Yu Hua said:
"Men and women seek ephemeral pleasures, and roses are love;Men and women want to live for a lifetime, and relying on each other for their lives is love. ”Things that are scarce are expensive, and things that are too easy to get are often not cherished too much.
The same is true of love, only by running towards the goal of being together for a long time can you taste true love.
A man wants to have a future with you, he really loves you, and he will show these 3 words at any time, that is: I am here!
I've heard a saying:
"There is no time to be quiet, but someone is carrying the weight for you. ”In this world, except for your parents, you can love you selflessly, so that you can grow up carefree when you are young.
The rest is the lover you choose when you become an adult, and you can have a shoulder to lean on when you are tired.
As long as a man loves you, he will take the initiative to shelter you from the wind and rain, help you avoid crises in advance, and make your life less unpleasant.
In the Korean drama "My Love from the Star", Professor Du's attitude has changed a lot after falling in love with Qian Songyi.
He hated Chio Song Yi's arrogant personality at first and was reluctant to have contact with her.
After falling in love with her, he uncontrollably pays attention to everything about her, as long as he senses that she is in danger in advance, he will either avoid it in advance, or he will immediately rush to protect him.
Later, he was able to let go of his cold posture and be willing to disappear 24 to take care of Qian Songyi.
A man's attitude towards true love is to make your world always colorful.
In his heart, your beauty cannot be disturbed, and he is willing to be that quiet guardian.
If you want to use one sentence to describe love without constraints.
Then there is no doubt about it:
"I love you, but you are free. ”Crippled love, accustomed to limiting your preferences in the name of love. A good love will be based on your preferences and empower your dreams.
A man who understands the true meaning of love will only ask himself to have the ability to love someone, and will not restrict your choice.
They believe that love comes naturally.
* In the pastoral TV series "Going to a Windy Place", Xie Zhiyao, a "village grass" who returned to his hometown Yunnan from Beijing to start a business, fell in love with Xu Hongdou, a beautiful girl who traveled to Yunnan.
He created all kinds of opportunities to get along with Xu Hongdou, but he never embarrassed Xu Hongdou.
At the end of Xu Hongdou's trip and when he was about to leave, he asked Xu Hongdou to the beach and gave her a romantic confession, but he didn't ask Xu Hongdou to decide anything.
He just wanted his mind to be known, and at the same time he wanted Xu Hongdou to be happy, so he said
"I just hope that you will remember this beautiful time in the future, on a windy seaside, there was someone who sincerely said that he liked you. ”When a man loves a woman in his heart, he will not think about possession, but will only thank her for appearing and making his life have a different temperature. As for the direction of the relationship, he will give the choice to the other party.
Some people say that when you have a loved one by your side, the moment of happiness is when you are tired for a day, dragging your tired body, and walking into the house, you see someone waiting for you.
Then no matter how much you have been wronged outside, you will feel that it is not a big deal.
Being a man who is willing to be your retreat means that you can rest assured to be yourself, and you will always have his support behind you.
If you want to be in love for a few more years, and you don't want to get married so soon, he will appease both parents for you.
If you want to continue to work hard in your career after marriage and don't want to give up on self-growth, he will take the initiative to help you share family responsibilities.
Even if one day, you feel tired, don't want to deal with the complexity of interpersonal relationships, and want to concentrate on returning to the family, he will confidently pat his chest and say:
"It's okay, I'll take care of you. ”A man who keeps you in his heart will always remember your preferences, pay attention to your ideals, and try his best to achieve you. Because your happiness is proof that he loves you.
2023 Post Sprint Conclusion:
It is only a moment to be tempted by a person, but a life with fireworks is a long reality.
A man who truly loves a woman is not only attracted to you, but also that you share the practical problems of life, which is the embodiment of his sincerity.
Beautiful and weighty love is that no matter what happens, men dare to say these 3 words: I am here.
This is a beautiful promise, but also a responsibility from the bottom of my heart.