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In this era of competition and opportunity, if a man wants to become a big man, it is not just talk. You have to go through the wind and rain to see the rainbow;You have to eat the four "bitters" before you can taste the sweetness of success. Let's listen to my "** lake" slowly.
1. The Pain of Loneliness - "The Ancient Sages Are Lonely", and there is always loneliness on the road to success. If a man wants to become a big man, he must first learn to enjoy solitude. My old friend Wang Jia is an example of this. He used to be a glamorous entrepreneur, but after the business failed, his friends left him and his family was disappointed in him. During that time, he was alone all day long, alone. But it was this lonely time that allowed him to learn to reflect and precipitate, and finally made a comeback and achieved another career. "Loneliness has made me more aware of myself and the world," he said. "So, men, don't be afraid of loneliness, it may be the only way to success!Second, the pain of pressure - Mount Tai does not bend over, "the sky will descend to the people, and they must first suffer their minds." "If a man wants to be great, he has to be able to withstand the pressure. My nephew, Xiao Zhang, is a living example of this. At a young age, he worked as a department manager for a company, and he wanted to give up in the face of heavy work and intense pressure. But whenever he thinks of his family's expectations and his own dreams, he grits his teeth and persists. After a lot of hard work, he finally led the team to complete a number of difficult tasks and won the recognition of colleagues and leaders. "Pressure makes me stronger," he said. "That's right, men have to be a little bit of pressure to reach their potential!3. The Pain of Failure - "Failure is the mother of success", this is not false at all. If a man wants to be great, he must dare to face failure and learn from it. A friend of mine, Lao Wang, is such a person, he has failed many times in starting a business, but he is never discouraged, and after each failure, he will seriously sum up the lessons and then set off again. Now that his company has become well-known in the industry, he has also become a successful person in the eyes of everyone, he said: "Failure has made me more appreciative and hardworking." "So don't be afraid of failure, men, it can be your stepping stone to success!
Fourth, the suffering of ** - stick to your heart and do not waver "There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts." "But on the road to success, men have to learn to resist. This can come from money, power, beauty, and so on. One of my distant relatives, Xiao Liu, once faced such a test. He held a key position in a large company and held a lot of power, but he always stood by his principles and remained unmoved. One supplier sent him a large sum of money in order to get an order, but he resolutely refused and reported the matter to his superiors, and finally won the trust and respect of the company. He said: "* made me more aware of my bottom line. Yes, men have to keep their bottom line if they want to be big!
Conclusion: Now you should know what four kinds of "suffering" men need to suffer first if they want to become big, right?That's right, it is the pain of loneliness, the pain of pressure, the pain of failure and the pain of **, although these four pains are difficult to swallow, as long as you face them bravely, you will find that they are actually the only way to success. Remember, there is no shortcut to success, only after experiencing wind and rain can you see the rainbow, and only men who have suffered these four kinds of hardships can really become great!