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When you miss someone, what is the first thing that comes to mind?
Do you want to contact each other like crazy right away?In fact, this is just the simplest and most basic way to express your thoughts.
In the world of feelings, men and women often express themselves differently.
When a man misses someone, he doesn't connect like crazy like a woman, but secretly does these three things.
1. Quietly pay attention to the dynamics
Men don't usually express their feelings directly through words, as women do.
They are more inclined to feel each other's emotions in advance by observing and understanding each other's dynamics.
Because the natural rational mind tells them that taking a stand directly at the beginning will make people feel unacceptable and not conducive to subsequent emotional development.
For example, they'll quietly follow your social accounts, keeping an eye out for your status, status, and comments. Through these dynamics, they are able to learn about your life, emotions, and thoughts, which leads to a better understanding of your needs and preferences.
This attention is not necessarily because men want to be intimate with you, but because they want to get to know you and know what you are thinking and doing.
This attention is also a way for them to ease their thoughts and alleviate their own lovesickness by observing your dynamics.
2. Look for opportunities for contact
While men don't like to connect as often as women, they will also make an effort to find opportunities to reach out to you.
This contact may be accidental or deliberately made.
They may take the initiative to chat with you on social ** or ask you to do something you both enjoy.
If they have the opportunity to work or collaborate with you, they will work harder to express themselves in order to form a closer bond with you.
For example, "planning" a romantic encounter on your way from work or class, or having an umbrella for you on a rainy day, etc.
Men will look for opportunities to engage with you because they want to get to know you better and at the same time want to be able to build a closer relationship with you.
Through contact, they hope to translate their inner thoughts into reality and achieve long-term relationship preservation.
3. Become more responsible
When a man misses someone deeply, he looks forward to spending the future with her. Therefore, he will be full of anticipation and anticipation for the future.
He may be aware of his responsibilities and mission and work harder to create a better future. He will pay more attention to his family and career in order to give you more support and help when you need it.
This sense of responsibility is not only because the man wants to be with you, but also because your presence inspires his fighting spirit. The bond of longing made him realize that he should be responsible for you and for your future.
This sense of responsibility is also a way for him to express his thoughts, and through his own efforts and dedication, you can feel his love and care for you.
In short, when a man misses someone, he will not contact you like crazy as we think, but will secretly do the above three things.
First of all, I quietly follow you and learn about your life and preferences through your dynamics.
Then look for the right opportunity to approach you. The most important thing is that he will silently rise in his heart to protect you and a sense of responsibility, because he wants to turn this thought into reality and carry it on for a long time.
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About the author: Xiao Wanqingqing, a post-90s self-leading creator, loves life philosophy, focuses on emotional writing and self-leading dry goods. Thank you for your attention