When a couple decides to divorce, the children tend to feel great pain and distress. They may experience negative emotions such as anxiety, restlessness, frustration, and loneliness, and may even have doubts about their own worth. In this case, the children need to take some steps to redeem and dissuade their parents from divorcing.
Children can try to communicate with their parents. Communication with parents is the key to solving problems, and through communication with parents, it is possible to understand their thoughts and feelings, and at the same time, you can also express your feelings and ideas to them. During communication, children need to be calm and respectful and not try to blame or criticize their parents.
Children can try to make their parents aware of their needs and desires. Parents may ignore their children's needs and desires because they are emotional, therefore, children need to express their thoughts and feelings in communication so that parents understand their needs and desires.
Children can try to seek professional help. If there is a deep conflict between parents, children can seek professional help such as family counseling or legal assistance. These professional agencies can help children with their confusion and problems and provide them with better solutions.
In the process of reassuring parents, children need to pay attention to the following points. First and foremost, children need to respect their parents' choices. Parents may divorce for emotional reasons, and children need to respect their choices and not try to interfere with their decisions. Second, children need to be calm and objective. In the process of comforting parents, children need to remain calm and objective, and not bring their own emotions and prejudices into the process of comforting. Finally, children need to help their parents with conflicts as much as possible. Children can try to provide their parents with some solutions and suggestions to help them ease conflicts and promote family harmony.
When parents decide to divorce, children need to take some steps to redeem the dissuasion. They can do this by communicating with their parents, letting them know about their needs and desires, and seeking professional help. At the same time, in the process of comforting parents, children need to pay attention to respecting their parents' choices, staying calm and objective, and helping parents to ease conflicts as much as possible. Only in this way can the family return to a harmonious and happy state.