Marriage is like two stars meeting in the vast universe, illuminating each other and leaning on each other.
Marriage is a commitment for two people to spend their lives together, and it is a beautiful thing that two hearts are intertwined.
Marriage, like a bright lighthouse, guides each other's direction and sails together in the ocean of life.
Sometimes, the stars go off track and get lost in the vastness of the universe.
Married men will also be attracted by the outside world and "accidentally" cheat.
Many people have asked that,Why do men cheat and what is the psychology of cheating men?
It is said that men cheat, most of them can't control the lower body.
To be honest, this sentence sums it up quite well, but it is not comprehensive enough.
In fact,There are usually these 3 reasons why a married man has an "extramarital affair", which is very realistic!
1.Emotional needs, using extramarital affairs as a safe haven.
In a marital relationship, when men feel a lack of love, they may seek external emotional fulfillment.
This emotional need often stems from communication barriers, lack of attention, or emotional distancing in marriage.
In this case, the affair becomes a safe haven for them to feel the warmth of being cared for and needed.
This psychological need arises not by chance, it is related to the quality of intimacy in marriage, the individual's ability to express emotions, and self-perception.
Some men may choose to find an emotional compensation by cheating for various reasons, because their emotional needs are not met.
However, this kind of behavior does not really solve the problem and can lead to further deterioration of the marital relationship.
2.Life is boring, and the extramarital affair is used as a restaurant.
The daily chores and repetitive patterns in married life can be tiresome for some men.
In this case, the affair becomes a "restaurant" that offers fresh excitement and variety.
This thrill-seeking psychological need may stem from an individual's desire for novelty and variety, as well as dissatisfaction with an ordinary life.
This psychological need may be related to the individual's personality traits, life experiences, and values.
Some men may be more inclined to pursue novelty and excitement, and extramarital affairs provide just that opportunity.
However, this kind of behavior does not really solve the problem of boring life, but can lead to more troubles and consequences.
3.Value satisfaction, treat extramarital affairs as an arena.
Some men may cheat to satisfy their competitive and conquering desires.
They see extramarital affairs as an arena in which they try to prove that they are still attractive and charismatic.
The emergence of this situation is related to men's self-esteem, self-confidence and self-perception.
Some men may feel that their worth is not fully recognized and affirmed for various reasons, so they choose to prove their charm and worth by cheating.
Unfortunately, this kind of behavior doesn't really boost self-worth, and it can also make men slowly lose themselves.
Actually,The psychology of a cheating man is made up of a variety of factors.
It may be a lack of love, it may be looking for excitement, it may be to prove yourself, or it may be a combination of several situations.
Therefore, we can't simply say that a man cheats because he can't control his lower body.
In fact,Mental derailment is also a kind of derailment.
Finally, I want to say that,Marriage is a commitment
In the face of **, the upper body and lower body must be managed ......