best not to use this method, because harming others will eventually harm oneself, and harming others will bring bad consequences. In the above story, the ex-girlfriend used the second method and inadvertently injured the ex-boyfriend, causing unrelieved pain.
Hurtful behavior is often remembered by the other person, and the wound will always be difficult to heal. We need to realize that sometimes, the person who thinks it is not for you, the person who does not love you, and the person who you have hurt is the person who truly loves you. If you don't provide yourself with a way back, one day when you realize you need to turn back, the ex who both loves and hates you may no longer be waiting for you. Because you've been depreciating in the eyes of the other person. Therefore, we should be a person who keeps increasing in value, not in constantly depreciating value. Whether it is our own standards or the standards of others, we should constantly improve ourselves and pursue high qualityLove
Through the above stories and discussions, we can see that the pursuit of high qualityLoveIt's an ongoing process. We can't just go for itLovequantity, while ignoring the importance of quality. In loveIn relationships, we should learn to respect ourselves and manage ourselves well, rather than casually accepting other people's pursuits. At the same time, we should also choose someone who truly loves us as our partner and grow together with each other's mutual support. If we only measure by our own standardsLoveWithout taking into account the perceptions and feelings of others, then we may end up with nothing more than a devalued version of ourselves.
In pursuit of high qualityLoveWe must continue to improve ourselves and add value to ourselves. This requires us to constantly reflect on ourselvesIn loveAttitudes and behaviors, and respect the feelings and needs of others. At the same time, we also need to learn to examine whether the other person truly loves us and is willing to grow with us when choosing a partner. Only in this way can we usher in real high qualityLove