Relationships between men and womenFalling in love is actually very simple, but getting along and falling in love with each other is not easy. The throbbing at first sight may be lost to all kinds of problems in daily life. Being together for a long time can cause both parties to become too self-conscious, not really getting to know each other, and not being able to get addicted to each other, let alone make the other person obsessed with themselves. And making the other party obsessed with themselves and making the other party "addicted" has become an important means to make a relationship last. Learning to "empathize" and carry out "addiction" to the end is what men and women get along withCritical
InBoth sexesIn getting along, it is almost impossible to change the other person. Everyone has their own period of rebellion, and trying to point out the shortcomings of the other person or change the other person usually only leads to the intensification of quarrels and contradictions, and does not get a good result. Instead, a better approach is empathy, pointing out the problem in a way and attitude that is acceptable to the other person, and pointing out the possible consequences of the problem. Empathize with the other person, express their understanding of the other person, and at the same time point out the problem, just like a rebellious child, they want to be understood rather than blamed. When men and women get along, they must learn to "empathize" emotions, make each other addicted, and make them easily infatuated with you.
Emotions play an important role in the relationship between men and women, and you must learn to empathize with each other's emotions in order to make each other more comfortable and make the other party obsessed with you. People usually only care about the emotions of those who put themselves in a position of importance. Through empathy, we can understand the other person's anger while sharing their sadness. Companionship is the most sincere confession, and every joy, sorrow and sorrow can become an opportunity to make the other person addicted. Uncontrollable tantrums or fragile hearts require the understanding and companionship of the other person.
Empathy doesn't mean being completely consistent, it's about finding balance in imbalance. Everyone's way of thinking and rhythm is different, therefore, inBoth sexesIn getting along, we need to learn to understand each other's feelings and moods, and at the same time express our own opinions and understanding. Empathy is an important form of communication to build better understanding and connection in relationships.
When men and women get along, it is very important to give each other an appropriate distance. Everyone needs their own space and freedom, and if you are constantly in each other's private space, then the other person may feel uncomfortable. Therefore, learn to empathize with the other person's need for distance and find a balanced model.
People tend to love novelty, and if you show up in the other person's life too often, the other person may lose that freshness. Therefore, men and women should learn to "empathize" distance, respect each other's personal space and needs, and redeem each other in the appropriate position like hedgehogs. Only by finding the right distance can you make the relationship more durable and make the other party infatuated with you.
It's not hard to get someone to fall in love with you, but it takes a lot more effort. Learning to empathize with emotions and empathy distance is what cultivates long-lasting feelingsCritical。Empathy increases our understanding of each other and makes us more comfortable with each otherEmpathy distance can give the other person enough freedom and space to make the relationship more durable. Only by making the other person "addicted" can they become obsessed with you and can't help but fall in love with you.
Falling in love is easy and difficult to get along with, but by learning to empathize, we can make each other more understanding and respectful. By understanding the other person's emotions and needs, and giving the other person the right space, we can cultivate a long-lasting and beautiful relationship. Let each other "get hooked" and spend a lifetime together.