In our country, the emotional interaction between young people under the age of 18 is often called "puppy love". Although puppy love is not explicitly restricted by law, young people are generally encouraged not to rush into emotional entanglements during adolescence.
Before college students enroll, schools and parents often strongly discourage early love, especially at the middle school level. This period is a critical time in adolescence, when young people develop ambiguous feelings towards the opposite sex, and the academic path is crucial.
In order to curb the phenomenon of early love, the school has taken a variety of measures, such as designing reflective school uniforms, imposing social distancing between boys and girls, and setting up restricted areas for boys and girls.
However, when college students enter college, the situation changes significantly. Not only are schools not averse to falling in love, but some schools also offer "emotional education courses" to guide students to deal with relationships rationally.
The phenomenon of college students facing "rotten" blind dates is mainly due to the change of parents' attitudes. After their children enter college, parents encourage them to establish relationships as early as possible, and some parents even take the initiative to arrange blind dates for their children. College students have to deal with this forced blind date, even if they are not interested in the other person.
Adolescent students often have a rebellious mentality, believing that the more forbidden things are, the more they want to try. As a result, some students try it even though they know that their school and parents discourage early love.
Even when they enter college, they find that their emotional restrictions have been lifted, but they are no longer eager to fall in love, and they think that living alone is a joy. However, it is still difficult for them to refuse the blind date arrangement of their parents, and they can only reluctantly participate in the "mess".
In the process of blind date, the dialogue mode is usually "one question and one answer", and the other party's questions cannot be allowed to go unanswered, even if the other party seems to have nothing to say, they cannot give up. In this case, no matter how short the conversation is, it will be full of awkwardness and I don't know what to do.
Sometimes there will be some self-righteous humorous situations in blind dates, saying incomprehensible local love words, and even thinking that the other party will drool because of their own **, this attitude is really difficult to evaluate, I hope they succeed.
Falling in love is not a trivial matter, and college students should keep thinking rationally. Relationships are an important life experience, and it's a blessing to find a partner who is suitable for marriage, but we shouldn't rush into action if we haven't met that special person yet.
College students should cherish their feelings, improve themselves, expand their knowledge and connotation, and make themselves better. If you meet someone you like, you should also take your feelings seriously. Finally, I would like to say to all parents that feelings cannot be forced, do not force children, and maybe there will be better results.
Today's topic is: What are your thoughts on this issue?