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Most of the interactions between lovers begin with "physical liking", and if there is no such biological instinct, then it is difficult to establish deeper intimacy in the future.
In fact, if you want a girl to keep you in her heart and commit to being a lover, men may wish to learn a little more about psychology Xi and apply it to the actual practice of pursuing love.
In the following three actions, a man can make a pose, and a woman can "easily get it" and become your "bag".
There's an experiment in psychology where two boys, A and B, A stand next to two men and B stand next to two women. If there was a choice between these two men, the woman would choose B.
This is called: mate selection imitation. At the same time, I would also like to tell you another common sense of psychology, which is mentioned by psychology professor Roland Miller in "Intimate Relationships":
If a man has more relationships with the opposite sex, he will be appreciated by everyone and found him attractive. Conversely, women who do similar things are labeled with "**" and other negative comments.
Therefore, even if a smart man has not been in a relationship, he will not directly tell this fact about the girl he likes. Instead, pretending that you have a lot of suitors right now will stir up a woman's "competitive" mentality and want to get you.
In addition, men should also find their strengths that are different from others and show them to women, so that she will be impressed and adored by you.
Dr. Shen Yifei of sociology conducted an in-depth study of the psychology of love between men and women, and wrote a book called "What kind of love is worth being brave once".
In the book, she tells boys: If you want to pursue the opposite sex you like, don't just meet the needs of the other person, but also understand the real desires of her heart.
For example, many men chase girls and like to chat and date, but these things, to put it bluntly, other men will also do them. Therefore, it does not belong to the core competencies of men.
It takes a long time for a man to understand a woman's family of origin and past experiences, including what kind of personality and outlook on marriage the woman has now, and then make some women feel "Wow!"."This kind of man understands my things to really win a woman's heart.
Otherwise, for women who are becoming more and more sober and full of wisdom, what they are pursuing is no longer the love of ordinary people, but a unique feeling and a suitable soulmate.
The Zeigarnik effect in psychology suggests that people are impressed by things they haven't done.
Therefore, when a man is in a relationship with a woman he likes, he cannot "take the initiative and hide nothing".
This is not to teach men to cheat on women's feelings, but to let men know some love skills and give each other a more interesting love experience.
Truth be told, if a guy directly tells a girl what the balance on her bank card is, it's not interesting at all to ask her to guess.
Loss aversion also shows that people are more focused on what they give. Therefore, men must learn to stimulate women's curiosity about themselves, so that women can feel that with you, their future life will not be dull.
In this case, the woman will miss you all the time and let you have a place in her heart.