Everyone's life.
It's rare to have smooth sailing.
It is like a tree that has been weathered by wind and rain, and after being blown by wind and rain, it will sprout new shoots in the spring of the following year.
But is it okay to live in human life?
Xu Jialioriginally thought that she married a good husband and could spend her life safely and smoothly from now on.
However, until that day, a small cold of hers directly changed her life.
Xu JialiHe is 35 years old this year, works in a company, and has a monthly salary of 6,000.
HusbandFu BoHe is a university teacher with a monthly salary of 8000.
Together, they had a son.
Now my son is 3 years old and is in kindergarten.
Mother-in-law has been helping to carry it.
On this day, Belle came home from work.
Because of the sudden cooling, when she returned home, her throat was uncomfortable, and it was accompanied by a little nasal congestion.
After she entered the door, she sneezed several more times in a row.
When the mother-in-law heard this, she called out to her grandson: ".Jun-hoHurry up and close the windows and the doors above the balcony, your mother has a cold. ”
Jiali was really grateful, and she didn't bother talking to the child anymore, so she went straight into the room and quickly changed into a down jacket.
At this time, I finally felt that my body warmed up a little.
She walked out, and her son said, "Mom, you're not cold, are you?"Go drink some hot water and don't catch a cold. ”
Jiali is in a very good mood, she thinks her son is really warm.
She squatted down and said, "Okay, Mom isn't cold anymore, it's warm now when I'm dressed, and you've helped close the doors and windows, it's okay." ”
Okay, it's good that mom isn't cold.
Mom can't just catch a cold, Dad said to take care of Mom. ”
Listening to Jiali, now she not only feels that her body is warm, but even her heart is warm.
Okay, let's go play, mom goes to the kitchen to see what grandma cooks. ”
Well, Mom, then I'm going to play. ”
Just as Jiali wanted to get up, her phone rang.
She took it out and saw that it was her husband.
She immediately answered: "Jiali, it's cooled down, are you gone, if not, I'll pick you up." ”
Jiali quickly replied to him: "I'm all at home, don't worry, it's okay." ”
When my husband heard that she was home, he was relieved: "Okay, then it's okay, I'll go home now." ”
Hung up**. Jiali put her phone on the table, and then walked into the kitchen: "Mom, what delicious food did you make?."”
Didn't do anything delicious, now stir-fry beef and celery, you like to eat. The mother-in-law said with a smile.
The family was happy: "Mom, you are so good to me."
Why do you always make food for me?You can also cook a little more of your favorite dishes. ”
The mother-in-law laughed at Mimi: "I don't have any special favorite dishes, as long as you like them, I like them." Fu Bo is coming back soon.
When he gets home, I'll fry the last greens so that it will be fresher and not so cool. ”
Mom is so thoughtful, do you want me to help?Although she was favored by her parents when she was not married before, she did everything she needed to cook and do housework, and she could go to the hall and the kitchen.
And also willing to give, willing to learn.
No, no, by the way, I heard you sneeze just now, I'll boil a little green onion and radish ginger water for you to drink, be careful not to really catch a cold. ”
Jiali saw her mother-in-law turn around and go to get the radish, she felt that she was really happy, the family cared so much about her, she really couldn't do it.
When the mother-in-law had cut the turnips, she heard a knock at the door.
She immediately walked out: "I'm back, hug my brother." ”
My husband just wanted to hug her, but when he saw her wearing a down jacket, he immediately retreated: "Don't, I haven't changed my coat yet, and it will stain your clothes later."
Wait until I'm done in the shower, shall we?
It seems that you are quite obedient tonight, and you are actually wearing thick clothes, unlike the usual ones who always ask me to urge you to do so. ”
My husband said with a concerned face.
Jiali looked at her husband, her eyes were full of love: "Brother, didn't I feel cold when I first came back, and I sneezed several times in a row, so I specially put on thick clothes?"
Don't take a shower yet, the dishes are ready, let's eat first. ”
Jiali said, and hurriedly urged her husband to wash his hands.
Fu Bo has always been a wife slave, and a man who says what his wife says, of course he will be obedient.
He turned and went into the kitchen to wash his hands.
Seeing that his mother was playing with ginger, he asked curiously;"Mom, who is this for?".”
What about Jiali, she came back from work just now and sneezed a few times in a row, probably because she was cold, and there was a green vegetable that was not fried, you can copy it. ”
Fu Bo couldn't care about stir-frying, so he turned his face and asked, "Lili, do you have a cold?"Hurry up and get a cup of hot water first. ”
Although Jiali didn't want to drink it, since her husband was so worried, she was obedient.
