Everyone may have heard the story of a lazy man who was afraid that he would starve to death, so when he went out, she baked a large cake and put it around his neck, but when his mother came back, he still starved to death, because he was too lazy to eat the bread in front of him after eating.
I originally thought that this kind of person only existed in stories, but I didn't expect that it was exactly the same in real life. This person's name is Yang Suo, known as "China's first lazy man", obviously there is meat and vegetables at home, but he was starved to death, what is going on?
One day in December 2009, Yang Deyu was eating at home when it suddenly snowed outside. Listening to the whirring wind and looking at such a big snow, he couldn't help but think of his cousin Yang Suo, who had not eaten alone for several days.
Although he has always hated his cousin, how can he ignore him like an outsider?
So, he quickly finished eating, packed another meal, and took a thick quilt from home and set off to Yang Suo's residence.
Ten minutes later, Yang Deyu came to a courtyard that looked very dilapidated. From the outside, the courtyard seems to be very old, and the walls look like they are in disrepair, and it is hard to imagine that there are still people living here if it were not for the couplets on the two old wooden doors.
That's right, this is Yang Suo's home.
After Yang Deyu arrived, he knocked on the door and called Yang Suo's name, but after calling the door for a long time, no one came to open the door. At this moment, Yang Deyu's heart suddenly had a bad thought, so he pushed the door open and walked in.
As soon as I pushed the door, I saw an unkempt man lying on the ground, curled up motionless, and the fire next to it was about to be extinguished. Yang Deyu was very sure that this person was his cousin Yang Suo, he stepped forward to check his temperature, only to find that the person had already cooled down.
Yang locked up, alone in this cold winter. The next day, the news quickly spread throughout the village, but, strangely, everyone did not seem to be very sympathetic to Yang Suo's death, but showed a disgusted expression when he mentioned him.
Is there any contradiction between Yang Suo and the villagers?
In fact, Yang Suo did not have any deep hatred with the villagers in the same village, and the reason why everyone was indifferent to his death was mainly because he was too lazy, including his death, which was also caused by laziness, and the villagers had already done their best to him.
What's going on here?Everything has to start with Yang Suo's birth.
One day in 1986, a baby's cry came from a family surnamed Yang in Baoan Village, Zhutang Township, Luoshan County, and then I heard the people in the house shouting excitedly: "It's a boy."
Hearing the news, the man was very excited, he rushed in and hugged his wife who was weak after giving birth, and cried, this man is Yang Suo's father, and the child who was just born is Yang Suo.
The couple wanted to have a child for a long time, and finally waited for it to come, and their hearts were naturally full of joy, in order to show their attention to the child and the baby, they decided to use the "lock" to keep him, so they named him Yang Suo.
Since then, they have loved Yang Suo in every way, they have not been allowed to do any work since they were a child, they have to chase and feed to his mouth when eating, and buy everything they want, and they spoil Yang Suo is lawless, so that Yang Suo often disobeys discipline when he goes to school, not only does he not study well, but he also often goes to class to misbehave.
Sometimes the teacher will punish him a little when he is angry, but every time he is punished, Yang Suo's parents will come to the school**, saying that the teacher is abusing their children. After a long time, the teacher gave up disciplining Yang Suo.
For this reason, the relatives of the Yang family also reminded Yang's father and Yang's mother that they should discipline their children more, and blindly conniving will only harm their children. But Yang's father and Yang's mother were not only unmoved, but also accused their relatives of being too lenient.
In this way, with their connivance, Yang Suo became a lazy and unskilled child.
However, to put it bluntly, the Yang family's family affairs, since Yang Suo's parents are willing to suffer for their son, others can't say anything. However, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, Yang's father died of liver disease, and now the Yang family has no pillars, even if Yang's mother wants to spoil her son, she is not so capable.
As the burden of the family becomes heavier and heavier, Yang's mother's body is gradually dragging down, generally speaking, in this case, most children will become a little more sensible, but Yang Suo is different from others, he is not only indifferent, but sometimes he fights because his mother can't meet his requirements.
Mother Yang's heart is sour, but to put it bluntly, this is also the cause of her own planting, who can she expect sympathy from now?So, she died a few years after being depressed.
After Yang Suo became an orphan, his life was once uncared for, and his relatives and friends felt pitiful when they saw it, so they thought about helping him find a job, so that he would not be on the street if he had an income. Just when everyone didn't know where to find him a job, Yang Deyu stood up.
Yang Deyu often works in the construction team, so he thought about taking Yang Suo to the construction team, so that he could take care of it more. Unexpectedly, a few days after Yang Suo went to the construction team, he ran back on the grounds that the working environment was too poor, and he didn't go back even if others did any ideological work.
There was no way, the Yang family could only get rid of the people in the same village to help him find a job as a waiter, but after he went, he was dismissed because he was too lazy and always didn't work well.
In the end, the villagers were gone, and Yang Suo simply began to rot, staying at home and refusing to go out. If you don't have money, you can pawn the objects at home for money, and when the weather is cold, you will directly split the furniture at home into wood for heating, and you won't even be too lazy to go out to the toilet, so you can solve it directly at home.
Seeing his depraved appearance, everyone also gave up on him temporarily, thinking that when the things at home were pawned, in order to survive, he would have to find a job no matter how lazy he was, and save others to be anxious for him.
Unexpectedly, Yang Suo, who had nothing to pawn, would rather go out to beg than suffer from work. He took a broken bowl and asked for food around the village, and as long as he cooked food, he brought the meat and vegetables given to him by the villagers and kept them dry, even if he was hungry.
Ironically, it wasn't until after his death that meat and vegetables were found in his home. People are lazy like this, and because they are lazy, they give up their lives, no wonder the villagers are not sorry at all when they learn of his death.
As people often say, "parents are like killing children", Yang Suo's tragedy is inseparable from his parents' unconditional pampering, they think why they don't let Yang Suo do it is for his good, but they don't know that they can't accompany Yang Suo for a lifetime, once they leave, what is the difference between Yang Suo and waste?
However, it is not only the fault of Yang Suo's parents, but he himself also has a big problem, such as being lazy and always wanting to get something for nothing.
But society is a big collective, not all people will be like his parents to indulge him, if he is lazy when his parents are there, then he should immediately change after the death of his parents, instead of eating and waiting for death. Since he is unwilling to change, it is not worthy of sympathy to have this ending.