Sometimes our pain is often caused by our own attachment, such as an impossible relationship, knowing that the other party's mind is not on us, but we still have to work hard, and we have to be hurt to the point that we are willing to let go of our obsession. If we had come to our senses earlier, we wouldn't have been so painful.
Everyone is equal, and we are conscious ourselves, so why do we sometimes lose consciousness and let ourselves fall into the mud?
That's because we have an obsession in our hearts and block the light of our own wisdom, so we can do incredible things.
Some of our obsessions are self-consciousness and some are the consciousness of others, but no matter what they are, these are the shackles of our minds, which make us lose our own consciousness and be dragged into the mud by the emotional troubles of ignorance.
We should be discerning about the consciousness of others, and not project negative energy that does not belong to us and bring pain to ourselves.
In fact, we have to understand that our emotions, personalities, and thoughts are all born and destroyed by circumstances, and they are constantly changing.
For example, when I went to the mall, I fell in love with a nice piece of jewelry and thought that I must buy it, and then the store recommended their new products to me, and I was struck by the sight of a more eye-catching boutique. At this time, you will find that you do not have such a strong desire for the previous jewelry, but you have more to belong to the current boutique, so that you can't put it down.
Change is non-existent all the time, and it is not like there is a saying that plans never change as fast as possible. And all of this is led by karma, if it wasn't for the cause of the store to promote new products to me, I wouldn't have changed my plan, and it just so happened that the store's promotion made me discover something more unique. So you can't say that the change is bad, but you have to understand what you really want.
Sometimes we don't know what we're looking for, maybe we're looking for what we already have. For example, when a drop of water is used, it always wants to find the sea, because it has heard that the sea is beautiful and wide, but what it doesn't know is that it is already in the sea.
People sometimes tend to cling to the ever-changing phenomenon, sometimes sad, sometimes happy, and their hearts cannot be calm, and they will naturally be troubled. Practice, on the other hand, is to observe oneself through introspection, so that one's body and mind are as clear as crystal.
Go with the flow and do nothing.
We have to go with the flow of things, don't always try to change, and the result of change will definitely be as you want. Of course, if you follow the development, when it is time to change, you can't say that you don't change, that would also violate the law of development.
When the cause is sufficient, what should come will naturally appear, and we can push the boat along the river, and if the cause is not sufficient, you just blindly force it, and the result will only be counterproductive.
Therefore, what we should do is to realize our own mind, to recognize our own unstained and bright instinctive nature, to awaken righteous thoughts, to embark on the right path, to realize the transformation and leap of life, not to be attached to it, not to set limits, and to live a complete life.
With such correct knowledge and correct view, even if we encounter adversity, we will not be afraid, but will face and resolve it with a mindful heart.