I poured myself a cup of hot water and drank it at once.
Fu Bo fried the vegetables.
After a few minutes, the dish is ready.
The family began to eat.
It was already completely dark outside, and the wind was so strong that it was banging on the doors and windows, especially the windows were making a sound.
It's too windy outside, Lili, you have dinner tonight, and then you have to go to bed early, don't stay up late, wear a little more tomorrow, don't catch a cold. ”
Jiali felt that her husband was making a fuss, so she coquettishly said, "This is too exaggerated, brother?".Okay, I see, I will. ”
Jiali ate a small half bowl of rice, and she felt that she couldn't eat it anymore, so she poured it to her husband.
Then I wanted to go in and take a shower.
Jiali, don't take a bath yet, drink the ginger syrup I boiled, drink it while it's hot, drink it until you sweat slightly, and then take a shower after the sweat is dry. ”
Mother-in-law told her.
Okay, I got it. "Belle will be back soon.
Mom, you have to be obedient, you must drink it all. ”
Belle looked at her son's quirky appearance, and she laughed.
I quickly drank the ginger soup.
When she just wanted to wash, her husband had already walked behind her: "Okay, just put the bowl there, I'll wash it later, you go and sit on the sofa." ”
Jiali obediently put down the bowl in her hand and walked directly to the sofa.
She sat down and looked at her mother-in-law, husband and son, who were still eating at this time, and felt a lot of emotion in her heart.
If it weren't for her mother-in-law's insistence, perhaps, she wouldn't have the happiness she has today.
Five years ago, she had a high fever in a severe cold, and her husband was so anxious that he sent her to the hospital.
As a result, she was diagnosed with lupus erythematosus.
At that time, Belle didn't know what this lupus erythematosus was.
But seeing the doctor's expression is not very good.
She had a bad premonition.
The doctor told her in detail about the disease.
Then, he asked her again: "Are you married and have children?"”
Jiali replied very seriously: "I'm married, but I haven't had children yet, what's wrong?"”
In fact, for this disease, doctors generally recommend not to blindly give birth, but if you really want to give birth, then you can also give birth under the guidance of the doctor. ”
When Jiali heard this, her heart instantly cooled.
This means that it will be difficult for her to get pregnant and have a child?
She couldn't believe it.
Then came out crying.
After her husband saw her.
Very anxious to ask;"What's the matter, Lili, why are you crying?".”
Jiali looked at her husband, who had only been married to her for half a year, and she was sad: "I, the doctor said that I had lupus erythematosus, and also said that it was better not to have children."
What to do?Brother, or, or, let's get a divorce. ”
What stupid things are you talking about?We've only been married for half a year, didn't we say okay?No matter what happens in the future, we must hold each other's hands and grow old together. ”
But, brother, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid that I'm going to drag you down.
If the doctor says this disease, you must pay attention to your body in the future, especially if you can't catch a cold casually.
Because a small cold could kill me.
Brother, let's get a divorce, I don't want to drag you down, you are so good, you should have your own children, if I can't help you have children.
I'd rather not be with you. ”
Jiali said, her heart hurts, it really hurts, like a thousand arrows piercing her heart.
In the past, many people said that they couldn't be with the person they loved the most, and their hearts were like knives, but now, she finally understands this truth.
She can't remember exactly how she got home that day.
I just remember that my husband comforted her all the way and kept making all kinds of promises to her, just like when he proposed to her.
Jiali was very touched in her heart.
However, she really can't be so selfish, if she is sick, she will drag down her husband, and she can't help it.
She really loves her husband and hopes that he can be very happy in the future, so since she learned about this disease, she has a thought in her mind.
Can't drag down the husband.
Even if she can have a child, can she be so selfish and drag a bad body to be with him?
He is obviously very good, and very cultivated, and more importantly, he is the man she loves the most in her life, how can she be willing to let him accompany her to endure hardships?
When she returned home, she lost her temper with her husband: "I said that I want a divorce, why don't you listen?"
After the divorce, you will find a better and healthy one in the future, and then you will get married and have children together.
Don't let me drag you down anymore. ”
Jiali, listen to me, don't talk about divorce anymore, didn't the doctor say it, this disease, as long as you listen to the doctor's advice, your body will be fine, and it will have no impact on your life.
Why do you have to get a divorce?
I Fu Bo will only have one wife for your life, If you insist on divorce, then I will be lonely and old in the future, and I will not remarry. ”
Seeing her husband's serious look, Jiali cried even more sadly.
