In 1994, when Zhang Kaili was having dinner in Guangzhou, she had to share a table with a man because of the limited number of seats. Surprisingly, they ordered the same dish, and when the meal was served, both of them were a little surprised.
This kind of coincidence makes them feel interesting, so in this unexpected encounter, they stayed with each other for *** for a year, and the two got married, and simple love is the most joyful, just like Zhang Kaili and Zhang Jianquan, but the original mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is also the biggest problem in life in the eyes of Zhang Kaili, a "mother professional household".
Today, Zhang Kaili's acting career is still thriving, and her 20-year-old daughter has also become a newcomer in the entertainment industry, but these are even more inseparable from her mother-in-law at home.
Zhang Kaili, who was born in September 1962, has a soft spot for snow. She was born in the cold city of Changchun, Jilin, but that didn't stop her from having a passion for snow. Whenever the snow falls, Zhang Kaili is like a little girl who does not admit defeat and strongly asks to go out to play in the snow. Her parents couldn't help her stubbornness, so they had to accompany her to play in the snow.
In the heavy snow, Zhang Kaili seems to have found her own world. She will hold the snowflakes in her hands and let them melt in the palms of her hands;You will also build a snowman and have a snowball fight, so you can enjoy the snow to the fullest. Even if the snowflakes sometimes wet her clothes, she doesn't care, she just cares about being close to the snow.
This love for snow may be one of the best memories of Zhang Kaili's childhood, the happiness and innocence of intimate contact with snow, but the limitation of height made her completely cut off contact with snow.
In 1974, at the age of 12, Zhang Kaili entered the school gate of Changchun No. 5 Middle School, however, her interest in studies did not seem to be as strong as her love for snow. In Zhang Kaili's heart, learning is always after skiing.
The parents noticed their daughter's enthusiasm for snow and began to consider whether they could turn her interest into a specialty. They decided to sign Zhang Kaili up for a junior speed skating class, hoping that she would find her own place and have fun here.
Every time she skates on the ice, Zhang Kaili devotes herself to it and enjoys the fun brought by the snow. After entering the training class, Zhang Kaili quickly mastered the skills of skiing, and the skills that others took a few days to learn, Zhang Kaili learned them in half a day each time, and she felt that she was born for snow. Every time in the group competition, Zhang Kaili can surpass her opponent and win the championship.
Three years of perseverance and hard work have made Zhang Kaili a high-profile professional speed skater in the local area. Her passion for speed skating continues to push her skills to improve, and every training session is a pursuit of her own perfection. However, her height does not seem to have changed in any way, and she has remained in place.
At such a turning point, the national ski team suddenly came to Jilin, looking for potential new stars. Zhang Kaili's technical performance was impeccable, but only her height became the key to her missing the national team.
She was only 10 centimetres off the standard line for the team, a slight gap that put her close to the national team.
Zhang Kaili, who missed the national team, reluctantly returned to Changchun No. 5 Middle School and continued her studies that had been abandoned for more than two years. For her, returning to the school classroom at this moment is like coming to a strange world, and her studies have plummeted.
Despite her tenacious will and indomitable spirit, the gap in knowledge has widened during the two-year gap. Try to catch up, but in the upcoming high school entrance examination, it seems a little out of reach to get a good score.
In 1978, Zhang Kaili graduated from junior high school when she was 16 years old, and she did not have too high expectations for her grades. Although she worked hard day after day, she still did not achieve decent results in her studies. It was also for this reason that she was not able to get into the ideal high school.
For a young Zhang Kaili, this news is undoubtedly a heavy blow. Seeing her classmates rushing to their new high school life one by one, she was left where she was.
In that year, Zhang Kaili was lucky to get an opportunity, a sudden change, because of the opportunity to expand the literary and artistic team of the army. Just when she was confused and frustrated, she was selected by the army and sent to the military museum as a docent.
Perhaps it was the favor of fate that allowed her to find a new path. In this new role, she gradually demonstrated her talent and passion. At this time, the performance major of the Drama Department of Jilin University of the Arts suddenly recruited students. Although she never thought of becoming an actor, Zhang Kaili resolutely signed up for the exam with the encouragement of her parents.
During her studies at Jilin University of the Arts, Zhang Kaili stood out with her outstanding performance and talent. She is the shining star on that stage, whether it is in drama or acting class, she can always attract attention, and every performance is an unrestrained heart and emotion.
