My son's girlfriend has been coming to my house for more than a month, and I'm going crazy, when is it a head
My son is the only pride of my husband and me, and he is our sustenance and expectation. Before Gu Min appeared, I was full of various expectations for my future daughter-in-law, hoping that she would be a gentle and considerate woman.
I found her to be a perfectionist, and the slightest disappointment could make her unhappy.
I remember one day, I made a nice dinner. The family sat around the dining table and enjoyed themselves. Just as we were about to start, I noticed a hint of displeasure flashing across Gu Min's face.
She tactfully reminded. I was a little embarrassed, but I still smiled and said, "Maybe I did it a little badly, I'm sorry."
Looking at the way they looked, I felt a little depressed. My son is never picky about eating, but he has become so picky in front of her.
As the days passed, I began to feel more and more stressed. The sound of putting down the dishes and chopsticks, the melody of cleaning up the table, every small movement becomes cumbersome.
Gu Min's voice always echoed in my ears, making me unable to choose.
Last night, I counted the dishes and chopsticks in the kitchen, and my thoughts flew again. My son's girlfriend walked slowly into the kitchen, looked at my back silently cleaning the dishes, and suddenly said, "Mom, I'm sorry."
She walked up behind me gently and said affectionately, "Guess why I didn't want to go back to your house for more than a month?".It's because I don't want to leave you.
Looking at this unsuspecting Gu Min at this time, I was a little overwhelmed. The warmth that I had not felt in a long time came over me, and I was speechless for a while.
At this moment, I understood Gu Min's sincerity.
Gu Min, mom likes you too. At first, I may think that you are too demanding of me, and I can't bear it.
I gently patted her on the shoulder, filled with gratitude and guilt.
Since then, the relationship between me and Gu Min has become more harmonious. Every day I look forward to her arrival and to sharing the bits and pieces of life with her.
We will talk to each other and share the joys and sorrows of life. Gu Min began to become an important part of my life, and her presence filled the void in my heart.
It's been more than a month since my son's girlfriend came to my house, and although there have been ups and downs, I am now willing to accept her and treat her sincerely.
As time went on, our son's girlfriend Gu Min continued to integrate into our family life, and we got along more and more harmoniously.
I began to impress her, and her performance in housework made a huge difference in my evaluation of her.
However, just as our family was enjoying the warmth of family, a small dispute slowly emerged.
One night, my husband and I had a whim to clean up the flowers and plants in our house. When it was time to go to bed, we opened the balcony and opened the curtains to get ready to go out.
What are you doing?Gu Min looked at our busy figures suspiciously.
We are going to move the flowers and plants to the balcony to bask in the sun. I replied.
But it's always like this, and I don't see any problems with the flowers and plants. I said impatiently.
Gu Min refused to give up and insisted: "I came into contact with plants when I was a child, and I was right. If you move in like this, I'm not responsible.
I looked at her and felt a wave of dissatisfaction in my heart. "You know so much about this kind of little thing?Do you think you're a professional horticulturist?I shouted out a little uncontrollably.
Gu Min was silent for a moment, lowered his head, and his voice trembled slightly: "I'm sorry, I didn't mean that, I just hope that flowers and plants can grow healthily."
For a moment, the room fell silent. I couldn't take care of my emotions anymore, and I couldn't help but feel a little guilty in the face of Gu Min's fragile appearance.
Looking at the crying Gu Min, I whispered, "I'm sorry, I complained too much just now." You're for the good of the flowers and plants, I shouldn't be so impulsive to question you.
The husband also came over and shook Gu Min's hand, and said softly: "You can teach me a lesson when you are arrogant, we will remind each other, but we must also remember that we are family."
Gu Min raised his head, a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth, and wiped away the tears from the corners of his eyes: "Thank you for your understanding, I will also correct my shortcomings."
Since that day, the contradictions between us have been alleviated, and we have become more understanding and tolerant of each other. We realize that getting along is not only about happy times, but also about experiencing disputes and running-in.
Gradually, I noticed that Gu Min seemed to become a little impatient. She began to criticize me for every little mistake, frequently scolding me for not being careful enough.
I tried to explain to her that I wasn't feeling well lately and was indeed a little tired. "It's okay, but you can't always rely on excuses, right?She replied coldly.
I felt a tinge of frustration in my heart, and I couldn't understand why she was being more and more me when I needed to understand the most.
As the days passed, the relationship between me and Gu Min became more and more strained. She became more and more stereotyped, and I became more and more sensitive.
One afternoon, I was sitting alone in the living room, looking out the window at the scenery in a daze. Gu Min walked in suddenly, her eyes a little downcast.
Her voice was flat, but I could feel the determination in it.
When I heard this, my heart was like a knife. I don't know why, maybe it's because I care about her evaluations and what she expects of me, and I ignore what really matters.
Gu Min left my home, leaving me with a deep emptiness and self-blame. I began to reflect on my own behavior, and I did not give her enough respect and understanding.
The arrival of Gu Min has rejuvenated my life, but with it comes new contradictions.
One night, our family was sitting in the living room, watching TV. The son's girlfriend suddenly turned her head and criticized coldly: "Look at you, stay at home all day, what else is there besides eating and watching TV?"Don't you think it's boring to live like this?I was stimulated by her words, and my heart was filled with anger.
I replied emphatically.
Gu Min's face changed, and he just wanted to speak, but his son interjected. "Mom, don't get excited. Gu Min just cares about us, and she also wants to see you live a more meaningful life.
Yes, maybe I really need to find some new fun and interests to live a little more abundantly.
Over the next few days, I started to take the initiative to participate in community events and make some new friends. After Gu Min saw it, a smile appeared on the corner of her mouth.
However, as time went on, I found that Gu Min's criticism became more and more frequent, and she gradually became harsh on me and my son.
One day, I was busy in the kitchen when Gu Min suddenly walked in. "Your dishwashing method is completely wrong, the water temperature is not high enough, it can't be cleaned!Her voice was filled with dissatisfaction and impatience.
If you are not satisfied with my efforts, you can wash them yourself. I no longer tolerate her reproach and shoot back bluntly.
Gu Min was taken aback by the deliberate indifference between my words, and her eyes revealed helplessness and loss. "Mom, I'm sorry, I didn't mean that.
You know what, I really care about you and this family. She said softly, tears creeping up in her eyes.
Gu Min raised his head, smiled and nodded. "Mom, I see. I'm sorry, but I'll reflect on what I've done.
Since then, the relationship between me and Gu Min has become more harmonious. We have learned to better understand and tolerate each other, and face the challenges and difficulties in life together.
Gu Min has become a member of our family, and I am very pleased to have her here. However, the passage of time does not bring complete harmony, but slowly reveals some contradictions.
At a family gathering, Liu Wei couldn't help but say to Gu Min: "Gu Min, do you really think you are a member of the family?"You're just my son's girlfriend, don't overdo it.
Back at home, Gu Min's mood was obviously low. I asked her worriedly, and she told me that she had been troubled by her family's attitude.
Mom, I always felt that Liu Wei didn't like me, and I didn't know what I did wrong. Gu Min's voice was a little choked, "I know I'm just my son's girlfriend, but I also hope to be accepted by my family."
I held Gu Min's hand tightly and tried my best to give her some comfort, "Gu Min, I know that you have done a lot of things for your family.
Some people are against it just because they don't understand your worth yet.
Gu Min smiled weakly, tears welling up in his eyes. "Mom, thank you for always supporting me. Her voice revealed a hint of helplessness.
I deeply understand Gu Min's feelings, this world can never cater to everyone's preferences. But I hope to give her more support and encouragement.