However, I feel sorry for you, I can't give you a baby, I feel ashamed of you. "Jiali still wants to persuade her husband to divorce.
But her husband touched her face with his hand;"Don't get divorced, don't talk about divorce in the future.
The two of us just have to be fine, whether we have children or not, we have to be together.
I don't have to have you to have children, as long as we are together, I feel very happy. ”
Belle looked at her husband, and she asked another question;"But if your mother asks, how do you explain it to her?
She worked so hard to bring you up, and now you want to dink with me, and you can't have offspring, then she will definitely not agree. ”
Jiali actually wants to continue to be with her husband in her heart, but she feels that she will be burdened by her.
It's okay, I'll take the initiative to tell her, I'll say it's my problem, it's that I don't want children.
You can rest assured that it will not hinder her impression of you.
Don't get a divorce, I can convince my mom. ”
Jiali still didn't feel at ease: "But, I don't want you to work so hard for me."
You could have had a better life. ”
Her husband kissed her;"I can only be happy when I live with you.
If I can't be with you, then I don't want a good life, and I feel sorry. You promise me not to talk about divorce in the future, okay?
Don't scare me, your illness is not serious, just pay attention to your body. ”
Belle looked at her husband, and she finally nodded.
In this way, they still commute to work normally and live a normal life.
But the only difference is that since then, my husband has taken care of many things in housework and life.
He was afraid that the beauty would be tired, so he took care of her very carefully.
Belle sometimes feels guilty.
Obviously, his health is not good, and his husband can find a better one, but for her, he is willing to work hard.
And don't let her do anything more.
Fortunately, after she took the medicine normally, everything was normal.
However, paper can't hold the fire.
After a year of marriage, Jiali's stomach did not move, which aroused the strong curiosity of her mother-in-law.
She always chats with them, consciously or unconsciously, and often says things like giving birth.
Openly and secretly, they all told Jiali to hurry up and have a baby.
Every time the beauty is played, it passes.
But how can my mother-in-law give up?
Finally, one day, my mother-in-law came to the door.
That day, Jiali and her husband were watching a movie together at home.
The doorbell rang.
As soon as she wanted to get up, her husband motioned for her to sit down, and he went to open the door.
Seeing that it was her mother-in-law, Jiali was a little nervous.
After all, there is something in her heart, and she always feels sorry for her husband.
Mom, why are you here?Sit down. Jiali politely called her mother-in-law.
Actually, Belle and her mother-in-law didn't get along much.
She and her husband met when they were in college, and the two fell in love, and they have been together ever since, until they graduated from college, and her husband took her to meet her mother-in-law.
After meeting her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law was very satisfied with her.
Because she is very sensible and a more regular person, plus the family's economic conditions are not bad, her mother-in-law likes her very much.
The marriage between her and her husband was soon agreed by the parents of both parties.
The parents agreed, and the rest of the matter was even more logical.
After getting married, Jiali and her husband lived a very sweet life together.
As for the mother-in-law, she is also a person with a great sense of boundaries, and she did not propose to live with them.
This made Belle breathe a sigh of relief.
In the past, my mother-in-law was also very sensible and rarely came to their house.
But this time, I came without saying hello.
It's not quite like her usual style.
So, there must be something to say.
My husband made tea.
The mother-in-law looked at the beauty and her husband, and she first asked her son;"Fu Bo, your Aunt Dong asked me to drink full moon wine, and then I came by the way, thinking that today happened to be the weekend, and I wanted to call the two of you together. ”
Fu Bo glanced at Jiali, Jiali didn't want to go, and then Fu Bo immediately understood and replied to his mother: "Mom, that's the case, Jiali is not feeling well today, so the two of us won't go for the time being."
If you want to go, go by yourself and have fun. ”
The mother-in-law looked at Jiali, and she immediately asked with concern, "Jiali, what's wrong with you?"Got a cold?Do you feel sick and want to throw up?”
Jiali felt that her mother-in-law's words were stable, and she simply had something to say.
She was a little embarrassed: "No, Mom, I'm just very tired, a little sleepy, so I want to sleep, I won't go, or you can take Fu Bo with you." ”
The beauty can see that in fact, the mother-in-law likes them very much.
But I really don't want to go, and if I go, I will definitely be asked about having a child.
She didn't want to face that kind of scene, she felt that when the time came, she would definitely cry with sadness.
So, she chose not to go.
As for her husband, she didn't want to disappoint her mother-in-law.