In those years, she traveled from theater to theater and participated in various theatrical productions. From one role to another, she constantly tries to challenge her performance range and create memorable characters. Whether it's tragedy or comedy, every performance is a moment that resonates with her audience.
In 1989, ** TV cast for China's first chamber drama "Desire".
When Zhang Kaili walked on the audition stage, the director asked her: What movies have you participated in and how many are there. Zhang Kaili was trembling by this question, and said timidly: I acted in 1 movie, mainly engaged in drama.
The director's question made her realize that she didn't have a lot of film work to show, but only had acting experience on the theater stage. She was well aware that this could be the reason why she wasn't chosen. However, despite her fear of being kicked out, she threw herself into the crying scene.
As the audition progressed, Zhang Kaili put all her emotions into the performance as much as possible, and she carefully interpreted the inner struggles and emotional ups and downs of the character. In every scene, she reveals her innermost emotions on stage, no matter how nervous the director's questions are.
When Zhang Kaili began to perform the crying scene, the director was moved by her performance. She didn't have any extra lines, just interpreted the inner pain of the character with her eyes and emotions, and began to be shocked by her performance, but she didn't expect this actor who had never met to show such deep emotions so naturally.
Her dedication and sincerity eventually impressed the director and became the protagonist of the show. This audition was an important turning point in Zhang Kaili's career.
Zhang Kaili thus stood out and played the gentle and virtuous Liu Huifang, who was completely different from her original fiery personality. Her performance made the audience's eyes shine, and the virtuous image on the screen made Zhang Kaili gain a lot of fans, and she was affectionately called the "national daughter-in-law".
Zhang Kaili also became an overnight star with the drama "Desire", and her dream success finally came true, however, this huge wave of success also brought heavy pressure.
Winning the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress made Zhang Kaili's name resounding throughout Chinese mainland overnight, but it also made her feel unprecedented pressure. The expectations of her seemed to solidify a certain role, which made her feel constrained and struggling.
Although Zhang Kaili's acting skills in "Desire" were highly praised, she tried to try other types of roles next, but was repeatedly frustrated.
In 1992, the 30-year-old Zhang Kaili did not achieve great success in the film industry, but she was a dazzling star in the repertory troupe. Her acting talent was fully displayed on the drama stage, and she became one of the high-profile actors in the drama troupe at that time, and was even known as "one of the top ten actors".
Although she has made great achievements in her career, she is still alone in her love life. Her parents also began to give her a blind date everywhere, but Zhang Kaili excused herself on the excuse that she was busy with work.
In 1994, Zhang Kaili was invited to perform in Guangzhou, and during dinner, Zhang Kaili had to share a table with a boy due to the limited number of seats in a restaurant. Surprisingly, they ordered the same dish, and when the meal was served, both of them were a little surprised. This coincidence makes them find it interesting, so in this unexpected encounter, they leave each other ***
As the contact between the two became more and more frequent, the relationship between the two became closer and closer, and half a year later, the two established a relationship, and the boy was Zhang Kaili's husband Zhang Jianquan.
Zhang Jianquan is not a typical attractive man, but he has a warm heart and dedication to life and work. But Zhang Jianquan is like her gospel, the two got married after a year of love, and half a year later, Zhang Kaili became popular again with "Military Wife".
Slowly, Zhang Kaili realized that life is not like a TV series, and it will not unfold according to the preset script. After getting married, she and her husband Zhang Jianquan decided to let her husband's parents move to the city to live with them, hoping to spend more time with them. However, this decision has become the biggest challenge in Zhang's life.
Although Zhang's parents are kind-hearted, they come from the countryside and have completely different living habits and concepts from Zhang Kaili, who lives in the city. Despite her best efforts to integrate, understand and respect her elders, some irresolvable conflicts began to emerge in the family. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become the most headache in Zhang Kaili's life, and daily family chores have become more complicated in this relationship.
got along well with her mother-in-law, and her daughter also entered the circle.
Zhang's mother is the youngest in Zhang's family, and she takes care of his wife and housework on weekdays. Her brothers and sisters heard that there was a celebrity daughter-in-law in the family, and they were quite curious about Zhang Kaili.
Every time relatives come to visit, they want to meet the celebrity daughter-in-law, but the mother-in-law is worried that Zhang Kaili will be disturbed, and she doesn't want to make her relatives laugh because of family conflicts, so every time she comes to visit, she hurriedly copes with things on the grounds that Zhang Kaili is filming in other places.
