The man and his ex-wife divorce and do not separate, the two wives eat and live together, and the three of them are like a family
After a divorce, some people choose to stay out of contact with their ex, while others choose to remain close to each other.
Contemporary society is becoming more and more open, and people are paying more attention to individual choices when dealing with emotional problems, and are no longer bound by traditional concepts.
Recently, a man's family situation in Anhui has attracted widespread attention and discussion.
The man lives with his ex-wife and current wife, and the three of them live in the same room. For this unique family structure, some people express envy, and some people cast strange eyes.
So, what is it that makes this family such a unique pattern?
A 55-year-old gentleman has recently attracted widespread attention, because he not only married a new love who is only 30 years old, but also divorced his ex-wife, and the two are still living together harmoniously, forming a quite characteristic family picture.
The gentleman and his ex-wife each chose a new life trajectory after the divorce, thinking that the road to mutual love had ended. However, unexpectedly, the ex-wife insisted on moving to his new home, citing the need to maintain the emotional needs of the children. So, in order to give their children a complete family, the former couple decided to continue to live together and share the responsibilities of the family.
Although they are still formally a family, emotionally they have pursued new happiness. The 55-year-old gentleman has also found happiness in his new marriage, with his new wife only 30 years old, with a 25-year age gap with him. Surprisingly, despite entering the palace of marriage, the new wife does not mind letting the ex-wife stay at home, forming a rather special family structure.
What's even more unbelievable is that these three people actually maintain a harmonious and harmonious mode of getting along with each other. It may be unbelievable to the outside world, it is difficult to imagine that there is such an enlightened and tolerant woman in reality, who not only accepts the existence of her ex-wife, but also lives in harmony with her ex-husband, constructing a picture of life like a family.
This unique family story may seem strange to outsiders, but for them, it has become an unusual and warm family model. This may tell us that the definition of family can vary from person to person, and that an open and inclusive attitude may create a more colorful and rich life.
Four daughters were born one after another, and the difference between them and their granddaughters was only a few months, which is incredible.
What's even more surprising is that the family is now more lively. The reason was that a man had married a young wife, who had welcomed a daughter at home, who had just turned 9 months old.
Strikingly, the man's granddaughter had just celebrated her first birthday. When these two little angels sit together, such a scene is truly stunning.
However, the man was very satisfied with this, and his face was full of spring breeze, and he reveled in a happy life. Today, the whole family is filled with laughter and laughter, and they don't care about the scrutiny of the outside world.
The man is very satisfied with his current living situation and is even willing to share the details of his family. Perhaps in his opinion, this is life, there is no need to hide it, and there is nothing unspeakable.
It is obvious that the man has skillfully appeased each member of the family and has a unique way of getting along, otherwise the two women would not have been able to get along so harmoniously.
After the news, it caused many messages and a lot of controversy from netizens. After all, such families are not common, and although the parties accept the status quo, they still inevitably become a topic of conversation.
In fact, the existence of this "special" family may be due to the fact that the man has a certain economic base. Otherwise, so many people would have dragged him down long ago. The two women also knew their wishes, so they didn't care about their new wives and lived in harmony with each other.
Of course, so far, the family has been uneventful. This suggests that the man must be a person of high emotional intelligence and proficient in communication skills, so that he can skillfully arrange family life so that the two women always get along.
The cohabitation of three people has caused controversy, is this phenomenon good?
Although many people think that as long as the person concerned can accept it, outsiders have no right to comment. However, this "special" family structure may have a negative impact on girls' education. For the man and the current wife, there is no contradiction between them, they trust each other and are not jealous of each other.
However, children who live in such an environment for a long time are easily affected by abnormal family ethical relationships, which may have a negative impact on their growth and education.
Although it is not advocated to maintain a hostile relationship after divorce, since the divorce has been completed, it means the end of the marriage of both parties, which is not only reflected in the legal documents, but also in the way of life.
If it's really for the good of the child, the whole family shouldn't be left to live in chaos. Parents should educate their children well and give them enough care. Even if the parents are divorced, the child should be able to accept the reality.
The man did not separate after divorcing his ex-wife, but chose to live with two wives, which did attract public attention, but it was not worthy of praise. Although adults have always emphasized that this is for the good of the child, in reality, this practice may be detrimental to the child's growth and education. Ethical family relationships are an integral part of education and cannot be treated as child's play.