Since the mother-in-law has called, then let the husband go with her, which is also very good.
Ah, I want to sleep, I'm still very tired and sleepy, beauty, you, aren't you pregnant?The mother-in-law asked in surprise.
Jiali felt even more embarrassed, her current body would never be pregnant.
Even if she wants to get pregnant, but her husband doesn't allow it, every time he does a good job, he has no chance of getting pregnant at all.
Mom, you think of **, it's not pregnant, Jiali is not pregnant for the time being, okay, don't ask, I'll follow you.
Let Jiali take a good rest at home, she is really tired. ”
Okay, Jiali, then you must sleep well, don't catch a cold, since you are not pregnant, then you two, you have to hurry.
You see, your Aunt Dong's grandchildren have all been born.
This time you come with me and let you see other people's cute little babies.
Beauty, you wait, I'll shoot ** for you later. ”
Belle nodded.
The husband went into the room and changed into a more formal set of clothes.
Then the mother and son went out together.
Belle looked at their backs as they left, feeling sad.
When the door was shut, she cried out in grief.
Actually, why doesn't she want to be a mother?
But is your body really allowed?
After her husband and mother-in-law left, she was not in the mood to watch a movie, so she went back to her room to sleep, and then remembered that she had not eaten lunch.
I went outside and ordered myself a bowl of noodles and put an egg and tomatoes.
A bowl of fragrant noodles will do just fine.
While she was sitting and eating noodles, she took out her phone and searched for whether a person with lupus erythematosus could have a baby.
As a result, she saw hope.
She saw a lot of people's answers.
In fact, it is possible, as long as you follow the doctor, there is basically no big problem.
But there are also failures.
However, when she thought of her husband's reluctance to divorce her, and she didn't want her husband to have no children.
So, she is still willing to give it a go.
Of course, whether it is successful or not, of course she cares very much.
She eats the noodles as she watches.
My husband is back.
She picked it up: "Lili, have you eaten?"I was in such a hurry to go out that I forgot to make you lunch before leaving. ”
Jiali listened to her husband's considerate voice, she was really moved.
It's okay, I ordered a bowl of noodles by myself, you can rest assured, I'm not disabled anymore, I can take care of myself.
Don't worry. ”
Her husband told her some things again, and she hung up.
After hanging up, Jiali continued to read the news on the Internet.
She found that many patients were married and had children, and she wondered if she could give it a try
She is very confident that if she pays attention to herself, she may be able to succeed.
The thought of having a child for herself and her husband made Belle feel so excited that she couldn't even sleep.
Around 2 p.m., my husband and mother-in-law returned.
As soon as they saw the beauty, the husband asked, "Beauty, why don't you sleep yet?"It's so late, you need to rest more. ”
Brother, I can't sleep a little, so I won't sleep for the time being, I'd better go to bed early tonight. Belle replied to him while drinking water.
Beauty, the full moon wine we drank today, that baby, is really chubby, it's really cute, it's a pity, you didn't go, otherwise, you will definitely like it very much. ”
The mother-in-law said to her while handing the small candy she had brought back to Belle.
Jiali didn't want to spoil the fun, so she took the initiative to respond: "Really?"Mom, I also want to have a child with Fu Bo. It doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl. ”
Jiali said, deliberately glancing at her husband's side.
When Fu Bo heard this, he immediately became nervous, and both hands trembled a little.
Mom, don't listen to Lili's nonsense, we, we have no plans to have children for the time being, you, just live your own life, don't care about us so much. ”
You child, what are you talking like, how can you do if you get married and don't have children, the beauties all said that they wanted to give birth, but you said that you wouldn't give birth here, don't be disappointed, beauties, don't listen to him, you still have to give birth to one. ”
Jiali quickly replied patiently: "Mom, I know, I will help persuade Fu Bo, don't worry about it, you just eat and drink well every day, and when I am pregnant, when the time comes, you will have a grandson to hug." ”
What?Lili, are you crazy?The doctor said that you can't get pregnant. ”
As soon as my husband's words came out, everyone was a little surprised.
What does that mean?Can't get pregnant.
Belle looked at her mother-in-law with a little guilt, and her mother-in-law looked at her again with a face full of disbelief.
Tell me, what the hell is going on, why can't you get pregnant?What the hell is wrong with you?”
Jiali's tears fell instantly, she was helpless and guilty, and she felt that she was dragging her husband down.
Now, my mother-in-law also knew, but she was not mentally prepared.
