Shamo. 01 Preamble.
The relationship between people is like a rainbow, brilliant and fleeting.
After marriage, that sweet feeling will soon fade away. It's like tea that has been boiled for a long time, but later, it is like white water, tasteless.
If it is not properly managed, then the relationship between husband and wife will also dissolve over time.
Yishu said: The heart is getting cooler day by day, the leaves are getting yellower day by day, the story slowly comes to an end, and love is no longer in love due to too much loss.
In marriage, when the fate is exhausted, there will be such a sign: there are "two" things lost.
02The most important thing in a relationship is trust in each other.
Love is built on mutual trust.
If you don't have trust and no longer trust your loved ones, you often say things that are suspicious of each other, hurting each other's hearts. As time passed, their feelings, all in doubt and doubt, slowly disappeared.
Sister Lin and her husband next door originally had a good relationship, but since Sister Lin's children went to college, she often went to the park to sing a song or dance.
But Sister Lin's husband has always been suspicious of her, and went out to find a new man to be her companion. Even, he secretly followed her, wanting to see if she was in contact with someone.
When she participated in a singing competition, a boy learned two songs from her, and her husband became angry, and he was scolded when he went up.
Then, as soon as she went out, her husband would call her from time to time, saying that she was going to "check the post".
This kind of life is a few years in a flash, Sister Lin really can't stand it, and when her children graduate from college and get married, she and her husband are arguing for a divorce, and she really doesn't want to continue to stay here in this kind of life.
A couple, without each other's trust, will have a crack in each other's hearts.
Once he loses confidence, he will begin to question whether she is responsible for the family and whether she really loves her. Even the smallest contradiction can lead to mutual distrust that eventually turns into divorce.
Nina O'Neill said, "The most valuable quality in a relationship is mutual respect, and this intimacy is essential. ”
Husbands and wives have distanced, they don't trust each other, they are often suspicious of each other, they respect each other, and they can no longer talk calmly.
If two people are not united, it will be difficult to be together. Life has become a fragment of a place, and a common life has become a torment for each other.
03 Like it, in order to make a relationship last.
The fate of two people is often because of the dissipation of feelings.
If two people live together, they don't know how to maintain, how to repair, and how to love each other, they will slowly wear off in marriage.
Shen Jue fell in love with Jiang Xuehui when she first saw her in "Ning An Like a Dream". When the two were not married, Shen Jue often waited outside the temple gate for several days, just to see Jiang Xuehui.
He tried his best to finally make Jiang Xuehui his concubine.
But with contact, he knew that the gentle and virtuous Jiang Xuehui was not the woman he liked. He has already forgotten Jiang Xuehui's promise.
Feelings are always changing, and two people have to be together for a long time before they can determine whether they are suitable for each other and whether they can be together.
There is a very classic quote in the American TV series "Desperate Housewives": "No matter how tired you are, you must have a romantic feeling, and going through the motions may not be the best choice, but at least there must be a relaxed and happy atmosphere." ”
After marriage, whether two people can be together depends on how to manage their feelings.
A relationship, if you can't manage it and don't know how to maintain it, will go further and further.
If the two can't connect their hearts and minds, they will inevitably have many problems in their later lives.
Feelings must be managed well, and they must be constantly created. A couple, as long as they are sincere to each other, care for each other, and pass on their feelings to each other, can make ordinary life warm.
04 Summary. You must know that in order to love each other and walk together, you must have a great fate.
Once you fall in love, you can't let fate end.
The more trust you have, the more you know. Find more common topics and be more patient with each other, and the relationship will move in a good way.
Don't give up and don't joke about your marriage. For love, there must be more etiquette, more patience, and more tolerance.
Let love stay in each other's hearts forever, and life will be happier.
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