Sometimes I wonder what kind of life I wantBrocade clothes and jade food are indeed what everyone yearns for;Isn't worry-free food and clothing a choice?Who doesn't love fame and fortune?But ordinary and plain is not a real life. The Tang Dynasty poet Wang Wei was ambitious in his youth, proud of his officialdom, but he couldn't bear it and wanted to live in seclusion in the mountains. His officialdom is proud, but it is the pursuit of Li Bai, Du Fu, and Meng Haoran all their lives. Sometimes I think that this may be the arrangement of fate, and people still want human lives!
Time flies by like a white horse. If you accidentally usher in 2024, looking back on the past year, what have you gained?Busy, going out early and returning late, in the end he is still a mediocre little person, this may be fate!is destined to be a small person, so why force something that doesn't belong to you?
Lotus Pattern remembers that in the past few years, there was a general wave of entrepreneurship in society, which may also be related to the country's policies. At that time, we advocated "mass entrepreneurship and innovation", so people started the road of entrepreneurship, from the first to the peddler's pawn, but whenever there is a small business, you can proudly say that you are starting a business. It seems that an entrepreneurial boss said that on the road of entrepreneurship, everyone who makes money says that they are doing business, and only those who do not make money say that they are starting a business. At first, I thought it was a little biased, but then I thought about it carefully.
In the upcoming new year, it's time to get your attitude right. We used to pay too much attention to those entrepreneurial stars and industry leaders, and always thought that knowing more would help us, but in fact this is not the case, their good and bad have nothing to do with me, and we will only waste a lot of time in vain. Therefore, in the new year, instead of looking up to others, it is better to work hard to improve yourself and make yourself more competitive in the future life, which is the most important thing.
The bat pattern itself is an ordinary person, so he also knows that mortals counterattack by relying on 5% progress each time. This is actually the same as what we said before that one percent improvement every day, if we can do whatever we do, we can improve ourselves by 5% every time, which seems to be very small, but if we can persevere, perseverance, there will be a great change in our future, and we will receive a reborn self.
Many times, completion is more important than perfection, and iterating in each completion is progress. In the past, we always pursued perfection and always wanted to do things perfectly, but in the adjustment again and again, we wasted not only time, but more importantly, a great opportunity. We all know that opportunities are fleeting, there is nothing perfect in this world, and when we were children, textbooks told us that no one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Sometimes incompleteness is also a kind of beauty, and it is a good thing to do things to achieve the best results, but this also needs to be done under continuous correction. Everything is developing and changing, and nothing is immutable, so we must learn to look at things from the perspective of development, and only in this way can we continue to improve and achieve the best results.
In the new year, to learn to control life, it is actually time management. And the essence of time management is to manage yourself. What you're going to manage is what you're doing during that time, your life project, which in layman's terms is to break away. This is similar to the Qing Dynasty poet Zheng Banqiao's "willingness". The so-called renunciation is actually a kind of trade-off, which ones should be left behind, and which ones should be abandonedThis is something we need to identify ourselves. This avenue is also the same, the real avenue is not esoteric and obscure, and it is difficult to understand. On the contrary, it is known to women and children, and it is simple and easy to understand.
At the same time, we should constantly improve our ideological realm and make an upward leap, relying on quitting low-level happiness. There is nothing inherently wrong with pursuing happiness, but there are high and low levels of happiness. Luo Xiang once said that when you indulge in low-level happiness, you are actually indulging in the happiness of animals, forgetting the happiness that human beings should have. When you indulge in these low-level pleasures, you are unconsciously engulfed by your own desires.
What is the so-called low-level happiness?Seeing it is a joy that can be felt with very little input. For example, games, gambling, short**, etc., these things don't always require too much energy to feel visual happiness. When a person indulges in low-level pleasures, he is reluctant to work improving himself. But this kind of happiness is like spiritual opium, which can only temporarily paralyze oneself, and what should be faced is still to be faced, so instead of temporarily paralyzing oneself, it is better to solve it for a long time, and make up one's mind to work hard to improve oneself. The so-called rather than envy the fish in the abyss, it is better to retreat and close the net, in fact, this is the truth.
In the new year, don't hesitate, don't hesitate, firm goals, make more money, make more money, less internal friction.