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Wen Feiyu.
What is the highest way to live in life?
In fact, it's just one sentence: just live yourself well.
Mr. Yang Jiang said that the most wonderful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart. We have been so anxious for recognition from the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
Yes, in this life, you live yourself well, your own state is better, if others like you, they will be willing to be with you, and they want to be what you are, because your state is enviable.
Therefore, we have to live our own life well and live our own wonderful life, which is an advanced way of living.
1. Live yourself well, how simple and how to come.
In the prosperous world, life is not simple, but we have to live simply.
Life is in a hurry, the world is hot and cold, people know that they are cold and warm, we can't change it, don't think so much, although Bai is just his own mentality, relax and live.
Those social interactions that you don't like, learn to say no, and don't have to force yourself to go. Those occasions that don't suit you, pull yourself away.
Your life, you make your own decisions, you can close yourself the door and think about nothing, just quietly do your own thing all day and no one will say anything about you.
Simplicity is the highest level of life in life, people live to the extreme, must be simple, the road to simplicity, although living a very simple life, it doesn't matter, because your heart is rich, because you can experience the happiness and beauty of life, because you can cultivate your own sentiments in life, you can make yourself better, that's it.
We don't need to live too complicated, how simple we are, how happy we are, so that we won't be so troubled.
2. Slow down your life and calm down to feel good.
Mr. Yang Jiang said in "Walking to the Edge of Life": "In this materialistic world, life is really hard enough. ”
Life is short, we need to live in the moment, don't live too quickly, don't always take care of yourself because you are busy, your life is your own after all, even you don't care about your body, don't know how to please yourself, then who do you expect to feel sorry for you?
Life is only more than 30,000 days, you are in a hurry, it is also a day, slowing down is also a day, being happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why should you wronged yourself?
How many people haven't given themselves a vacation for a long time, how many people haven't gone out to play for a long time, how many people have no self, they are all living for others, and how many people haven't let themselves slow down to feel some of the breath of life for a long time.
You don't always wait for later, you think that after you get through this period of time, you will have time to go out and play, you think that if you wait a little longer, you will have time to meet the person you want to meet.
But I can't think of the time to treat people, time is in a hurry, the world is impermanent, the coming day is not long, the person I want to see, I can never see it again, I want to do what I want to do, I miss it, I want to go out to play, but I also change my plan again and again, and release my own pigeons again and again, until one day, I have an epiphany.
Just as Xu Hongdou and Chen Nanxing in "Going to a Windy Place" are best friends, the two of them are also working hard in big cities, and they have always had a fast pace of life, and they always can't take care of eating and resting because they are busy with work.
When Xu Hongdou and Chen Nanxing went to the hospital for a physical examination one day, they found that their best friend Chen Nanxing's condition was not very optimistic, and it was determined that it was cancer after a reexamination.
But in fact, Chen Nanxing and Xu Hongdou agreed to travel, but after planning it again and again, they didn't succeed, still because they couldn't let go of work.
Later, his best friend died of cancer, Xu Hongdou came to his senses and began to reflect on himself, he didn't eat well or rest well over the years, he has been overdrawing his body, and he has never had time to please himself.
Thinking of this, Xu Hongdou made a decision, resigned, started a trip that said go, went to a windy place to start relaxing, slowing himself down, and letting himself be quiet.
Xu Hongdou gave himself a month of rest, began to enjoy the slow pace of life, began to open his heart, began to feel the vitality of life, and finally found his own happiness and found a rhythm that suits him.
The most advanced way to live in life is to find a rhythm that suits you after you slow down, so as to live well, do what you love, take yourself out of the abyss, and live seriously for yourself.
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