The mother-in-law saw the beauty crying, and she asked with concern, "What's wrong?"Beauty, tell your mother the truth, what the hell is going on?Don't hide it from me, Fu Bo said you can't get pregnant”
Belle just cried, she shook her head.
Fu Bo walked over, he looked at his mother;"Mom, don't ask Jiali like this anymore, she is actually helpless now.
Let me tell you why.
Jiali, in fact, she suffered from lupus erythematosus, an immune disease that has no cure, and the doctor suggested that for the sake of her body, it is best not to have children.
So, Mom, don't force Belle to have a baby anymore.
I don't want to lose her. ”
After her husband finished speaking, the beauty was already crying.
It's okay, Jiali, this disease, my former aunt also had it.
She hasn't had three children yet.
It's okay, just listen to the doctor, who said that this disease can't have children?Fu Bo, since Jiali also wants to have children, why don't you cooperate with her well?
Husband and wife, you must work together to have a child.
While she is still young, her mother doesn't ask for more, she just needs one child, whether it's a boy or a girl.
It's better to give birth to one. It's okay to listen to the doctor, Fu Bo, you also have to believe in the current doctor, it's really okay, my aunt lived to be in her 80s before leaving.
I think Belle can too. ”
Of course, the mother-in-law wants a grandson, and from her point of view, this is understandable.
However, Fu Bo still disagreed.
Mom, I know it's okay to give birth, but in this case, Lili will need to take on more dangers, and I still don't want her to give birth.
I'm just going to live with her for the rest of my life. You don't have to persuade anymore, you really don't want to give birth. ”
Beauty, what is your attitude?Mom just wants to know, do you really want to give birth?The mother-in-law didn't look at her son, but at the beauty.
Mom, I also want to give birth, I swiped a lot of content at noon today.
In fact, it can be born, as long as you pay special attention.
Mom, I still want to give birth, I think I can. ”
Lily. Don't you be impulsive and don't influence your decisions because of my mom?I could live like this with you for the rest of my life, but I don't accept losing you. ”
Belle didn't know what her husband thought, but it was precisely because he loved herself that she also wanted to work hard to have a child for him.
Brother, just promise me, you really want a child. If you don't agree, then let's get a divorce, I really don't want to live like this. ”
The mother-in-law persuaded again: "Fu Bo, you can't be so selfish, you have to respect Jiali's choice, since Jiali herself wants children, you have to support and cooperate with her." ”
The husband was persuaded by his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in turn, and he finally nodded and agreed.
The three of them were very happy hugging each other.
After that, the mother-in-law lived in the house of the beauties.
Her husband has been taking her to the doctor.
Then, on the advice of the doctor, I successfully conceived, and the physical indicators were very good, without any accidents.
She was also healthy at the time of the prenatal check-up.
And her mother-in-law also took care of her very carefully, and throughout her pregnancy, Jiali still commuted to work as usual.
The difference is that when she returns home, her mother-in-law takes care of her in various ways.
In order to keep her from lacking nutrition, he often cooks for her with different tastes, and never lets her do housework.
Finally, she was pregnant in October, and Jiali gave birth to a fat son of 6 pounds and 6 pounds.
My mother-in-law was pleased.
However, she also did not forget the hardest beauty.
When the beauty was confined, the mother-in-law held the beauty in the palm of her hand.
Belle feels very happy.
The mother-in-law did not treat the beauty badly because of the birth of her grandson, but took more care of her, and was afraid that the beauty would be tired, so she often took on the responsibility of taking care of the child.
Her husband also takes good care of her.
And so it has been until now.
Thinking of this, Jiali still feels very embarrassed.
How lucky she was to meet such a good husband and mother-in-law.
And the son is now three years old, and under the influence of his father and grandmother, he takes care of her very much, and he is a very warm man.
Belle couldn't ask for anything more.
At this time, the son also finished eating.
He washed his hands and walked over: "Mom, what are you thinking?"”
Her son's voice shattered her thoughts.
She touched her son's head and smiled: "Mom didn't think about anything?".Mom thinks that you are an angel sent by God to protect Mom. ”
Mom, I love you. ”
I love you too. ”
My husband also came over.
Lili, now you can go take a bath, wash faster, do you want me to help?”
Jiali was suddenly a little ashamed, although she has been married for many years, she is still a little shy when it comes to intimacy with her husband.
No, no, you don't come. ”
Her husband kept laughing when he looked at her.
Belle saw her son and husband sitting on the couch.
She was really happy and happy.
Although I am sick, I have a family that loves me so much.
What else does she have to regret?
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