At the beginning of a relationship, the freshness always makes people's hearts excited, and the two are all happy when they are together. However, as time goes on, the novelty fades and the relationship between the lovers is put to the test. After the novelty, the fragility of love really comes to light.
After the novelty wore off, there was a lack of a common language between the two. When they first met, the two were able to get to know each other through a variety of topics, but as time went on, the usual topics dried up, and it was difficult for the two to find new common ground to communicate. Lack of communication can easily lead to an increased sense of emotional distance. The two gradually find that the once enthusiastic interaction has become unremarkable, as if there is an extra layer of estrangement between them. They begin to wonder if they really know each other and if they can continue to grow together.
In addition, the run-in of the details of life is also a long-term test. The differences in various life Xi are difficult to detect under the effect of freshness, but as time goes by, these differences become increasingly prominent, and it is easy to become the fuse for the two to quarrel or even break up. For example, one person is Xi to waking up early, another likes to sleep in, one likes to be tidy, and another likes to throw things anywhere. These seemingly minor problems can accumulate over time as a source of friction and strife.
What's more, there is a lack of sustained emotional investment after the novelty. In the initial period of love, both of them will put a lot of effort into pleasing each other, but after the novelty wears off, this investment is difficult to maintain for a long time. Once the two stop giving to each other, the emotion can easily cool down. The pressures and responsibilities of life can also distract both of them, reducing the amount of time and energy invested in each other. Such situations often lead to estrangement and instability in the relationship.
However, the fading of novelty does not mean that the relationship has come to an end. On the contrary, it is an important period for the quality of the relationship between lovers. If the two can strengthen communication on this basis, enhance mutual understanding, and continue to give each other support and companionship, then the relationship will be stronger. They can try to find new common hobbies and participate in meaningful activities to strengthen their emotional connection. In addition, the two can set goals and plan for the future together, injecting new impetus and hope into each other's relationships.
However, it is not easy to do this. Only when both people can realize that it is normal for the novelty to fade and work together can the relationship go further.