There was once a mysterious male classmate, a friend of Big Dreams, who once asked her a thought-provoking question: "Do you know what a man wants to do most when he falls in love with a woman?"Da Meng guessed many answers, but he was always far from the end of the riddle.
Finally, the male classmate told her in a serious way that it was a physiological reaction. According to him, when a man is genuinely emotional, he hopes to be able to crush the other party to the bone.
However, this physiological response is only a superficial phenomenon of love, one of the most primitive human desires. While unraveling this mystery, let's explore together how a man behaves if he truly loves you
1. Give enough freedom.
Looking back at the plot in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers": An Jia expressed a special love for Mei Xiangnan, but interpreted this emotion into excessive control. He didn't allow Mei Xiangnan to say a word more to other men, and even ordinary colleague and friend relationships would inspire strong resentment in him.
Even, in order to make Mei Xiangnan completely herself, An Jia didn't even want the other party to go out to work, hoping that she would become a canary kept in a cage and accompany him every step of the way. This kind of behavior is not really love, but binding the other person in the name of love.
True love should be an open gesture and a willingness to give the partner enough freedom and respect. Rather than blindly forcing your partner to live on your own terms, true love is a win-win relationship.
2. Caring about each other's feelings allows us to go back to a scene in a short **: a man takes his girlfriend to dine with a female friend, but an unpleasant dispute arises over the location of the vehicle. In this process, the man did not take the initiative to care about his girlfriend's feelings, but blamed her for making a fuss. In the end, this three-person trip ended in a breakup.
A man who truly loves you will care about your feelings, will not tolerate other women's provocations to you, and will not deliberately do things that displease you without scruples. He will prioritize your feelings, give you the care and support you deserve, and make sure that your happiness is the center of his attention.
Between love and unlove, the details often convey the message clearly. Someone who truly loves you will treat you as a treasure, take care of you in every detail, and be grateful for the luck of being able to meet you in this world.
Therefore, whether a man loves you or not can often be seen in these tiny details. In this way, we can't help but think about the true meaning of love