Every time relatives visited, my parents-in-law wandered around Beijing, occasionally taking relatives to the Great Wall or the Summer Palace. However, the feeling of these relatives not being able to see Zhang Kaili made her feel a little guilty. Although she understands her mother-in-law's considerations, those relatives who want to understand her are closed. Gradually, those relatives stopped coming as often and felt a little lost.
In the eyes of outsiders, Zhang Kaili has become famous, but the entanglement of family relationships makes it difficult for her to reconcile. She longed to improve her relationship with her mother-in-law, but was unable to find a suitable way. This conflicted life made her feel helpless, and it also made her think about how to balance her career and family, so that family problems would not affect her career development.
A year after getting married, Zhang Kaili became pregnant. After her father-in-law and mother-in-law saw that their daughter-in-law was pregnant, they began to take the initiative to care for her and tried to help take care of her, which also made Zhang Kaili slowly let go of some of her knots. She began to realize that her mother-in-law's original intentions were good, but there was a misunderstanding in the way she expressed them.
The father-in-law kept persuading her mother-in-law to understand Zhang Kaili more and give her some time and space. Slowly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to ease, and Zhang Kaili also realized the importance of understanding more and taking a step back. The relationship between the two has also begun to develop in a more harmonious and harmonious direction.
The father-in-law kept persuading her mother-in-law to understand Zhang Kaili more and give her some time and space.
In 1997, after the birth of her daughter Zhang Keying, her mother-in-law seemed to have regained the motivation to live and devoted herself to the role of taking care of her granddaughter with great enthusiasm.
The mother-in-law runs around day and night, taking care of her granddaughter Zhang Keying with her heart. She helped change her granddaughter's diaper, stewed nutritious soup, and cared so much that she didn't look old at all. Whenever Zhang Keying cries at night, her mother-in-law is always the first to wake up, holding her granddaughter to sleep, even if she has to wake up several times a night, her mother-in-law has no complaints.
Zhang Kaili is grateful for her mother-in-law's selfless dedication, but she often wants to help, hoping to share some of her mother-in-law's hard work, but her mother-in-law always shirks the past. Zhang Kaili deeply understands her mother-in-law's intentions, although her gratitude is overflowing, she also understands that there are some things that her mother-in-law is willing to do, so she no longer insists on it.
This tacit understanding and warm interaction made Zhang Kaili feel the warmth of home, and she understood that her mother-in-law's contribution was not ordinarily simple, but contained endless maternal love and care. The harmony and warmth of this family also made Zhang Kaili cherish the happiness in front of her even more.
In 1998, Zhang Kaili re-entered the showbiz and once again ignited the raging drama passion in her heart. She has successively participated in film and television dramas such as "The Age of Naked Marriage" and "Let's Get Married", and in these dramas, she played the role of mother-in-law.
Perhaps because of her own personal experience as a mother-in-law, Zhang Kaili has a very deep understanding of this role. When she played the role of her mother-in-law, she showed very good acting skills, whether it was in her expression, speech or emotional control, she showed a very high level.
Zhang Kaili interprets the role of mother-in-law vividly, and every action and expression is full of deep emotional connotations. The audience praised her performance and called her a "mother professional".
Zhang Kaili's achievements are inseparable from the silent support of her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law is a virtuous housewife who takes care of the housework in a down-to-earth manner, taking care of her granddaughter Zhang Keying and daughter-in-law Zhang Kaili.
Even though Zhang Kaili sometimes wants to help share the housework, her mother-in-law always smiles and says: "Acting is so hard, you go and rest, I can do all this work." The tacit understanding and understanding between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gradually brought them closer. Her mother-in-law never cared, she was always tolerant and considerate, and she became a solid backing for Zhang Kaili in her career and life.
Such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is not common, but the mother-in-law used her kindness and tolerance to dissolve the estrangement between them. Zhang Kaili is grateful and understands that such family affection is the most solid backing for her career.
Today, Zhang Kaili is 61 years old, and her daughter has just turned 20 years old, but she is an actor in the entertainment industry. Zhang Kaili's life from a speed skater to an outstanding actor, although there is a certain element of fate, but she is still popular is inseparable from her character, and she is inseparable from tolerance, it is such a 20-year mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have never quarreled, a successful woman, can run the family like this, it is rare.